The best education for children is to first become a successful person and a person who can make a lot of money. Rather than a desperate chicken baby.

If you cannot become a successful person, cannot make much money, and are a loser, the best education for your children is to first admit your incompetence, then let go and let your children develop and grow freely. .

Parents in many families, especially some so-called middle-class parents, have mediocre qualifications and average IQs just because they went to a decent university and have a job that seems respectable.

For example, white-collar workers in high-end office buildings, who type on keyboards or write code every day, receive a salary that is no more or less than those who work in factory workshops or deliver food. , but it is not very high. Excluding the car loan, house loan and daily expenses, there is basically not much left, and life is relatively tight.

But in such families, many parents particularly like chicken babies. In fact, their children have the same mediocre qualifications and abilities as their parents. They are not the kind with extraordinary bones and smart talents. This can also be seen at a glance. You can tell.

But they hope that their children can stand out in the future and become successful. They are not strict with their children's studies on weekdays, and spend a lot of time a week to sign up for various cram schools, and some even learn about morality, intelligence and physical education. To develop in an all-round way, they can learn piano, guzheng, Latin dance, some Chinese studies, etc.

The vast majority of parents in these families cannot be considered elites themselves, at best they can be considered pseudo-elites. The real elite must be the person who controls most of the resources of this society and can decide the fate of many people.

But most of them are very ordinary. They are stupid birds, but they hope that they hatched an egg and then let the little bird that was born fly as hard as possible and become an eagle.

In fact, their direction is wrong. If they want their children to succeed and get ahead, they should set an example, work hard to make money, work hard to build a career, and let themselves become The rich generation, not the desperate chicken babies.

To know the fate of a person, in fact, most people have already decided it when they were born. Dragons give birth to dragons and phoenixes, and mice give birth to sons who can dig holes. When a person is born, his family background actually determines more than 90% of his destiny.

Today’s society is no longer a society where the destiny of a family can be changed through the imperial examination system. Even if you are admitted to 985 or even Tsinghua and Peking University, after graduation, you can only find a job with a monthly salary of tens of thousands. This is still an extremely ideal situation. Most people can't get into such a good school or get such a high salary.

If you want to make big money, you must either master certain resources and be able to get money-making projects that others cannot do, or you must start your own business successfully, and these all require background. Who can do these successful things right after graduating from college? It all depends on their family background.

The ultimate ideal outcome for the parents of these chicken babies is nothing more than to get into a good university. But after graduating from college, you still have to go to the market to find a job. In the end, buying a house, buying a car, finding a partner, and getting married, without the help of parents, most of the current market conditions are simply impossible to complete independently. Changing your destiny through learning can be said to be a slim hope.

In today's families, there are some mothers who are particularly anxious. These mothers, when they choose a spouse when they are young, usually do not get high-level or low-level spouses. I wanted to find a successful man, but I couldn't find one due to my own conditions. In the end, I had no choice but to find a man with mediocre qualifications, mediocre income, no money and no background.

But she really wanted to get ahead. She had no hope of success, so she put all her hopes on this child. This was the reason why she worked so hard to be a chicken baby.

Children who grow up in such a family background are a tragedy and a victim when they are born. Inexplicably, they become the spiritual sustenance of the whole family and are burdened with huge mental pressure.

These are the people and parents who don’t have much ability themselves. If they don’t work hard, they always place their hopes on their next generation. But this is simply impossible. There are miracles, but Not common.

But many well-off, successful parents, and wealthy people will not go all out to get rid of chicken babies. Their mentality is not so distorted and relatively peaceful.

People with truly high cognition and truly strong psychology will not give others too high and unrealistic fantasies. He hopes that his children will do well, but he will usually take the initiative to work hard, create, fight hard, and strive to make the family better, so that the children can see and learn from him, so that the children can be influenced by it and be influenced by positive influences. Influence.

For many lower-class and poorer families, as parents, they often play cards and gamble, some even cheat, take drugs, and do not do their jobs properly, but they hope that their children can focus on studying and working hard. Changing the fate of the family is simply a wishful dream and a wishful fantasy.

Therefore, for parents who are average and not very good, in fact, the best education they can give their children is not to interfere too much with their children's free development, and not to give more advice to their children. If a child wants to study, he can go to school. It is up to him what major he wants to study and which university he wants to apply for.

If a child does not want to study and wants to enter the society and work hard early, his parents had better support him. First of all, my family doesn't have that much money, and more importantly, I come from the lower class of society, have low cognition, and my understanding of society is basically wrong. The decisions made are basically polar opposites and one-sided. As parents, their entire life of unsuccessful experiences is all there. Children who listen to them are just repeating their ordinary lives.

Therefore, in families with failed families at the bottom, if what the children do is not too excessive, does not ask for something for nothing, or makes some very excessive demands, then support them as much as possible if you can. Cannot support nor interfere with or oppose. Because my class is very low, my knowledge is also very low, and the choices I make are basically wrong. It is better to let the children play freely, and maybe they can make a name for themselves.