Speaking of I love my family, I'm afraid I'm a stranger after 95 and 00.

However, this drama created a precedent for domestic sitcoms.

Even the smash hit expression pack "Ge You Paralysis" comes from here.

Among them, the most played role is Lao Ming.

His performance style of Wen Xingyu's "grandfather accent" later became the object of imitation by many "comedy veteran cadres".

Today, it has been fifteen years since my father died of lung cancer, but his screen classics have never been surpassed.

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When Wen Xingyu's name became a household name, people thought he was a cross-border actor.

After all, he was in his early fifties and didn't see much of his work before.

I didn't know he was a professional.

Wen Xingyu, a backbone of literature and art since childhood, was a member of the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama as early as 1960. After graduation, he entered the Central Experimental Theatre.

However, the actor industry is quite special.

After all, it has to appear on the screen, so the requirement for face value has always been high, as it was decades ago.

Wen Xingyu has an iconic big die. If he plays a positive role, he doesn't seem like a good person when he smiles.

But playing the villain. His 1 m 83 height has "overwhelming" restrictions on excellent people and is not suitable.

So what should we do?

Just be a director! Become a conductor.

There is gold shining everywhere, so it is perfect to wear it on Wen Xingyu.

His dramatic works such as Treasure of He, True Story of Ah Q and Song of the Wind all shine brilliantly and won the Golden Lion Award.

You know, this award is subsidized by the State Council, which belongs to the highest government drama award.

Although the cause has not made great strides, it is also climbing step by step, and Wen Xingyu's peach blossom is quietly blooming.

At that time, many people still found their other half by the words of the matchmaker.

Wen Xingyu fell in love with freedom, and found Zhang Kejing with his bald head.

Zhang Kejing used to be a diver in the national team, and she starred in a film called "Female Divers".

The film was filmed for nearly eight months and could have earned 300 yuan.

As a result, the State Sports Commission at that time was not allowed to charge fees, which was equivalent to volunteering to star in this film.

Although Wen Xingyu was also engaged in literary and artistic work at that time, he did not know Zhang Kejing.

One day, my colleague recommended Wen Xingyu to watch the movie "Female Diver", saying that the protagonist was a particularly beautiful girl.

Somehow, fate came.

After retiring from the swimming team, Zhang Kejing and Wen Xingyu were transferred to a unit, namely the experimental theater.

The secretary of the theater made a special trip to take Zhang Kejing to Wen Xingyu and asked him to take care of his younger generation.

If you have nothing to do, eat together and go shopping in department stores together, and "revolutionary friendship" will naturally heat up into love.

1967, Zhang Kejing, who was less than 20 years old, decided to marry Wen Xingyu, who was six years older than himself.

Neither of them had much money, so Wen Xingyu specially found a relatively new cotton-padded jacket in the Chinese tunic suit and took out his trousers to make up a new patch.

Zhang Kejing wore a pair of fairly new pants from menstruation, and didn't deliberately buy new clothes.

In this way, there was no ceremony, and the two simply got married.

Hold your hand and grow old with your son.

In the long years that followed, Zhang Kejing gave Wen Xingyu great support in his career, and Wen Xingyu gave Zhang Kejing endless romance in his life.

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If Ying Da hadn't let Wen Xingyu play the role of Lao Fu in I Love My Family, Wen Xingyu would still have devoted himself to drama.

In the role of Lao Fu, Wen Xingyu was not the first choice at first.

According to the storyline, Lao Fu is a particularly important role in the whole play.

The character is over 60 years old, so he should have experience. The director is looking for actor Zhu Xu first.

Unfortunately, due to the scheduling problem, it is impossible.

While looking for a more suitable actor in Ying Da, Wen Xingyu, who is already the vice president of the Theatre Academy, was recommended to Ying Da.

To say that the relationship between Ying Da and Wen Xingyu is an old acquaintance, both of them * * * have appeared in the film and television drama "Love you is not negotiable".

It's just that Wen Xingyu has always been behind the scenes, occasionally playing some small roles with few scenes.

This time, Ying Da came to see you with a heavy starring role, which made Wen Xingyu feel beaten.

At that time, he was 52 years old and the role he needed to play was almost 70 years old, which was also a challenge for Wen Xingyu.

His wife Zhang Kejing has been encouraging him. In Zhang Kejing's mind, Wen Xingyu's acting skill, always online, has no suitable opportunity for him to give full play.

In this way, with the encouragement of people around him, Wen Xingyu decided to give it a try.

But I told Ying Da that I would try my best to audition for several episodes, but if I didn't think I could, I wouldn't have to take care of my face and change people directly.

In order to better interpret the role of Lao Ming, Wen Xingyu has figured out a kind of "grandfather cavity", which is a bit hoarse.

In order to achieve this effect, Wen Xingyu began to shout at the top of his lungs every day and practice deliberately as soon as he joined the group.

The acoustic effect has been achieved, and the next step is to overcome the speaking style.

The role of Lao Fu is set as a retired veteran cadre. Wen Xingyu thought of his father, who is also a retired veteran cadre and worked in a party school.

The old man is a bit stubborn in life, but he is also a bit naughty. He is a veritable "old boy" and is very close to Lao Fu in this respect.

According to this feeling, satellites, satellites, yu more and more "on the road".

At first, I occasionally spoke too fast or loudly, which was somewhat divorced from the role.

Finally, Wen Xingyu is Lao Fu, and Lao Fu is Wen Xingyu.

Attentive audience will find a pair of black-and-white photos hanging in Lao Fu's bedroom, which is a photo of Wen Xingyu and his lover Zhang Kejing.

When shooting the set at that time, the crew asked Wen Xingyu if there were any photos to hang in the bedroom. After Wen Xingyu came home, she chose this photo with her wife.

In the photo, Wen Xingyu is wearing a hat and Zhang Kejing has neat bangs. They laughed sweetly side by side.

When the photo was taken, the two were still newly married. They went to the park with their colleagues. It was beautiful, talented and beautiful. At the same time, they took this precious photo of them with the camera.

Because Wen Xingyu is used to wearing a hat every time he goes out, grandma Zhang Kejing once mistakenly thought that Wen Xingyu "lost his hair at an early age". Otherwise, how can he wear a hat in Lao Dai?

Actually, it's not. Wen Xingyu has thick hair and wearing a hat is purely a personal hobby.

Until now, Wen Lao has been away for many years, but this photo is still hanging in Zhang Kejing's room.

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With the broadcast of "I Love My Family", the role of Lao Fu is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and satellites are on fire!

Then there are more and more movie contracts.

With fame, advertisers come one after another, but Wen Xingyu insists on the principle of not endorsing those who have never used or understood.

In order to ensure the product quality, Wen Xingyu will test the product on himself.

If he thinks it is really effective, even if the price is very low, he will undertake the publicity.

Although living conditions are getting better and better, life in Wenxingyu is still simple.

An old coat in winter, and those T-shirts are worn back and forth in summer. I have never seen him buy himself any good clothes.

He gave the most extreme tenderness and romance in his life to his lover and children.

As long as he is filming outside, Wen Xingyu will have a fixed thing to do, that is to call his wife Zhang Kejing and tell her what he took today and who he met.

One year, he took Zhang Kejing to buy a blue gem ring.

Zhang Kejing likes that style very much. He was very happy when he put the ring on his hand. Wen Xingyu's face is also permeated with a happy smile.

He told Zhang Kejing that he was very happy to see her happy, and it was really happier to buy something satisfactory for his lover than to buy it for himself.

Such Wen Xingyu has always been the perfect husband in Zhang Ke's mind.

Fu Ming in "I Love My Family" loves hands-on, and Wen Xingyu in reality has strong hands-on ability.

Small objects and furniture at home are all made by Wen Xingyu himself.

Once I painted a newly finished cabinet, because I was worried that the smell of paint would attract mosquitoes, I hung up the mosquito net and went in to paint myself.

Seeing that Zhang Kejing envied others having sofas, Wen Xingyu went to find a pole to make sofa legs and made a multifunctional sofa himself.

You can sit during the day and lie down at night.

When Zhang Ke gave birth to a baby, Wen Xingyu was afraid that the light in the room was too bright, so he took a newspaper and covered all the light bulbs in the room.

Every time she needs to get up in the middle of the night to feed her baby, Wen Xingyu will get up immediately and put a cushion on her back.

Zhang Kejing didn't wash her feet for a whole month for fear of physical stimulation.

As soon as the moon came out, Wen Xingyu brought hot water to wash her carefully. In order to avoid catching cold, she also brought a quilt to cover her.

These actions moved Zhang Kejing.

Unfortunately, the beautiful things in the world are not solid, the colorful clouds are easy to disperse, and the glass is fragile.

I thought the couple could spend a long time together, but in mid-2006, Wen Xingyu suddenly fainted and was taken to the hospital, and was diagnosed with primary lung cancer.

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Wen Xingyu used to be a heavy smoker, smoking about four packs a day.

The cigarettes smoked are not good cigarettes, but a pack of hard shell 555 cigarettes of about ten yuan.

He said that he liked it before he played "I Love My Family".

Years of smoking habits and irregular filming schedules have made Wen Xingyu terminally ill.

At first, he was in a good state of mind, and he kept telling people who came to visit him that he wanted to get better soon and continue acting.

You know, Wen Xingyu is thin, but he is famous for eating more. He once set a record of swallowing five bowls of rice and four bowls of vegetables in one breath.

But in the process of fighting the disease, I gradually lost my appetite and became thinner.

In Wen Xingyu, he was ill in bed for nine months, and Zhang Kejing personally served him.

Wen Xingyu is full of love and attachment to the world.

When his condition gradually deteriorated, Zhang Kejing asked Wen Xingyu several times if he wanted to write something, but Wen Xingyu resolutely refused.

In his view, writing is like saying goodbye.

However, Wen Xingyu's eyesight is declining day by day, and his body is weakening day by day. Finally, he decided to leave some words for Zhang Kejing with paper and pen.

The hand holding the pen is shaking, the text is incomplete, and there are many overlapping parts.

The only thing that can be clearly identified is the word "love".

Zhang Kejing asked him to turn the page and continue to write, while Wen Xingyu wrote: Love you forever.

The most touching love in the world is this. No matter how time passes and what changes, the only constant is to love you.

Youth is gone, but love lasts forever.

These eight words were finally engraved on Wen Xingyu's lying tablet.

In July, 2007, Wen Xingyu left forever, and it was Zhang Kejing's only regret that he failed to get his wife to quit smoking in time.

And nine months of day and night care, let Zhang Ke worship himself already exhausted, unable to cope with the final farewell, Wen Xingyu (meaning don't make a fuss.

However, after the news of his father's death was revealed, Zhang Kejing found that the situation was out of control.

The original funeral was not specially planned and organized, and there was no funeral music. Thanks to the spontaneous arrival of relatives and friends in I Love My Family, Wen Xingyu took the initiative to hold a farewell ceremony.

On the day of the funeral, students who had been in the Chinese Opera Troupe also came to pay their respects, and thousands of enthusiastic fans sent the last journey of Fu Ming's old man Wen Xingyu.

Zhang Kejing felt what it meant to be in tears for the first time, and he felt that his ears would be in tears.

On their wedding anniversary, Zhang Kejing gave Wen Xingyu a red rose, which means they will be together forever.

Now every time she goes to the cemetery, Zhang Kejing still brings a rose, which is the "secret code" of their love.

Although the back is far away, the laughter will last forever.

Today, Wen Xingyu has been away for nearly fifteen years.

It has been 28 years since the classic sitcom "I Love My Family" was broadcast, but the classics and memories he brought us have never been forgotten.