1: When thinking, be like a wise man; but when speaking, be like an ordinary person. --Dale Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

2: People fail not because they have no faith, but because they fail to turn faith into action and persist to the end. --Dale Carnegie, "Human Weaknesses"

3: The saddest person in the world is that he has no advantages to show off, but he uses his pitiful inferiority complex to disgusting arrogance, Boast to cover up. "Human Weaknesses"

4: To succeed, the necessary conditions are to use your desire to enhance your enthusiasm, use your perseverance to smooth the mountains, and at the same time believe that you will succeed. --Dale Carnegie, "Human Weaknesses"

5: If you are unhappy, then the only way to become happy is to sit up straight and pretend to be happy when talking and acting. . ---It is impossible to remain mentally depressed if your actions radiate happiness. This little basic truth can do wonders in our lives. --Dale Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

6: The maturation process of the soul is a continuous process of self-discovery and self-exploration. Unless we understand ourselves first, it will be difficult for us to understand others. --Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

7: Fear is mostly caused by ignorance and uncertainty. -- Dale Carnegie, "The Weaknesses of Human Nature"

8: Lincoln said: "A person who achieves great things cannot care about others, waste his time arguing with others, argue in vain, and criticize his own temperament. Not only will it cause damage, but you will also lose your self-control. Whenever possible, be humble to others. Instead of fighting for the way with a dog, it is better to let the dog take the first step. If you are bitten by a dog, you should give it up. Even if a dog is beaten to death, it will not heal your wounds." --Dale Carnegie, "The Weaknesses of Human Nature" 9: One of human nature is not to accept criticism from others and always think that it is a good thing. He is always right and likes to find all kinds of excuses to defend himself. --Carnegie's "Weaknesses of Human Nature"

10: Many people cannot be good communicators, mainly because they only talk about things that interest them, and these things make other people feel uncomfortable. Boring as hell. -- Dale Carnegie, "Human Weaknesses"

11: If you are criticized, please remember that it is because criticizing you will give him a sense of importance, and it also shows that you are accomplished and attractive. Note that many people get satisfaction from blaming others who are more accomplished than themselves. -- Dale Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

12: Where your interests lie, that is where your abilities lie. -- Dale Carnegie "Human Weakness"

13: For those immature people, they can always find some excuses to cover up some of their own shortcomings or misfortunes. -- Dale Carnegie, "Human Weaknesses"

14: Try to get close to those who understand you, trust you, and encourage you. This will have a great impact on your future success. --Dale Carnegie, "Human Weaknesses"

15: The reason why many lonely and lonely people are like this is because they do not understand that love and friendship are not gifts from the sky. A person must be welcomed or accepted by others. Acceptance requires a lot of effort and price. If we want others to like us, we do need to put in some effort. Love, friendship, or happy times are not something that can be stipulated in a contract. Let us face the reality, whether our husband is dead or our wife is alive. Everyone has the right to live happily, but they must understand that happiness does not rely on others to give you, but to win other people's needs and love for you. --Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

16: If you disagree with another person's opinion, you may want to stop him, but it is best not to do so, which will have no effect. If you want to make enemies, be better than your friends; but if you want to gain friends, be better than your friends. The Germans have a saying: "The purest happiness is the happiness we get from other people's difficulties." Yes, some friends may get more satisfaction from your difficulties than from your victories.

So don't always exaggerate your achievements to others. We must be humble, so that we can always make people like us. We should be humble, because there is nothing great about you and me... --Dale Carnegie, "The Complete Works of Human Weakness"

17: The most important thing is not whether others love us, but that we are worth it Not worthy of love. --Carnegie "The Weaknesses of Human Nature"

18: In the complex modern society, only those who can maintain inner peace will not become mentally ill. People who don't know how to resist worry will live shorter lives. Nothing ages a woman faster and destroys her appearance than worry. What makes you most relaxed and happy is sound faith, sleep, music and laughter. --Have confidence in your future --Be able to sleep peacefully --Look at life from the funny side. Health and happiness are yours. -- Dale Carnegie, "The Complete Collection of Human Weaknesses"

19: Being kind to others is not a responsibility, it is a kind of enjoyment, because it can enhance your health and happiness. When you are good to others, you are also good to yourself. --Dale Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

20: Gratitude is a highly educated product. You cannot get it from ordinary people. It is human nature to forget or not be grateful. -- Dale Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

21: Everyone I meet has something better than me. In this regard, I should learn from them. -- Emerson, "The Weaknesses of Human Nature"

22: Willie James: "In human nature, the deepest nature is the desire to be valued by others." -- Dale Carnegie, "The Weaknesses of Human Nature" Weaknesses"

23: One of the saddest things about human nature is that we all put off living, dreaming of a wonderful rose garden in the horizon, instead of appreciating the flowers blooming in the sky today. Roses outside our window. -- Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

24: Being able to accept the fait accompli is the first step in overcoming any misfortunes that may follow. Being able to accept the worst-case scenario will allow you to develop new abilities psychologically. The biggest disadvantage of worry is that it destroys our ability to concentrate. Once worry occurs, our thoughts will wander everywhere and we lose the ability to make decisions. If you have a concern, do these three things: 1. Ask yourself: What is the worst that could happen? 2. If you must accept it, be prepared to accept it. 3. Then calmly think of ways to improve the worst-case scenario. --Dale Carnegie "The Complete Collection of Human Weaknesses"

25: No matter what, stay true to yourself and be your unique self. -- Dale Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

26: A person's first step towards maturity should be to dare to take responsibility. When we live in this world, we have to face many responsibilities in life. For those who are immature, they can always find some excuse to get rid of some of their own shortcomings or misfortunes. It’s important to transform people’s lives into something better, rather than wallowing in the abyss of self-pity. You must bear the consequences of your actions and be responsible for your actions instead of just kicking the chair! --Dale Carnegie "The Complete Collection of Human Weaknesses"

27: Preserve other people's face! What an important question this is! But we rarely consider this issue. Even if others make mistakes and we are right, if we do not save face for others, it will destroy a person. -- Dale Carnegie, "The Complete Collection of Human Weaknesses"

28: People who can develop the ability to listen quietly seem to be rarer than any person with a good personality. -- Dale Carnegie, "Human Weakness"

29: The concept is extremely simple, but unfortunately, the execution is complex and difficult. --Dale Carnegie, "The Weaknesses of Human Nature"

30: "Be unwilling to accept mediocrity and advocate struggle." The value of life needs to be realized through hard work. From the moment we step into this world, we are given a This invisible responsibility, whether light or heavy, interprets different lives. Everyone has his own life trajectory. We watch from the sidelines and watch other people's joy or sorrow. Life is only so long. We cannot be immersed in other people's colorful stages. We still have our own stage that needs to be performed with heart. "Continuously strive for self-improvement and be virtuous", I admire this grand spiritual realm.

--Dale Carnegie "The Complete Works of Human Weakness"

31: If you hope to do well, you will do well. -- Dale Carnegie, "Human Weaknesses"

32: Two people looked out from the bars. One saw the mud on the ground, while the other saw the stars in the sky. True happiness is not necessarily pleasant, it is mostly a victory. The most important thing in life is not investing your earnings, anyone can do that. What really matters is how you profit from your losses. This requires wisdom to show people's wisdom and foolishness. Human beings have the power to turn defeat into victory. Nietzsche: Excellent and outstanding people are not only able to endure the intolerable, but are also willing to take on this challenge. Our greatest weaknesses may provide us with an unexpected boost. --Dale Carnegie, "The Complete Collection of Human Weaknesses"

33: "Let us remember that the objects we deal with are not absolutely rational animals, but are full of emotional changes, prejudices, conceit and vanity. "No matter how much you admire a person, he has this kind of thing, it's just obvious or not. --Dale Carnegie, "The Complete Collection of Human Weaknesses"

34: Many of the troubles in life stem from our blind comparison with others and forgetting to enjoy our own life. -- Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

35: The biggest experience I have learned is that our thoughts are the most important. If I can understand your thoughts, I can understand you as a person, because your thoughts create you as a person. By changing your thoughts, we can change your life. -- Dale Carnegie, "Human Weakness"

36: Our fatigue is usually not due to the work itself, but to worry, tension and unhappiness. -- Dale Carnegie, "Human Weaknesses"

37: Don't judge others, lest you be judged by others. -- Dale Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

38: Treat others how you want others to treat you. --Dale Carnegie, "Human Weakness"

39: If a thing can be thought about, it will be thought about clearly. --Dale Carnegie, "Human Weakness"

40: The only way in the world to influence others is to talk about what they want and tell them how to get what they want. -- Dale Carnegie, "Human Weaknesses"

41: We don't want to be preached to, and no one likes it. Remember, you have to make it enjoyable and interesting for us, otherwise, we won’t pay attention to anything you say. Also, remember that one of the funniest things in the world is a well-written and witty anecdote about a famous person. So tell us a story about two people you know and why one succeeded and the other failed. We would be happy to listen. Also, please remember that we may also learn a lot from this example. --Dale Carnegie, "Human Weaknesses"

42: I have no time to argue or regret. No one can force me to hate them. What I think of are the kind people who helped me. I will have nothing to repay! --Dale Carnegie, "Human Weaknesses"

43: What you think you are is not who you really are, but what you think becomes what you become. people. -- Dale Carnegie "Human Weaknesses"

44: If you admit your mistakes before others blame you. If the other party wants to say something, you have already said it for him, and he has nothing to say. Then you have a 99% chance of gaining his understanding. --Dale Carnegie, "Human Weakness"

45: Shakespeare once said: "There is no good or evil in anything, it is thought." --Dale Carnegie, "Human Weakness"

46: As long as you believe you are doing the right thing, don’t care what others say. --Dale Carnegie, "The Complete Works of Human Weakness"

47: We must believe in something. But if we don't act on this belief, it's still useless. Having faith without action is useless. People fall not because they lack faith, but because they fail to turn their faith into action and persist to the end regardless. Of course, faith alone is not enough to make us mature. The advantage of faith is that it can enhance courage so that we will not give in when we are tested.

No principle is of much use unless we base it on faith and then put it into action. Only actions count. -- Dale Carnegie "The Complete Collection of Human Weaknesses"

48: If you are criticized, it is because criticizing you can give him a sense of satisfaction. It also shows that you are accomplished and noticeable. Small people are often proud of the shortcomings or mistakes of great people. Unreasonable criticism is often a disguised compliment. -- Dale Carnegie, "The Complete Collection of Human Weaknesses"

49: For those who like to avoid responsibilities, difficulties become the best shield. If everyone thinks that the environment is not good all day long, they will of course blame their faults on "flaws" or various other reasons. People with mature minds will not get stuck in their own difficulties, but face it bravely, accept it, and then find ways to overcome and solve it. They will not beg for mercy, despair, or find excuses to escape. Immature people can always regard their differences as flaws and obstacles, and then expect to receive special treatment. --Dale Carnegie, "The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses"

50: People who can confide their worries to close friends are usually those who can grasp happiness, reduce fatigue, and be energetic. --Dale Carnegie "Human Weakness"