Appreciation begins with appearance, respect for talent, character, and outlook on life, and ends with character. This is true for love and friendship.

The same is true for getting along with others. How to get along better with your partner is a matter of knowledge from beginning to end. It is a journey of self-cultivation and a way to understand people in the world.

Parents always urge their children to fall in love and get married. If they don’t like it on a blind date, they think it’s because their children have high standards. Is this true? In this vast sea of ??people, why are their souls just not in tune? The answer is in the title!

If the three views are not in harmony, they will never be the same person

What is the ideal relationship between two people?

If the tastes are consistent and the three views are consistent, it can We always talk about the three views, why are they the three views? The worldview determines the methodology, and how you view the world determines how you will deal with problems.

"Zeng Guang Xian Wen" said: Drink wine when you meet a close friend, sing poems to the people you meet, know each other all over the world, and know how many people you know.

In this life, people travel among all kinds of people, and interacting with people who have the same three views is relaxed and joyful, like a spring breeze. On the contrary, as long as you come into contact with him once, you wish you never had to see him again in this life:

You like reading, but he thinks reading is a waste of time and says you are fake;

You like exercising, but he thinks exercise is a waste of energy and says you have nothing to do;

You I like traveling, but he thinks traveling is a waste of money and says you are too busy;

Just like you say the sea is beautiful, but he says you have drowned people...

Internet The above calls them "gangsters". Is it possible to chat with such people?

People with the same views will eventually meet each other thousands of miles apart, and people with different views will end up strangers even if they are close at hand.

We are not RMB, and we cannot satisfy everyone, but we can at least find some like-minded companions who share the same views.

In the end, the most important thing in a relationship is character. Mencius said: "Those who have gained the right will get many help, while those who have lost the right will have few." Whether a person is worthy of deep friendship ultimately depends on that person's character.

People with poor character are indifferent at heart. They only do things to please themselves and never consider others.

The world is in turmoil, chaos blinds the eyes, and chaos clouds the mind. If you keep the right path, you will always be able to achieve success.

There is a high probability that a person will meet 29.2 million people in his lifetime, but only a handful of them can truly stay by your side. The rest are just casual acquaintances.

Yang Jiang said: "When you are in a high position, all you see are flashy dreams; when you are in a humble position, you have the opportunity to see the truth of the world."

People like this Life comes and goes in a hurry:

One death and one lifetime is friendship;

One poor and one rich is friendship;

One noble and one lowly is friendship. See.

When you are successful and famous, there are people to please you; when you are alone and lonely, you can see people's hearts clearly.

Who is true and who is false depends on who helps you at the critical moment; who is good and who is bad depends on who blocks you when the storm comes; who is false and who is true depends on who misses you after not seeing you for a long time.

A horse’s power can be seen from a distance, but true love can be seen with time. If you want to know whether a person is worth spending your life on, you will understand everything once you are in trouble.

If we say that true friends are like golden wind and jade dew, the moment they meet, they can overcome countless beauties in the world; they are close friends in the sea, and they are as solid as their neighbors in the world; they are the spring breeze of peaches and plums, a glass of wine, and the night rain in the rivers and lakes for ten years. Lamp thoughts.

What about love? After not seeing each other for many years, when we meet again we feel like we have been together day and night, and there is no barrier in our hearts?

It’s not that I don’t fall in love or that I don’t get married, it’s just that I have never met that person...