Lao Huang called me some time ago. As soon as he answered the call, he got straight to the point, "I'm in a tight situation lately, please give me some support."

My chin moved two inches in just one sentence. , I said the era of fighting local tyrants against landlords has long been a thing of the past, why the hell do you still need to borrow money?

Lao Huang is well-known in the circle as a wealthy man, nicknamed Huang Shiren. It can be said that Lao Huang's lack of money is as incredible as the lack of food in the grain depot.

It turned out that Lao Huang was growing up. When he got married on May Day last year, he was short of the balance when buying a house, so he asked Lao Huang for help.

Old Huang thought for a moment that although this boy didn't usually work hard to make progress, he still couldn't delay his life-long event, so he transferred the money without saying a word. The other party was also very grateful at the time, and repeatedly said that after getting married, he would give it to him immediately after he collected his share of the money.

Later, it was discovered that the wedding was over and all the family money had been collected. Lao Huang also gave him a big red envelope. But after the marriage, the other party did not talk about paying back the money.

Lao Huang didn't care at first, and until they had spent a long time on their honeymoon after their marriage, they still had no intention of paying back the money. Lao Huang knocked from the side, but the other party pretended to be deaf and dumb. In the end, Lao Huang pointed it out directly when he was anxious, and the other party said that he was short of money and would give it to him during the Mid-Autumn Festival.

Although it was uncomfortable, he finally got a reply, but what happened next made Lao Huang depressed. The other party always had a reason to push the time limit to the next holiday.

It was not until the end of the year that Lao Huang was ready to buy a car. After paying to pick up the car and completing all the procedures, Lao Huang was almost wiped out of his family fortune. So I found the other party again, but I didn't expect him to still spread his hands, showing that he was helpless.

In the end, Lao Huang had no choice but to mock: "Maybe the money I lent you at that time was all fake money."

In the eyes of some people, promises are just a way to obtain benefits. The means are simply insignificant in the face of selfish human nature, and can even be thrown away at any time.

Since ancient times, China has had the principle of helping the urgent but not the poor, but now there are still some people who are not even considered poor. They just love vanity and are addicted to enjoying a life beyond their own abilities, but they shamelessly ask for help. Someone else will pay for it.

A girl I know, Qiuqiu, encountered a very disturbing thing recently.

A classmate of hers who has been with her for six years has been borrowing money from her continuously since last year. It was fine at first and she could always repay the money within the agreed time, but then she gradually started to default on it. In the end, I simply stopped talking about paying back the money and just kept borrowing.

Although the amount borrowed by the other party is not large each time, it can range from one or two hundred to four or five hundred. But we are all students. Apart from the living expenses provided by our parents and part-time income in our spare time, we don’t have any major financial resources.

And it’s not like the other party has no money to pay back. At least he can always be seen posting various travel delicacies in the circle of friends. The mobile phone logo under the Weibo news has also climbed from the original iPhone6 ??to iPhone7plus.

Later, I accidentally chatted with a few friends, and I was shocked to find that he had borrowed it from all the classmates and friends around him. So Qiuqiu decided not to lend him any more money, not to reply to messages, and not to answer phone calls.

But he always leaves messages through various channels.

When I was at home during the winter vacation two days ago, the other party actually called her from another number. Instead of talking about repaying the money, he asked her in a rather dissatisfied tone why she didn't reply to the message.

There was a sense of resentment in his words for delaying his important event.

Qiuqiu, who has always been good-tempered, was immediately furious: "My money didn't just fall from the sky. I took part-time jobs and worked part-time to make money, so why should I be allowed to do so?" You consume.”

It’s so shameless and justified.

There are also some people who treat you as one of their own when borrowing money, but treat themselves as non-human beings when paying back money.

At the beginning of last year, my brother began to cooperate with a car 4S store and was responsible for the overall decoration and beauty work of their cars in the store. Not long after the 4S store opened, the boss came to him and said that the newly opened store was short of funds, so he hoped to help as much as possible.

Having been in the industry for so long, I understand it naturally once I hear it.

So I advanced money to purchase the goods for the 4S store myself, and did not pay the bills regularly as specified in the contract like other cooperative 4S stores.

After one year, I didn’t know how much I paid for goods, but I didn’t settle the accounts a few times, but got a stack of thick bills.

One time when he had difficulty in cash flow, he approached a store to ask for money, but he didn’t want to be directly rejected by the other party: “You have cooperated with so many stores, do you only want to go to ours?”

When my brother heard that this was wrong, he stopped talking about kindness and ran directly to their store. The other party finally stopped being arrogant, but changed into a weak and scoundrel attitude.

"I've been sick and been going to the hospital these days. If you call me at this time to demand payment, everyone will feel uncomfortable."

As expected, now all those who owe money have become uncles. When the creditor himself encounters difficulties and wants to get his things back, he must carefully take care of the other party's emotions.

I tried my best for you back then, but now you make me pretend to be a grandson and kneel down.

There is such a joke on the Internet.

Why should I pay back the money I borrowed based on my ability?

I have to admit that in today’s society, people are in a state of flux, and there are many people who offer icing on the cake, but only a few who offer help in times of need. Being able to borrow money with just one phone call is indeed a skill.

But borrowing money reflects your ability, and paying back money tests your cultivation. When you take over money from someone else, it is equivalent to pledging your credit to the other person.

Failure to repay overdue payments is tantamount to overdrafting one's credit and ultimately leaving one in an isolated and helpless situation.

Since ancient times, China has had the traditional political wisdom of repaying debts as a matter of course. In the thinking of normal people, borrowing money is actually a difficult thing to ask.

But now there is a group of people who can always play the mixed card of love and money with ease and enjoy the benefits. Even the three views are distorted to the extreme.

It is natural for me to borrow money in an emergency. It would be unkind to not borrow money if you have money. If I am overdue, it is because of your own reasons. It is unscrupulous for you to seek money and force debt.

For this kind of person, you really don’t have to worry about your feelings. Talking about feelings will hurt your money. They should just give them a classic quote from Urwe Weichu.

If you don’t pay back the money you owe me, then I’ll screw you.

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