Quotes about dealing with people: How many people’s relationships have changed because of other people’s mouth

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There were two girls, one was very beautiful, She has been good at singing and dancing since she was a child, and has outstanding grades. She is the pride of her parents and the favorite of her teachers. The other girl looks very ordinary, has no special skills, and her grades are not good. She is often bullied by her classmates and disliked by her parents. But every time an ordinary girl is bullied, the beautiful girl will appear in time and tell everyone that she is her best friend, and anyone who bullies her will have trouble with her.

The pretty girl’s status in the class is unparalleled. When everyone sees her defending ordinary girls, they don’t dare to bully her anymore. As a result, the two became very good friends and agreed to be good sisters for life.

Later, the beautiful girl was admitted to a prestigious university. After graduating from graduate school, she entered the best local company. Because she was beautiful, there were many people pursuing her. She was dazzled and didn't know who to choose. Later, a handsome boy captured her heart.

The two fell in love quickly, and soon after, she became pregnant. When she told the boy with a shy face, she thought that the other party would propose, but she did not expect that the other party's expression changed after hearing the news. He suddenly became very solemn, and after a long while he said: We are still young and have no foundation. This child is not suitable for us, so abort it!

She was reluctant to abort her first child, and believed that both of them had good jobs and it was more than enough to raise a child, so why should she abort it? The boy frowned and said: I don't want to be tied up with children so early, and I don't want to get married yet.

She was stunned. She always thought that the relationship between the two was just for getting married, but she didn't expect that the other party had no intention of getting married at all. She told the boy that after the child is born, she will ask her mother to come over to help, so that it will not affect him too much. Moreover, the child is very cute. They are both handsome men and beautiful women. This child must be very good-looking. How many people think Will he survive or not?

But no matter how happy she described her future life, the boy refused to accept the child and asked her to choose between the child and him.

She cried for a long time, and finally, accompanied by ordinary girls, she went to the hospital to take away the first child in her life.

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About a year later, she was pregnant again. When she carefully told the other party, there was no trace of joy in the other party's eyebrows. What she said was exactly the same as a year ago: We are still pregnant. Not suitable for having children!

This time she fought. She said she must give birth to this child. Since the first child was removed, she often dreamed of that child. This time, no matter what, she would not kill it again. own children.

Seeing her determination, the boy told her straightforwardly: If she must give birth to this child, he will not be responsible. She must think clearly about whether she really wants this child.

Before she could make any reply, the other party disappeared, as if he had evaporated from the world.

She was so miserable that she had to face all the problems alone. She was unmarried and pregnant, so she couldn't go to the company. She went through the resignation procedures on the pretext that she was in poor health and needed to recuperate. Although I have some savings after working for several years, my expenses will inevitably increase after I have a child. I don’t dare to let my parents know that I am pregnant out of wedlock.

When she was desperate, she had no choice but to call an ordinary girl. Ordinary girls took on the task of taking care of her without saying a word, comforting her, enlightening her, making her happy, and taking care of her in every possible way.

After ten months of pregnancy, she gave birth to a fat son. Looking at this little life, she felt happy and sad. What she was happy about was that from now on, there was another person in the world who was connected to her by blood. She was sad. What's more, this child has lost his father's love since he was born. I don't know how many hardships he will have in his future growth.

The ordinary girl comforted her: no matter what the future holds, she will continue to take care of their mother and child and bring up the child with her.

She was so moved that she burst into tears. The ordinary girl said: We are good sisters. If anything happens to you, I will not stand by and watch. You did the same to me back then. I will never forget your kindness to me in this life.

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Back then, an ordinary girl only went to college. After graduation, she worked in a small company as a handyman. She knew that she was not smart or outstanding, so she always had a calm mentality. When she reaches the age of marriage, she doesn't even expect that a tall, rich and handsome man will take a fancy to her. She only chooses a spouse based on her good character. Under the introduction of a friend, she married a man who was as ordinary as herself. She felt that it would be good to live an ordinary life.

Later, the company where the man worked was not performing well and wanted to lay off employees, and the man was on the list. After losing his job, a man experiences a short period of depression and feels that he is too ordinary and it is difficult to find another job. He might as well start a small business!

He used his savings to open a fast food restaurant and began to make fast food for nearby companies. Because of his honesty and kindness, he chose fresh and sufficient ingredients and the food was delicious, which made him very popular. Many companies have ordered meals from him, and even companies from a little further away are attracted by his reputation.

Business was so good that he mobilized his wife to quit her job to help, and hired a few more waiters to deliver the food.

In less than two years, it became the most famous fast food restaurant in the area. The number of employees has also grown from four to more than thirty. The business of several fast food restaurants was deserted and they could no longer continue operating. He took over the next two restaurants and began to develop other catering restaurants.

Six years later, they had accumulated tens of millions of assets, took out a loan from the bank, and began to develop the hotel industry. The men came from the ordinary class and were well aware of public consumption habits and trends. The hotel was very successful and became one of the most popular hotels in the area. Later, two hotel chains were opened.

Ordinary girls never dream that the two of them would have such a day. After becoming wealthy, their lives did not change much and remained as simple and low-key as ever.

When the beautiful girl asked for help, the life of the ordinary girl was no longer what it used to be. When her good friend was in trouble, she began to take care of their mother and son without saying a word. This care lasted for three years. The man never said anything because he was always kind.

The relationship between the two is not that of biological sisters, but better than that of biological sisters, which is so good that it makes people jealous.

After the child was sent to kindergarten, the beautiful girl went to work again. Once, she met an acquaintance in the hospital and the other person asked her about her current situation. She did not hide it, and her gratitude to ordinary girls was beyond words.

But the other party smiled incomprehensibly: You are just too innocent to be deceived by a man, and now you are deceived by a woman. Do you think she is sincerely helping you? You used to be beautiful and brilliant. It shines everywhere, making other people's houses dim. Now the situation is changing, it's other people's turn to be prosperous, and you are in trouble. Helping you is just to show that your life is better than yours now.

The beautiful girl didn’t want to believe it, but these words seemed to be burned into her mind, popping up from time to time. She loved him so much back then, but ended up not being able to recognize people clearly, so will she be blind now?

Ever since this idea took root, she has had a grudge against ordinary girls. Every time she comes to see her, she feels like she is here to show off. There is a grudge in the heart, and the relationship will naturally no longer be so close.

An ordinary girl doesn’t know why she is like this. When asked several times, she said it was nothing.

As the children grow up, the two become more and more distant. The originally close sisterly love finally drifted away because of a few words from others

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There is also a story about a couple who have a very good relationship. The two plan to get married after meeting their parents.

Once, the girl met her boyfriend's friend, and the other party asked when they would get married, and the girl told the truth. My friend smiled and said: It’s great to see you two get married. When Dalong fell in love last time, he said he would never love anyone again in this life and would never get married. I was worried that he meant it. Now I see him re- I am also happy for him to find happiness.

The friend said happily, but the girl's heart suddenly sank and she asked: Did he really say before that he would never love anyone again and would never get married?

Friends have no doubts about him: Yes, I was young at that time and loved to death, but didn’t they break up in the end?

The girl smiled and said goodbye to the other party. When she turned around, her face was already terrifyingly gloomy. All she could think about was: They were so in love at that time. How deep was their relationship? What happened between them? Does he love her more than he loves me?

A relationship that was supposed to lead to marriage, but because of other people's words, added suspicion and suspicion, it finally failed to reach perfection, which is sad.

In this world, how many people's feelings are changed because of other people's words. We hate those who inadvertently or intentionally sow discord.

However, please don’t forget that the people who can lead the direction of the relationship are always the two parties involved, not others. We have our own ears, why should we trust others' words? We have eyes, why don’t we believe what we see? We still have a heart, why don’t we feel it with our heart?

I like a sentence very much: If you are neither deaf nor blind, then don’t understand me through other people’s mouths, please understand me with your own heart. Similarly: Since I am neither deaf nor blind, why should I understand the people around me through other people’s mouths? It is a good thing to be able to listen to other people’s words, but only if you know how to distinguish them. Helpless talk about love; how many people's relationships have changed because of other people's mouth

1. Some love is like nails. If you cut them, they will grow again, which is insignificant. But some love is like teeth, which makes people unable to extricate themselves. What tortures people is not separation, but memories. You stand where you are, thinking you can go back, but there are thousands of kinds of love in the world, and there is never one kind that can come back.

2. We all grow up stumblingly in time, and then leave the original appearance little by little.

3. The advantage of taking pictures is that you can use memories to keep you warm when life is cold. The most pity is that some important people don't even have a photo with you until they leave.

4. Life tells us that perfect people and things never exist in this world. Overly perfect relationships only occur in fairy tales and imaginations. The normal state of reality, apart from being dull, is riddled with holes and holes. Rebirth after disaster.

5. Perhaps, you turn around to forget, but when you turn around, you find that there is a heartbreaking thing called missing.

6. How many people’s relationships have changed because of other people’s words. I don’t know whose mouth I have died under, but those who like me, I cherish them, and those who dislike me, I avoid them. If you have eyes, please don’t use your ears to understand me. Time is really a good thing. It has verified what is right and witnessed what is wrong. I am who I am and I don’t like to wear a mask. Maybe you are awesome, but I may not care about you!

7. In love, the worst thing is selfishness, the worst thing is greed, and the worst thing is indulgence.

8. Pain is nothing but feelings; injury is nothing but soul. He is so serious that he is utterly devoted, but he loses miserably; he is so dedicated that he leaves no room for anything, but he is so cold that he forgets to cry. Expecting to be valued, but being ranked last; coming with hope, but leaving with disappointment. Behind every long-lasting love, there will be a particularly tolerant person.

9. Sometimes, don’t be too proactive or you will get hurt. Don’t love someone who is not suitable for you too selflessly, or you will be sad. When the tenderness is gone, when all the efforts have gone to waste, all we can do is wipe away the tears and keep the affection to ourselves.

10. Instead of trying to please others, it is better to put effort into pleasing yourself. Instead of living in other people's opinions, it is better to live in your own world.

11. Are you experiencing such an emotion, a love that you can’t let go, a person you can’t forget, a heart-wrenching longing for you, but you can’t love it, that kind of unforgettable love, you will bear it every day With heart-wrenching longing, this kind of love is the most torturous. I am deeply in love and attached, but I can only experience the existence of love in missing you. When you love deeply, you cannot give up. When the love is strong, it becomes even deeper. Deep dependence.

12. Some things and some people cannot be forgotten. It does not matter the length of time or whether the new love is good or bad. Time and new love can only heal the pain, but they cannot fill the shortcomings in the heart. So, don’t be stubborn and let go. Real letting go is not about hard work. Don’t be stubborn about forgetting. Real forgetting is not about deliberate effort.

13. I still can’t control my unforgettable feeling about him, but I will no longer have any expectations about him. I admit that I still love him, but I no longer like him. To love someone is to be proud, not to please someone in a humble way. The feelings you get are destined to be short-lived.

14. Work harder, live a good life, be a lovely person, and be a shining person. Don't give in, don't rely on, have a deep affection for the sufferings of the past, but never look back. Good morning~

15. In life, people can put down their status and belittle money, but the emotion of love cannot be relaxed and unrestrained. Maybe it is love. Charm may be attachment to love. No matter who you are, no matter how strong your heart is, once you encounter the emotion of love, as long as you love it sincerely, no matter whether the love is right or wrong, or whether the love can Not being able to have it is an obsession that cannot be extricated.

16. I really want to forget everything about the past, but I know it is impossible. After all, giving is real and loving each other is real. How can I just forget it. Some things, once taken seriously, will be remembered forever; some people, once they fall in love, will be remembered forever. Don't ask how to forget. As long as you pay attention, you will never forget it in this life.

17. The real charm of a person is not that you leave a good first impression on the other person; it is that the other person still likes to be with you after knowing you for many years; nor is it that you attract the other person instantly It’s about the other person still admiring you after they get to know you, and it’s not about feeling like you’re too late after meeting for the first time; it’s about saying sincerely after going through many vicissitudes: It’s great to know you!

18. The person you gave up on or the person who gave up on you calls you late at night, hangs up and then shuts down the phone. If he is guarding the window, remember to close the curtains. It’s not that you are cruel, but any breakup after pain will have cracks, and no matter how well you repair them, they will never be the same again.

19. I am not becoming more and more realistic, but I am more and more fond of the sense of solidity, so I like things that are visible and tangible. Those that are not available. I don’t care anymore. Quotes on how to deal with others

1. The first time you dare to laugh at yourself, you have matured.

2. The ups and downs of life are like an invisible carving knife, giving everyone a statue.

3. Don’t refuse people casually, and don’t agree to people casually. Don't make wishes, don't titillate others, don't show off your strength in unnecessary things.

4. Don’t force guests to look at your family photo album.

5. Friendship can never become a transaction; on the contrary, it requires the most complete concept of disinterest.

6. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise does not.

7. Nothing can improve your bowling performance more than onlookers. So, don’t begrudge your cheers.

8. Politeness is the golden key to human perfection. Friends are the sky, and friends are the earth. Having more friends will stand upright, friends are the wind, friends are the rain, and having many friends can make the wind and rain come.

9. Don’t be confused about big things, don’t let out small things. Pick them up when you need to pick them up, and put them down when you need to put them down. As a person, you must understand that being able to take up is a kind of courage, and being able to let go is a kind of wisdom!

10. You don’t have to use me as the subject in everything.

11. Do your best for others, and finally do your best for yourself.

12. Good words can arouse good intentions in others; bad words can arouse evil thoughts in others. Say one more kind word and be more kind. To be a human being, you should have good intentions, say good words, do good deeds, and make good friends.

13. Be kind to things but not people; or be ruthless to things but affectionate to people; or be a person first and work second.

14. Every milestone on the road of life is engraved with two words: starting point.

15. No rich man is so great that he doesn’t need friends.

16. People must respect themselves, and then others will respect them.

17. People should be like people, always looking upward but with both feet on the ground.

18. If a person abandons his loyal friends, it is equivalent to abandoning his most precious life.

19. Never reveal your heart without knowing the other person’s details.

20. To take the road well tomorrow, you must remember the road you walked yesterday and think about the road you are walking today.

21. As a person, you need to strive for excellence in the field of study; you need to communicate freely in the industrial and commercial society; you need to talk and laugh in the interpersonal space; you need peace of mind when you are lonely!

22. Don’t be afraid to reject others if your reasons are legitimate.

23. Covering your own eyes does not mean that the world is dark; covering other people's eyes does not mean that the light belongs to you.

24. A person should be like a mirror, always reflecting on oneself; a person should be like a box, able to lift and put it away at any time; a person should be like one, constantly recording merits and demerits; a person should be like a candle, always illuminating others; a person should be like a candle, always illuminating others; Like a clock, cherish life every second.

25. Although broken friendships can be restored, they can never reach the level of intimacy.

26. There are four kinds of people in the world: scum, human hands, talents, and characters. We must despise scum, be unwilling to accept others, envy talents, and strive to be a figure!

27. Treat others with affection, treat others with courtesy, establish yourself with virtue, and treat others with justice. Be sincere, be strict with yourself, be persistent in dealing with things, and help others with love. As a human being, you must understand: it is easy for the heart to be subdued by virtue, but it is difficult to be subdued by strength!

28. Friendship is like a bottle of wine. The longer it is sealed, the higher its value becomes; but once it is opened, it is enough for an alcoholic to drink too much.

29. Friends are wealth , health is the capital.

30. Tolerating and helping others are good ways to get along with others; knowing kindness and repaying kindness are the virtues pursued by personality; generosity and integrity are the foundation of life and doing things.

31. You must have restraint on yourself, be friendly to others, be tolerant of life, be diligent in seeking knowledge, be patient with difficulties, and be motivated to succeed!

32. Discussing matters as they arise is the principle of employing people; being reasonable and reasonable is the principle of conducting oneself in society; honor, disgrace and dignity are the principle of making friends; being fearless of life and death is the principle of being a human being.

33. Things must be used to be valuable; people must be used to be useful. You must do your best when doing things, and you must do your duty as a human being!

34. Applaud everyone who takes the stage to sing.

35. Seeing others proud is actually a sign of low self-esteem.

36. A person should be self-reliant and not be shaken by the words and deeds of others; a person should be independent and self-respecting, and not be discouraged by difficulties. Be confident when facing setbacks, and be proud when facing failure!

37. Opening your eyes does not mean facing reality.

38. It is better to be slow in doing things than to be too hasty and make mistakes; it is better to be stupid in life than to be too clever and ruin things. You can fail in doing things, but you can't fail in life; you can fail in the past, but you can't fail in the future!

39. The natural enemy of interpersonal relationships is guessing, but cracking the code is sincerity!

40. Don’t care about success or failure; don’t stop at good times and bad times. Treat yourself well and you will be very happy; treat others well and you will be very happy; treat life well and you will be healthy.

41. To do things, do good things, do things well, and do useful things; to be a person, you must be a good person, be a good person, and be an excellent person. When doing things, we should be diligent in our work and strive for excellence in results; in life, we should be noble in our beliefs and self-disciplined in our actions.

42. If you want to receive help in times of trouble, you should be lenient to others on weekdays.

43. Don’t borrow money from friends. I feel that many times I lose good friends because of money.

44. Where there is no harmony between each other, there will be no prosperity in life.

45. Be respectful to your parents, be kind to your children, be generous to your relatives and friends, and be polite to the public.

We should treat family ties with a considerate heart; we should treat friendships with a bonded heart!

46. If you don’t seek fame in vain, the sarcasm will disappear; if you do more practical things, honor will come unexpectedly. A person must be free, independent, and self-reliant, and a person should not be egotistical, arrogant, or conceited!

47. Be a person first and do things later. Only when you are a person well can you succeed in doing things.

48. To be a good person, you need to understand reason, know interests, and be content. To know the principles is to understand the principles of life and grasp the duty of being a person; to know the interests is to grasp the sense of proportion in dealing with things and be able to relax and have a degree; to be content is to not be a prisoner of material desires and to be satisfied with nothing!

49. If you love yourself sincerely, you can love others sincerely.

50. All good things start from myself; all good words come from my mouth; all good deeds develop from my heart; all friends start from me and are sincerely respectful.

51. The bones should be strong, the Qi should be soft, the ambition should be big, the courage should be small, the heart should be weak, the words should be true, the wisdom should be increased, and the blessings should be cherished. As a human being, you must communicate with etiquette and justice, and discipline yourself with integrity!

52. Ten taboos in life: avoid vanity, avoid laziness, avoid arrogance, avoid violence, avoid greed, avoid selfishness, avoid being unfaithful, avoid evil persistence, avoid being disloyal, and avoid lying.

53. Be gentle and principled in dealing with others, be clear and decisive in dealing with matters, and be upright, concise and understandable in dealing with matters. If you have no prejudice in your heart, you will be fair in dealing with things; if you have no ego in your heart, you will be aboveboard.

54. Judging others is actually a lack of self-affirmation.

55. Be dedicated in doing things and be generous in life. You can work part-time, but you can only work full-time. Live a clean life, do things with heart, don’t seek perfect people, just seek perfect things!

56. Respect people who don’t like you.

57. Use indifference to clarify your ambitions, act with responsibility, eliminate confusion with wisdom, make friends with non-seeking, study diligently, be careful with your words, live frugally, live with great ambitions, and be a person with enthusiasm!

58. If people are rude, there will be no life, if things are rude, they will fail, and if the country is rude, there will be no peace. As a person, you must understand etiquette, know how to respect others, know how to despise others when you are humble, and respect others when you respect others!

59. A gentleman and a gentleman are friends who share the same path; a villain and a villain are friends who share the same interests.

60. As long as you are willing to praise others, you will be the biggest winner. Talk about helpless love; how many people's relationships have changed because of other people's mouths

1. Some love is like nails. If you cut them, they will grow again, which is painful. But some love is like teeth, which makes people unable to extricate themselves. What tortures people is not separation, but memories. You stand where you are, thinking you can go back, but there are countless kinds of love in the world, and none of them can come back again.

2. We all grow up stumblingly in the time, and then our final appearance gradually fades away.

3. The benefit of taking photos is that you can use memories to keep you warm when life is cold. The most regrettable thing is that some important people don't even have a photo with you until they are separated.

4. Life tells us that perfect people and things never exist in this world. Overly perfect emotions only occur in fairy tales and imaginations. The normal state of reality, apart from being ordinary, is riddled with holes and wounds. Rebirth after disaster.

5. Perhaps, you turn around to forget, but when you turn around, you realize that there is a heartbreaking thing called nostalgia.

6. How many people’s relationships have changed because of other people’s words. I don’t know who has spoken to me, but I cherish those who like me and avoid those who dislike me. If you have eyes, please don’t understand me with your ears. Kungfu is really a good thing. It has verified what is right and witnessed what is wrong. I am who I am and I don’t like to wear a mask. Maybe you are awesome, but I may not care about you!

7. In love, the worst thing is selflessness, the worst thing is greed, and the worst thing is connivance.

8. Pain is nothing but feelings; injury is nothing but soul. He was so careful that he was desperate, but he was so defeated that he couldn't recover; he was so focused that he remained calm, but he was so cold that he forgot to cry. I hope to be valued, but I am ranked at the bottom; I come with hope, but I come back with despair. In front of every lasting love, there will be a particularly tolerant person.

9. Sometimes, don’t be too proactive and you will get hurt. Don’t love too selflessly for the wrong person, or you will be sad. When tenderness is gone, when all efforts are lost, all we can do is to wipe away the tears and keep the affection to ourselves.

10. Instead of trying to please others, it is better to put effort into pleasing yourself. Rather than living in other people's opinions, it is better to live in your own world.

11. Are you currently experiencing such emotions, a love that you can’t let go, a person you can’t forget, a heart-wrenching longing for you, but you can’t love it, that kind of unforgettable love, every day? Accepting the heart-wrenching longing, this kind of love is the most torturous. You are deeply in love and attached, but you can only understand the existence of love in the longing. When you love deeply, you cannot maintain it, and when the love is strong, you can’t hold on. Deep dependence.

12. Some things and some people cannot be forgotten. It is related to the length of time and the quality of new love. Time and new love can only heal the pain, but they cannot fill the shortcomings in the heart. So, don’t be stubborn and let go. Real letting go is not about hard work. Don’t be stubborn about forgetting. Real forgetting is not about deliberate effort.

13. I still can’t control my unforgettable feelings about him, but I will no longer wait for anything about him. I admit that I still love him, but I no longer like him. Loving someone is a matter of pride, rather than a lowly attempt to please someone. The feelings obtained are destined to be short-lived.

14. Work harder, live a good life, be a beloved person, and be a shining person. Don't give in, don't rely on, have a deep affection for the sufferings of the past, but never look back. Good morning~

15. In life, people can put down their position and belittle money. However, the emotion of love cannot be relaxed and relaxed. Maybe it is the love of love. Charm may be attachment to love. No matter who you are, no matter how weak your heart is, once you encounter the emotion of love, as long as you love it sincerely and deeply, no matter whether the feeling is right or wrong, and no matter how weak the love is, Whether you can have it or not is an inextricable obsession.

16. I really want to forget everything about the past, but I know I can’t. After all, giving is real, and loving each other is also real. How can I forget it? Some things, once you look carefully, will be engraved in your heart; some people, once you fall in love, will be engraved in your heart. Don't ask how to forget, as long as you put your mind to it, you will never forget it in this life.

17. The real charm of a person is not that you leave a good first impression on the other person; it is that the other person still likes to be with you after knowing you for many years; nor is it that you attract the other person instantly It’s about the other person still admiring you after they get to know you, and it’s not about feeling like you’re too late after meeting for the first time; it’s about saying sincerely after going through many vicissitudes: It’s great to know you!

18. The person you love may call you late at night and then turn off the phone after hanging up. If he stays at the window, remember to close the curtains. It’s not that you are cruel, but any breakup after experiencing pain will have cracks. No matter how well you repair it, it will never be the same.

19. I am not becoming more and more idealistic, but I am becoming more and more fond of the practical feeling, so I like things that are visible and tangible. Those that are not available.

I don’t care anymore.