? Boys are poor:
? 1. Let boys lead a "hard life" and cultivate the virtue of thrift.
? Abundant material conditions, giving children a lot of money, is the first killer to destroy children. With the prosperity of the economy, it is understandable that parents with bulging wallets spend money to train their children. You can create excellent learning conditions and environment for him, but you must not give him a luxurious material life.
? 2. Let boys experience frustration
? The flowers in the greenhouse can't stand the erosion of the storm. The concept of loving children, which is contained in the mouth and held in the hand, will lead to weak willpower and poor psychological endurance of boys, and they will go to extremes when they encounter a little disappointment or frustration. Frustration will inspire the boy's indomitable spirit and actively deal with the difficulties encountered.
3. Let boys learn to live independently
? "Everything is arranged", which is also the taboo of educating people. Many college students can't cook, wash clothes and fold quilts, which is incredible. Can such a man accept the challenges of society? Can you be creative? Therefore, parents should try their best to teach and let their children independently undertake what they can from an early age. Self-reliance, knowing how to do housework, cooking and doing things independently is inevitable!
? 4. Let the boy suffer a little injustice moderately
? Boys must learn to be strong. Moderate grievances will have a deeper understanding of life. It is necessary for parents to give reasonable blame and punishment to their children who have done wrong. Even if he is wronged, it is a strategy to educate people. Such a child, after experiencing all kinds of emotional experiences, has less rebellious psychology, strong psychological endurance and healthy psychology, and is easy to achieve great things.
? Girls are rich.
? 1. tasteful
? When girls are in their twenties, they need to learn to manage themselves carefully. Shown in her own appearance and cultivation. Every girl is unique and should have her own unique taste. Taste is not linked to fashion trends or luxury goods, but a person's view when observing things. Different versions of the same thing will appear before different people. The function of the article itself has nothing to do with the taste. Girls should appreciate it with their own eyes.
? 2. To be independent, relying on others is far worse than relying on yourself. You can live well without any man.
? When you are in love, you should treat your feelings rationally and never lose your dignity and trample on yourself. This will not change a man's true love. Love is beautiful, girls are charming, and no man can desecrate it! Sometimes a gorgeous turn will make you see a better world. Women don't want to be attached to a man. In this society, no one will love someone for no reason. If a woman is attached to a man, she will lose herself In this social environment caused by personality, men also like girls with personality and level.