Marrying the wrong person is just that women feel that they have ruined their lives. If she marries the wrong wife, it will disturb the elderly, life is worse than death, and the children will not get the right education, so it is called marrying the wrong wife and ruining three generations.
Whether a family can run well and be stable and happy depends largely on women. Most men are only responsible for working hard outside. Women are a family. What they really say is people and the backbone.
If the family is compared to the country and the man is compared to the general who expands the territory, then the woman is the servant who manages the country. So whether a country can prosper or not, the role of women is far greater than that of men.
It is difficult for a man to take care of his family when he is trying to make money outside. If the women in the family don't know how to keep the house, then no matter how hard men try, they can't create a happy and stable family.
Laozi said, "Know your man and keep your woman." In a family, a wife has the duties of a wife and a husband has a task. To achieve family harmony, not only women should "know their men and guard their women", but men should also "know their men and guard their women", so that everyone should do their part to make Yin and "impulsive and self-righteous" harmonious.
If we don't study each other, understand each other, communicate with each other, accommodate each other, fight with each other and bully each other, then there will be wars in the family, such as hell on earth. Women hold more than half of the power to rule the country and the world. Because in the family, the housekeepers are mostly women, and men handle foreign affairs.
If her mother is virtuous and her children are at home, they are all taught by her mother, and the benefits are not new. If you are willful and spoiled as a child, indulge your freedom, don't teach your dutiful son what goes around comes around, and even encourage your children to be vindictive, haggle over every ounce and be competitive, then you may grow up to be a bad person who doesn't listen to your parents and does evil.
Girls who don't receive sage education will be good wives and mothers in the future. Not only can she not teach children with her husband, but she can become a virtuous person, and she can also be taught to be a wicked person in turn. This is a terrible consequence.