Written in "Mountain Moon". "I'm afraid I'm not a beautiful jade, but I'm afraid to think hard and feel confident. I am a little gifted and unwilling to stay away from the world with the rubble. My inferiority and cowardly self-esteem are expanding in anger and shame. "
I don't know if this happens in your daily life. You obviously want to do something, but you worry too much. When you encounter a choice, you are in a dilemma. You are too obsessed to listen to other people's opinions, you will not seek common ground while reserving differences and miss the past, and you will not give up your poor emotional management skills.
The sense of powerlessness has been eroding me.
Until the last three months, I began to learn to write and take notes in little red books. In the process of learning, I accumulated a lot of materials, such as reading books, listening to books, watching documentaries, watching interviews with people and watching ted talks, which gradually opened up my own pattern and jumped out of the "bottom hole" that has plagued me for many years.
At the same time, it summarizes five beautiful qualities of girls in a gentle and powerful pattern.
1. Focus on your own development, have your own clear goals, and don't compare with others.
2. With the character of giving up, anyone can put anything down.
3. Broad-minded, sunny, and inconsiderate of others.
4. Have the mentality and courage to get up at any time.
Don't try to convince others, realize that there is a gap in the value system between people.
Read a lot of books: bow your head and be a man. No book in the world can bring you good luck, but they can make you become yourself quietly in a subtle way.
Life is up to me.
Cognitive awakening
Non-violent communication
It takes less courage to be hated.
Self - control
The principle of golden pagoda
We are not very kind.
Wanli fifteen years
Flow of heart
silent majority
Watch quality documentaries: improve yourself, improve your cognition, broaden your horizons, learn to improve the pattern, and be a girl who has seen the world.
woman
Judge Ginsberg
Seven years of life
The first time in life
Positive psychology
But there are books.
Heaven and earth are mysterious and yellow.
Nexi corridor
I am repairing cultural relics in the Forbidden City.
China aerial photography
If the national treasure can talk,
Honey, don't cross the river.
Watch the wonderful TED talk, expand your knowledge and improve your thinking ability in a subtle way.
Teach girls to be brave, not perfect.
Don't let anyone beat you.
20 to 30 years old is time you can't waste.
How to do better in what you value?
How to control your less free time?
You can learn anything in just 20 hours.
Challenge 30 days to change your life.
Don't lie to me.
Watch high-quality variety talk shows: listen to the voice of the wise and enhance your cognition in other people's stories.
location
human
Talent relativity
Interview with Yang Lan
Thirteen invitations
CCTV hosts the National People's Congress.
The Reader
The Reader
Super orator
Round table school
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Qipa said
The pattern of people is large. You won't indulge in the trivialities of life.
-Yu
The only way to save ourselves is to cross the river. I hope we can all improve ourselves together and be a gentle and powerful girl in the crushed life.