Teacher Luo Xiang said, "When someone invites you to dinner, you must promise or hesitate to refuse. When someone asks you for help, you can refuse without hesitation. If you learn these two tricks, you won't eat your own mouth and offend others. "
Pretend that you don't know what you know, so that others will think that you are the same as him, or not as good as him, and his heart will be more balanced. You can also see whether his attitude towards you is contempt or respect.
People with good friendship should also keep at least 10% of the core secrets, and don't tell others everything. The person who hurts you the most is often the person closest to you.
In interpersonal communication, it is very important to keep a moderate wit. Sleek does not mean hypocrisy or flattery, but a clever way to deal with it, which can not only safeguard one's own interests, but also maintain good relations with others.
You don't have to please everyone. If you really have time and interest, it is a good choice to say yes directly. But if you can't meet each other's requirements or really don't want to attend, you can hesitate and politely refuse.
For people with good mentality, the world is a big playground. The more exciting, the more fun. For cowards, it's hell, and they get hurt anytime and anywhere.
So what kind of world you think you are in depends on who you are. Applause or flowers can't last forever. What is your heart? This is the most important thing, you can control it.
No matter what the situation is now, we should try our best to make ourselves happy. If you are happy, only those who love you can rest assured. Being happy is the biggest blow to people who hate you. For others and for yourself. Happy every day.
There are no shortcuts or detours in life. The road you take is the road you should take.