2. Know yourself: tap your most outstanding talent and cultivate other abilities. Just know your own advantages and grasp them. Then everyone will gain something.
Don't exaggerate: exaggerating is harmful to the truth and easy to make people doubt your point of view. A wise man controls himself: he shows a cautious attitude. Speak concisely and never exaggerate yourself. Overestimating yourself is a form of lying, which will damage your reputation, have a very bad influence on your interpersonal relationship, and damage your elegance and intelligence.
4, adapt to the environment: survival of the fittest, don't spend too much energy on trivial matters, maintain the relationship between classmates. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you. People always have a sense of freshness. Exposing a little bit of people every day will make people look forward to it all the time and will not bury your talent.
5. learn from each other's strengths: learn from each other's strengths. Make up for your own shortcomings. In the communication with classmates. Treat everyone with a modest and friendly attitude. Take friends as teachers and combine useful knowledge with humorous words. What you say will be praised and what you hear will become knowledge.
6. Simplicity: Simplicity can make people happy, like and accept. Speaking long and tedious will make people feel confused and bored, but you won't achieve your goal. A concise tone will definitely make you get twice the result with half the effort.
7. Never be conceited; Always talk about your strengths and show them off in front of others. This virtually belittles others and raises yourself, and the result is to make others look down on you even more.
8. Never complain: complaining will make you lose credibility. When what you do is not successful, you should have the courage to admit your own shortcomings and try to make things perfect. A moderate review of yourself will not make people look down on you. On the contrary, it will always emphasize the objective reasons, complaining about this and that will only make others look down on you.
9. Don't lie and break your promise: Lying to your friends will lose their trust and make them stop trusting you, which is your biggest loss. Avoid boasting, do what you say, and don't say what you can't do.
10, foresight: wealth is easy to think of poverty. The wise man is going to spend the winter. Make more friends. Keep a good relationship between friends, and one day you will pay attention to people or things that seem unimportant now.
A famous saying about dealing with people.
1, the first time you dare to laugh at yourself, it shows that you are mature.
2, the ups and downs of life is an invisible meat cleaver, giving everyone a statue.
Don't refuse people casually, and don't promise people casually. Don't make a wish, don't keep people's appetite, and don't try to be brave in meaningless things.
4. Don't force guests to look at your family photo album.
5. Friendship can never be a transaction; On the contrary, it needs the most thorough concept of selflessness.
6. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise is not.
7. Nothing can improve your bowling performance like a bystander. So, don't be stingy with your cheers.
8. Politeness is the golden key of human beings. Friends are the sky, the earth, the indomitable spirit, the wind, the rain and the power.
9. Big things don't mess up, small things don't leak, take them when you should take them, and put them down when you should put them down. Being a man, knowing how to bear is courage, and letting go is wisdom!
10, I don't need to be the subject.
1 1, do your best for others and finally do your best for yourself.
12, good words can arouse the goodwill of others; Bad words will arouse others' evil thoughts. Say one more good word and add one more kindness. Be kind, speak well, do good deeds and make good friends.
13, for things, not people; Or be ruthless about things and have feelings for people; Or do first and do second.
14, every milestone in life is engraved with two words.
15, no one is rich, but he is too great to need friends.
16, people should respect themselves, and then people should respect themselves.
17, people, like people, should always be upward and down-to-earth.
18. If a person abandons a loyal friend, it is equivalent to abandoning his most precious life.
19, don't open your heart without knowing the details of the other party.
20. To take a good road tomorrow, we must remember the road we took yesterday and think about the road we took today.
2 1, one should strive for perfection in the field of learning; In the industrial and commercial society, we should communicate vertically and horizontally; Talking and laughing in interpersonal space; Peace of mind in loneliness!
22. If your reasons are justified, don't be afraid to refuse others.
23, blindfolded, does not mean that the world is dark; Blindfold others' eyes, does not mean that the light is your own.
24. Be a mirror and always look at yourself; Be a man like a box, you can lift it freely at any time; Be yourself and keep a record of your merits and demerits; Like a candle, always illuminate others; Be a man like a clock and cherish every minute of your life.
25. Although a broken friendship can be restored, it can no longer reach the level of intimacy.
26. There are four kinds of people in the world: scum, manpower, talents and figures. We should despise scum, be unwilling to be outdone, envy talents and strive to be figures!
27, move with emotion, treat it with courtesy, establish it with virtue, and return it to the public. Be honest, be strict with yourself, persevere and help others with love. To be a man, you should know that people's hearts are easy to convince others with virtue, but it is difficult to convince others with strength!
28. Friendship is like a bottle of wine. The longer the storage time, the higher the value. And once unsealed, it will be enough for an alcoholic to drink too much.
29. Friends are wealth and health is capital.
30. Tolerance and helping others are good ways to get along with others. Gratitude is the virtue pursued by personality; Generosity and honesty are the basis of being a man and doing things.
3 1. Self-discipline, affinity for others, tolerance for life, diligence in knowledge, patience with difficulties and motivation for success!
32, pragmatic, this is the principle of employing people; Be reasonable, this is the principle of being a man; Honor and disgrace and * * *, this is the principle of making friends; Fear of death is the principle of being a man.
33. Things are valuable only if they can be used; People are useful only if they can be used. Do things with all your heart, and be conscientious!
Applause for everyone who sings on the stage.
35. Seeing the pride of others is actually inferiority.
36. Be self-reliant and don't be swayed by other people's words and deeds; One should respect oneself and not be discouraged by difficulties. Be confident in the face of setbacks and be proud in the face of failure!
37. Opening your eyes does not mean facing reality.
38. Do things slowly, don't be too hasty and make mistakes; It's better to be stupid than to be too smart and fail. Doing things can fail, but being a man can't fail; You can fail in the past and not in the future!
39. The natural enemy of interpersonal relationships is speculation, and cracking passwords is sincere!
40, proud and frustrated, don't care; Prosperity and adversity never stop. Be kind to yourself and be very happy; Be kind to others and be extremely happy; Be kind to life and be extremely healthy.
4 1, do things, do good things, do good things, do useful things; Be a good person, be a good person, be a good person, be an excellent person. Do things, strive for diligence in work, and strive for Excellence in results; To be a man, you should have noble beliefs and self-discipline.
Anyone who wants to get help when he is in trouble should be tolerant of others on weekdays.
43. Don't borrow money from your friends. I think many times I lost my good friend because of money.
44. Without mutual harmony, there will be no prosperity of life.
Respect parents, be kind to children, be generous to relatives and friends, and be polite to the public. Treat feelings with understanding; Treat friendship with a persistent heart!
46. If you don't make a name for yourself, sarcasm will disappear; Do more practical things, and honor will come unexpectedly. Be free, independent, self-reliant, not conceited, not conceited, not conceited!
47. Be a man before you do anything. Only when it is in place can we do things successfully.
48. Be sensible, sensible and content. Knowing reason means knowing the truth of being a man and grasping the duty of being a man; Proper limit is to grasp the discretion and be able to relax; Contentment means not being captured by material desires and being content with doing nothing!
49. If you love yourself sincerely, you can love others more sincerely.
50, all good things, start from yourself; All the good things come from my mouth; All good deeds are developed from my heart; All my friends sincerely respect me.
5 1, bones should be strong, qi should be soft, ambition should be big, courage should be small, heart should be empty, words should be true, wisdom should be increased, and blessings should be cherished. A man should communicate with courtesy and righteousness, and discipline himself with shame!
52. Ten taboos for being a man: avoid vanity, laziness, arrogance, rudeness, greed, selfishness, dishonesty, evil persistence, disloyalty and lying.
53. Treat people with peace and principle, treat things clearly and decisively, and treat things with integrity, simplicity and understanding. You are aboveboard without prejudice in your heart, and aboveboard without yourself in your heart.
54. Judging others is actually a lack of self-affirmation.
55. Be expert and broad-minded. You can work part-time, but only full-time. Be an innocent person, do things with your heart, not seeking perfection, but seeking perfection!
56. Respect people who don't like you.
57. Have knowledge, responsibility, wisdom, make friends, study hard, be cautious, live diligently, aim high and be full of enthusiasm!
58. Rude people are not born, rude things are not successful, and rude countries are not at peace. Be polite, respect people, respect people, respect people!
59. A gentleman and a gentleman are friends with the same way; Villains and villains are like-minded friends.
As long as you are willing to praise others, you are the biggest winner.
26 rules for dealing with people
Looks are not annoying, and if you don't look good, you will be talented; If you have no talent, always smile.
2. temperament is the key. If you can't learn fashion, you'd rather be simple.
3. When shaking hands with people, you can shake hands for a while. Sincerity is a kind of wealth.
It is not necessary to use "I" as the subject.
5. Don't borrow money from friends.
6. Don't "force" guests to look at your family photo album.
7. When fighting with others, please sit next to the driver first.
8. Insist on saying nice things about others behind their backs, and don't worry that these nice things won't reach the ears of the parties.
9. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.
10. Drive your own car and don't stop to say hello to your colleagues who ride bicycles. People will think you are showing off.
1 1. Visit your colleague when he is ill. Sit naturally in his hospital bed and wash your hands carefully when you get home.
12. Don't let everyone know the past.
13. Respect people who don't like you.
14. Things are not people; Or be ruthless about things and have feelings for people; Or do first and do second.
15. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise is not.
16. Nothing can improve your career like watching. Forgive k? Yu? Craftsman 2 ash? Yo? What happened to acetylene?
17. Don't take others' kindness for granted. You know, gratitude.
18. The "myna" on the banyan tree is talking, just talking but not listening, and the result is a mess. Learn to listen.
19. Respect the master and cleaning aunt in the reception room.
Remember to start with "we" when you speak.
2 1. Give a hand to everyone who sings on the stage.
22. Sometimes you should know perfectly well that your diamond ring is expensive! Sometimes, even if you want to ask, you can't ask, for example, how old are you?
23. If you talk too much, you lose. Pray in crowded places.
24. change the unspoken "no" into "it will take time", "I'll try my best", "I'm not sure" and "I'll call you when I decide" ...
25. Don't expect everyone to like you. It's impossible. Making most people like you is a sign of success.
26. Of course, you should like yourself.
Classic sentences dealing with people
1. If you don't want to do it, you will find one or countless excuses; If you want to do it, you will think of one or countless ways.
I feel lonely only because you have nothing to pay attention to and no place to pay.
3. When shaking hands with people, you can shake hands for a while. Sincerity is a kind of wealth.
People who can't conquer each other with warmth can't conquer each other with beatings.
Give others a chance to help you, let them enjoy the happiness after helping others, and you also enjoy the happiness of being helped!
6. Friendship can never be a transaction; On the contrary, it needs the most thorough concept of selflessness.
7. There are three kinds of people in the world: those whose conscience is eaten by dogs, those whose conscience is not eaten by dogs, and those whose conscience doesn't even eat dogs.
8. Implication is a kind of beauty and a kind of respect for others.
9. If the son wants to be poor, he will know how to struggle when he grows up; Daughters should be educated so that they will not be tempted when they grow up.
10. When taking a taxi, please sit next to the driver first.
1 1. We can't give a second censure to those who have repented.
12. Look at people with time. Time is the inspector who reveals the essence of the other party.
13. When you walk, every step is like landing on your feet. We should bring happiness, peace and tranquility to the earth.
14. Look at a person's mind, look at his eyes; Look at a person's worth and opponents; Look at a man's cards and his friends.
15. Everyone has many dreams in his life, but if one of them keeps bothering you, all that remains is action.
16. Doubting others' rejection is actually unacceptable to yourself.
17. All people are ordinary, and some people really become ordinary people because they know this.
18. The natural enemy of interpersonal relationships is speculation, and cracking passwords is sincerity!
19. When you plan to start a new business, you can start it when one or two out of ten people agree, so it won't be too late.
As long as you are willing to praise others, you are the biggest winner.
2 1. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.
22. If everyone has good thoughts and can do a good deed every day, then the individual family and society will be happy and peaceful.
23. Don't expect everyone to like you. It's impossible. Making most people like you is a sign of success.
24. Don't forget the lonely old people at home when playing with friends outside.
25. Those who guard themselves also guard themselves in the eyes of others.
26. Sometimes the person who knows you best is not your friend, but your enemy.
27. Absorb new knowledge from people in different industries, remember! With a consulting attitude.
28. Look at yesterday clearly, grasp today in a down-to-earth manner and watch tomorrow happily. Ask for experience from yesterday, achievements from today and motivation from tomorrow.
29. Being loved for helping others, being gentle and attractive, being favored by others for gentleness, and being respected for all virtues.
30. Amer is content with contentment; Danger is not just words; Just be happy; Do not suffer from greed.
3 1. Doing your best for others means doing your best for yourself; People who don't help others can't get help from others.
A person who only cares about himself when he is young will become a very stingy person and a hopeless miser when he is old.
33. Hate can stir up disputes, while love can cover up all faults. Let go of love and hate and let nature take its course.
Generally speaking, you don't defend yourself, but you can clarify some concepts and choose some right and wrong.
35. It is not necessarily a good thing for everyone to stand on one side, such as standing on the side of the ship.
36. Insist on saying nice things about others behind their backs, and don't worry that these nice things won't reach the ears of the parties.
37. You sincerely affirm yourself, and you affirm others more openly.
38. If the enemy makes you angry, it means that you are not sure to win him; If a friend makes you angry, you still care about his friendship.
39. You can't climb the mountain in one step, but you may fall off the cliff if you are not careful.
40. A wise man can see the future development trend of things. They raised ducks instead of chickens before the flood.
4 1. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise is not.
It is an insult to show disdain for other people's happiness.
43. Drive your own car and don't stop to say hello to your colleagues who ride bicycles. People will think you are showing off.
44. Life is a movie, pain is the beginning, struggle is the process and death is the end.
45. Failure doesn't mean that you have wasted your time and life. Failure means you have reason to start over.
46. There are two kinds of people in the world who can be happy: those who practice well and don't commit crimes, and those who commit crimes and know how to repent.
47. When choosing others, let others choose themselves; when testing others, let others test themselves.
48. Most elderly people object too much, discuss too long, act too late and regret too early.
No matter how hard you are hit, please believe that as long as life is still there, the sun is new every day.
50. Timid people are afraid of danger; Cowards are afraid of danger; After the danger, the brave man was afraid.
5 1. The past is the past. What really matters is how to turn over a new leaf from now on.
52. Visit a colleague when he is ill. Sit naturally in his hospital bed and wash your hands carefully when you get home.
53. A peaceful heart is the highest quality. It has no boundaries, it is complete, pure and unpolluted. It is concentration, awareness, love and the highest wisdom.
What makes people tired is not the distant mountain, but a grain of sand in their shoes.
55. Experience is often called a mistake.
56. Love is cruel. Only on the scales in your own heart can you weigh whether you have the weight of love in each other's hearts.
57. If you make a mistake, admit it honestly. If you try to pass the buck, it will only do you harm.