Case 1

The story of Zilu's filial piety by borrowing rice

There is an old saying in China: "Filial piety comes first in all the virtues". It means that filial piety is the first of all virtues. If a person doesn't know how to honor his parents, it's hard to imagine that he will love his motherland and people.

the ancients said: "I am old when I am old, and people are old; Young and young, and young people. " We should not only honor our parents, but also respect other old people and care for young children, and create a honest folk custom of respecting the old and loving the young in the whole society. This is the responsibility of our students in the new era.

Zilu was born in Lu at the end of the Spring and Autumn Period. He is famous for his political affairs among Confucius' disciples. Especially famous for being brave. However, when Zilu was small, the family was very poor and lived by eating coarse grains and wild vegetables for many years.

once, my elderly parents wanted to eat rice, but there was no rice at home. What should I do? Zilu thought that if he crossed several mountains and borrowed some rice from his relatives, wouldn't he be able to meet his parents' requirements?

So, Xiao Zilu walked more than ten miles over the mountains, and brought a small bag of rice back from his relatives' home. When he saw his parents eating delicious rice, Zi Lu forgot his fatigue. Neighbors all praised Zilu as a brave and filial boy.

Case 2

Bao Gong was Bao Zheng (999-162 AD), whose name was Xiren, who was born in Hefei, Luzhou (now Hefei, Anhui). His father, Bao Yi, used to be a doctor in Chaosan, and was posthumously awarded as an assistant minister of punishments after his death. Bao Gong was famous for his filial piety when he was a teenager, and he was straightforward and honest. In Song Renzong Tiansheng five years, that is, in 127 AD, he entered the Jinshi, when he was 28 years old. He first served as a judge of Dali Temple, and later as a magistrate of Jianchang (now Yongxiu, Jiangxi). Because his parents were too old to go abroad with him, Bao Gong immediately resigned from his office and went home to take care of his parents. His filial piety was praised by officials.

A few years later, his parents died one after another, and Bao Gong stepped into his official career again. This is also under the hard persuasion of the villagers. In feudal society, if parents only have one son, then this son can't leave his parents alone and go to other places to be an official. This is against the feudal law. Under normal circumstances, parents will follow for their son's future. Or the son and the rest of the family to persuade. Parents don't want to follow their son to an official place to support the elderly, which is rare in feudal times, because it means that the son has to abide by the constraints of feudal ethics-resign from his official position to take care of himself. The history books did not explain the specific reasons. It may be that his parents were sick and could not bear the bumps on the road. Bao Gong resigned from his office.

No matter what the situation is, Bao Gong can voluntarily resign from his official position, which still shows that he is not the kind of person who is obsessed with officialdom. Filial piety to parents can also be regarded as an example for people with some qualities today. In the previous stories, the most important thing was Bao Gong's unselfishness, ignoring Bao Gong's filial piety to his parents.

Case 3

Huangxiang in the Eastern Han Dynasty was a model of filial piety recognized in history. When Huang Xiang was a child, his family was difficult. At the age of 1, he lost his mother and his father was ill. In the sultry summer, he used a fan to catch mosquitoes before going to bed and cool his father's bed and pillow so that he could fall asleep earlier. On a cold winter night, he first got into the cold bed and warmed it with his body before letting his father sleep. In winter, he can't afford to wear a cotton-padded jacket. In order not to make his father sad, he never cries cold, showing the appearance of cheering and jumping for joy, and trying to create a happy atmosphere at home, so that his father can relax and recover soon.

Case 4

Zhu De, a revolutionary of the older generation, wrote "Remembering My Mother", praising her incomparable love and noble quality with infinite affection. Mao Zedong received a letter from his mother's critically ill family, and went on a journey day and night. He stroked his mother's coffin and wailed aloud. In grief, he wrote "A Tribute to Mother": "My mother has a high wind and is the first to promote fraternity". Soong Ching Ling's filial piety was sincere, and she "sobbed" before her mother's spirit. Chen Yi visited her mother and insisted on washing clothes for her mother who was paralyzed in bed. Li Peng is a filial mother. On holidays, Mr. and Mrs. Li Peng always bring their mother's favorite food and pay their respects to her.

Case 5

A 13-year-old boy's speech entitled "Mom, I am your eye" in Jianping Middle School in Shanghai, which is famous for implementing the "cross-century education project" in China, made 26 members of the national women mayors' delegation cry. When this classmate was 9 years old, his mother was blind, and his young shoulders bore more responsibilities and obligations of the family prematurely. In order to buy a tape of Shanghai opera that his mother liked, he used his rest day to run in the streets of Shanghai for six hours!

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Second, honor your parents. Famous sayings

It's not against your will to raise a dutiful son. -"Book of Rites"

There are three kinds of filial piety: great respect for relatives, followed by humiliation, and support under them. -"Book of Rites"

You must know the year of your parents. One is joy, the other is fear. -The Analects of Confucius

When Meng Wubo asked about filial piety, Confucius said, "Parents are only worried about illness." -"The Analects of Confucius Governing Politics"

Parents love what they love, and parents respect it. -Confucius

all ages are orderly. -Mencius

I am old, and people are old; Young, young, and young people. The world is in your hands. -Mencius

The most filial son is to respect his relatives. -Mencius

Only filial piety can relieve worries. -Mencius

Father and son are related, the monarch and the minister are righteous, the husband and wife are different, the young and the old are intimate, and the friends are trustworthy. -Mencius

What's more important? Things are big; Keep, which is bigger? Be big. I have heard of those who can serve their relatives without losing their bodies; I have never heard of anyone who can serve his relatives without his body. Who is not doing things? Things are close, and things are the foundation; Who doesn't keep it? Keeping the body, keeping the foundation. -Mencius

Benevolence is the truth, and it is also a matter of kinship; The truth of righteousness, from brother is also. -Mencius

can't be close, can't be a man; If you don't like your relatives, you can't be a child. -Mencius

A gentleman has three pleasures, but he who rules the world has nothing to do with it. Parents exist, brothers have no reason, and they are happy; Yang is worthy of the sky, and he does not care about people, and he is also happy; It's three pleasures to get the talents in the world and educate them. A gentleman has three pleasures, but the king of the world does not exist. -Mencius

There are five so-called unfilial people in the world, and four of them are lazy, regardless of their parents' support. Boyi likes drinking, regardless of his parents' support, and he is also unfilial; Good goods and wealth, private wife, regardless of parents' support, three unfilial; From the desire of eyes and ears, I thought that my parents were killed and four were unfilial; Be brave and ruthless, endanger your parents, and be unfilial. -Mencius

Without father and monarch, he is an animal. -Mencius

Virtues and virtues cannot be separated, if life is hard, if beauty and evil cannot be moved. -"Lu Chunqiu"

A dutiful son does not flatter his relatives, a loyal minister does not flatter his monarch, and a courtier is prosperous. -Zhuangzi

Those who care about their relatives are willing to settle down at will, and they are extremely filial. —— Zhuangzi

Rituals, which break long and continue short, do more harm than good, and express love and respect, but cultivate the beauty of righteousness. -Xunzi

The nature of heaven and earth, man is precious; People's trip is greater than filial piety, and filial piety is greater than strict father. -

Parents are the foundation of people. -Sima Qian

It is better to be respectful than three animals. -worry

if the father and son don't believe it, the family will be at odds. -Wu Zetian

but how much love has the inch-long grass, who won the third spring festival. -Meng Jiao

He who is harmonious within himself has a prosperous family. -Lin Bu

Everyone has a heart for filial piety. -su zhe

the elders stand, the young don't sit, the elders sit, and life is to sit. Before you respect your elders, you should keep your voice low and not smell it, but it is not appropriate. Advance is inevitable, retreat is inevitable, ask about it, and don't move. -Li Yuxiu

All parents love their sons. -Chen Hongmou

It's easy to be quiet when you wait on your parents. Don't yell at them for trifles. -Zhou Bingqing

The elder asked, don't bully; Order of the elders, do not be late; The elders give, but dare not quit. -Zhou bingqing

attaching importance to wealth, neglecting parents, is not a son of man. -Zhu Bailu

Losing a loving mother is like putting a flower in a bottle. Although it still has color and fragrance, it has lost its root. -Lao She

There is nothing to replace a mother. -ba Jin

in the eyes of parents, children are often a part of themselves, and children are the opportunity for his ideal self to come again. -Fei Xiaotong

Old people are like history and drama, which can be used as a reference for our lives. Cicero (ancient Rome)

Go ahead, son, and get to know your mother with a smile! -(ancient Rome) Virgil

Goodwill brings happiness, and civilization brings harmony. -(France) Hugo

If a person makes his mother sad, no matter how prominent his position is, no matter how famous he is, he is a despicable person. -(Italy) Amicus

Being old and respected is the first privilege that appears in human society. -(France) Laffargue

We should be considerate of the elderly and treat them like children. -(Germany) Goethe

In front of their children, parents should be good at hiding all their happiness, troubles and fears. -(British) Bacon

Mother is the only force that can bring death to its knees. -(former Soviet Union) Gorky

All the glory and pride in the world come from mothers. -Gorky

The death of an old man is equivalent to dumping a museum. -Gorky

It is the most beautiful privilege of human spirit that the elderly are respected. -(France) Stendhal

Old age, like a nightingale, should have its serenade. -(Germany) Kant

Zilu borrows rice to honor his parents

There is an old saying in China: "all the virtues's filial piety comes first". It means that filial piety is the first of all virtues. If a person doesn't know how to honor his parents, it's hard to imagine that he will love his motherland and people.

the ancients said: "I am old when I am old, and people are old; Young and young, and young people. " We should not only honor our parents, but also respect other old people and care for young children, and create a honest folk custom of respecting the old and loving the young in the whole society. This is the responsibility of our students in the new era.

Zilu was born in Lu at the end of the Spring and Autumn Period. He is famous for his political affairs among Confucius' disciples. Especially famous for being brave. However, when Zilu was small, the family was very poor and lived by eating coarse grains and wild vegetables for many years.

once, my elderly parents wanted to eat rice, but there was no rice at home. What should I do? Zilu thought that if he crossed several mountains and borrowed some rice from his relatives, wouldn't he be able to meet his parents' requirements?

So, Xiao Zilu walked more than ten miles over the mountains, and brought a small bag of rice back from his relatives' home. When he saw his parents eating delicious rice, Zi Lu forgot his fatigue. Neighbors all praised Zilu as a brave and filial boy. Cancel the revision

All outstanding extraordinary people have excellent mothers, and they respect their mothers very much in their later years and regard them as their best friends. -(British) Dickens