He had a wife and a son before becoming a monk. At this time, his son has grown up and won the top spot in high school. It is not easy for both father and son to win the first prize. At that time, it was a much-told story. At this time, his wife and children believed him very much, but after he became a monk, there was no news and there was no way to find him.
Perhaps it is because of the true yearning for relatives. One day, the top scholar monk suddenly had the idea of going home to visit relatives, so he returned to his hometown. When I arrived at the gate of my son's scholar's mansion, the servant thought it was a monk's alms, so he went into the house and told his wife that she was kind-hearted and asked the servant to give me a fight. The champion didn't accept it, hoping to meet the master. The servant thought the monk was greedy and reported to his wife; The lady also asked the servant to give money consistently. The top scholar monk still refused to accept it, that is, he asked for a pen and paper and wrote a poem: "I won't charge a thousand dollars for fighting rice, and I will swim back to my hometown in thirteen years." Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so don't be their cattle and horses. "The servant gave this poem to his wife; The lady was very surprised when she saw it. She ran out of the door, but the monk had left. Madame immediately sent someone to look around and never saw anyone again.
This poem is very suitable for many families now. All families are running for their children. When I was a child, they said: It will be easy when the child is older. When children grow up and worry about them, there is no time to relax.
Every family is devoting all its resources to training the next generation, but the next generation is different. In addition to the relationship with family wealth and culture, it is also a question of whether the children's own blessings are enough. Therefore, parents not only strive for their children's future, but more importantly, accumulate blessings for their children. This is the solution to the source problem. Children themselves can understand that good deeds are rewarded, and doing more good deeds will bring good results. If you can practice Buddhism by karma, it will bring great help to people's life!
At present, it is popular to hold "full moon bath", "adult wine" and "round lock banquet". Dozens of tables, if possible. If the table is full of life, life will be lost because of the child's birthday party. At this time, whose life debt do you think this is? As parents, we should know how to accumulate blessings for our children and know how to be good for them. This also requires rational study and thinking.
Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, and parents in the world should still accumulate as many blessings as possible for their children and do good deeds!
Suppose this person has only one hundred thousand blessings. If his parents love him since childhood, give him good food and drink, and buy him a school with money. Before he graduated from college, he had spent100000.
It will be difficult for him to make money after graduation. Because the blessings have been spent since childhood, which is very pitiful. Therefore, college students work for primary school students, and many bosses are uneducated, but we can't look down on them. They have a blessing. Without culture, you will not starve to death, and without blessings, you will not be able to eat and wear.
Teach children not to spend too much money on education. What you spent was your money, but what you lost was his blessing. Many people are beautiful when they are young, but they are miserable when they grow up. Lost the scenery of blessing. The ancients said that to cultivate the happiness of the old, we should not enjoy the happiness of the young, but enjoy the happiness of the old.
To educate children, we must know how to find the roots. Filial piety is good for parents, and children naturally obey. Talk back to your parents, and your children will talk back to you in the future.
In the laws of the universe, many are irreplaceable. Children's blessings are gone, and they have to cultivate themselves slowly. You can't replace it. The more you care about your children, the more difficult it will be for them to achieve anything in the future. If you care too much, you will lose his blessing. He will be rewarded in his hardship in the future.
In that Futian, the elders are our Futian. We should respect our elders and predecessors. After we become elders, future generations will respect you.
We should take care of our elders more than our younger ones. Nowadays, people care more about their children than their parents. In the future, when children grow up and have children, they will care more about them than you do.
The ancients said, don't leave money to children, children have ambition, he can be self-reliant. The child has no promise. If you leave him money, he will easily become corrupt.
Then what should we leave behind? Let's do good deeds and set an example, and our children and grandchildren will naturally be rewarded. It is best to deposit the money in Yinde Bank for the benefit of future generations.
I have seen many people do good deeds, fast and recite Buddha, and their descendants are very good. Master's father is called Li locally, and monk Xu Yun's father is also called Xiao.
Blessed people can naturally attract future generations. Heaven is fair, the ancients said that wealth is not as good as three generations, which means that virtue is not good and it is impossible to be rich forever. The rich will become poor. The poor work hard slowly, their virtue improves, and when the blessings come up, they become rich. This is the law of causality, the conservation of energy.
Rich people like to spend a lot of money on their children and provide a good education. Education in the world is also very good. But the best education is Ford's education.
Giving children Ford education is more than just knowledge and technology education.
Let children suffer in adversity and grow up in adversity in order to stand firm in the future. Parents really want to accumulate blessings for their children and have extra money for charity to accumulate virtue.
Many people leave a lot of money for their children, which are spoiled and spoiled by them. As a result, their children stopped listening. It's good for the child to suffer, it's good for him!
Ways to let children accumulate blessings
Parents are roots, children and grandchildren are branches and leaves. If parents are not filial, they will cut off their roots and die; If parents raise them with filial piety, people will prosper and their children will live a long life.
The Buddha told everyone that the cultivation of worldly laws (such as work, exams, wealth, marriage, popularity, status, height, etc.). ) We should start by being filial to our parents and teachers.
Our support should not focus on the next generation, but on the previous generation. Seeing the previous generation, the next generation must be blessed. Seeing the next generation, the next generation will not be blessed. If we can be filial to our parents from the birth of our children and let them see and learn things every day-then the children will be very blessed in the future.
On the other hand, if we focus on the next generation, regardless of the previous generation, cherish parents and cherish children, then the children's happiness will be very poor. This will also have a consequence, that is, in the future, children will become parents, regardless of us, only care about the children who love them. We can observe the attitude of any rich children in Hong Kong towards their parents and ancestors-respect without contradiction. This is a great blessing. Demonstrate that children will be filial to their parents from the beginning of pregnancy, and children will be blessed.
Remember at all times: it is a real honor to press yourself down, and you will certainly get respectable results in the future-only by pressing yourself down can you put yourself on the lowland like the sea and gather all kinds of wisdom.
There are also ways to help children release their children on their 15th birthdays, do good deeds with lucky money, print scriptures and guide them to do it themselves. Usually, we should take good care of the bugs on the roadside, scrimp and save, be kind in body and mind, and be filial to grandparents, parents and other elders. Our parents should do good deeds, Amitabha.