Chen Guo holds a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fudan University and is known as one of the Three Treasures of "Fudan North District". She studied under James D, Ph.D. in Theology from Harvard University, and Evelyn, Ph.D. in Psychology from the University of Chicago. Currently, he is a teacher in the "Ideological and Moral Cultivation and Basic Law Course" in the Department of Social Sciences of Fudan University. Here is a collection of Chen Guo's classic quotations for your reference. Welcome to learn from them!

1) Only those who have a lonely self-awareness and reflect on themselves can have precious friends

2) Friends are not drinking buddies, playmates, or comfort when you are lonely

3) The network is not built for any utilitarian reasons

4) Those who gather together are often not friends, but lonely people

7) Because he can’t bear to see you continue to fall

8) Friends rarely fall in love at first sight, just like lovers rarely fall in love at first sight

9) Friends You are not someone you can vent your worries and complaints without thinking, otherwise you are selfish and are using your friends instead of unprincipled mutual support and sharing

10) Think for the other person, and Not as a verbal trash can or an emotional trash can

11) Why do you inflict the troubles and pains you feel on the other person?

12) Complaining is a kind of poison and debt

13) Friends are useless - without utilitarian use

14) The spirit of Fudan is "free and Useless souls"

15) Chinese people’s utilitarian use - traditional thinking

16) Making friends is not for use, shelter, or a safe outlet

17) Friends are not for taking, but for giving

18) Love must be given

19) Why should you love him?

20) Because this person makes you feel a tacit spiritual understanding that you have never had before

21) Friends are like air and water

22) “And I don’t think about it often, but it’s everywhere”

23) The “sense of togetherness” that friends bring us

24) When encountering a crisis in real life, we often don’t Ask friends for help, but find people with clear boundaries of interests to help

25) Friendship is like love, so crystal clear, pure and beautiful

26) I can’t bear to do it because of my personal For some reasons, when it is not necessary, let your friend take on some utilitarian purposes and bring him trouble

　27) Make friends because you love him.

28) If you love him, don’t create trouble for him, and don’t let him worry too much about you.

29) If you really love your parents, the most important thing is not to let them worry too much, because they have done too much for us.

30) Friends are so important that they will not be used for utilitarian purposes and do not require any sensory stimulation. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.

31) Friends are not daily necessities, they are luxuries. Once you have them, you will feel satisfied.

32) There are no practical requirements for friends. When I am in crisis, you don't need to do anything for me, you just need to be with me.

33) Maybe it’s just a handshake at this point, but that’s enough. A sense of spiritual understanding and togetherness is enough. With you here, I won't be lonely.

34) True friends always go against instrumental rationality. It has always been against any secular, utilitarian and practical purpose. So instrumentalists

　35) will not have real friends.

36) Only by giving up the idea of ??"useful" can you have friends.

37) The premise of a friend is sincerity.

38) That is, when I am with my friends, I can be myself. Under the principle of equality, I can act and speak as I wish.

39) You can even think quietly without words.

40) He can be himself in front of me. I recognize that he can act according to his own will and I do not impose any principles.

41) The best criterion for measuring friendship is: when you are with your friends, your heart is satisfied and the higher level is peace. There is no action that needs to be done, nothing that has to be said, no enthusiasm that needs to be invested in order to break the ice.

42) Friends bring more than lively popularity. What friends really do is to help us better understand the happiness of being alone, which is far greater than the happiness of being alone.

43) Because a person will feel dazed, uneasy, and doubtful when alone.

44) When you are with friends, you feel absolutely safe, relaxed, peaceful and connected.

45) Language is the lowest level of communication between people.

46) When the only way to communicate is through talking, the two of you are far apart.

47) When the relationship is close and you know each other, a look and a handshake are enough.

48) When you are with a true friend, there are no words, no pretense, no actions.

49) Because friends are healthy and peaceful air.

50) When together, be quiet but not deserted.

51) A relaxed atmosphere is formed based on years of trust and mutual understanding.

52) There should be "understanding sympathy" and "sympathetic understanding" between friends

53) Sympathy: the emotion of empathy. Compassionate Heart: Great Compassion.

54) When you don’t have time to reject me, I won’t take it seriously, because I know that if I were you, I would do the same, and I know that you are more important

55) things to do.

56) Friends are like air, coexisting with each other but without interference. No embarrassment or restraint.

57) The most laborious thing between anyone is explanation. Between friends, there is no need to explain, sympathetic understanding, understanding and sympathy.

58) A real farewell should have more space for commemoration, remembrance, and aftertaste. Rather than noise, drunkenness—violence of words, violence of deeds.

59) The gathering and spiritual sharing between true friends must be in the world of two people.

60) It is not easy for two people to find a topic of mutual interest, but it is even harder to find a topic of mutual interest for three people. Two people having sex