The biggest reason for reading 1 is to get rid of mediocrity and have a wonderful life one day earlier; A day later is an extra day of mediocrity.

Sincerely and frankly admitting the failure after the struggle and the loss after the success will only become more calm.

The pursuit of life, emotional collision and enterprising enthusiasm can be hidden but not poor; It can be natural, but it cannot be light.

The process of the Yangtze River is also like a person's life. It is always full of wonder and danger in the initial stage, and it will become gentle and realistic in the old age when it is about to end its life.

I hope more people in the world will cherish their every step, be diligent in recording, be willing to review and be good at correcting, so that the whole life can irrigate and nourish each other.

If one day we suddenly find that it is better to devote ourselves to a big career than to treat our life as a career, and it is better to listen to a good story than to treat our life as a story, we will definitely start writing and do some interesting things. Might as well call this game "the game of collecting life". Let today collect yesterday and tomorrow collect today. In one collection after another, the original fragments became a long line, and the original pool became a river. And the river, there is no danger of rancidity and dryness.

7 Excellence is outstanding because of rarity. Isn't it dangerous to associate yourself with rarity? Since everyone is ordinary, don't underestimate the order of secular years and ordinary years. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, don't swear, don't fantasize, just walk slowly and responsibly day by day, walking on the two-way road of memory and yearning, so that you will have the usual taste and realm.

I'm a traveler, and I don't want to stay somewhere for too long. Comfortable shanzhai is easy to bury longing, and abundant spring water is easy to stay in life. And any detention is self-blocking, and any settlement is a trap of creation.

9 all kinds of tasks, as long as the interpersonal relationship is complicated, nothing can be done; On the contrary, the mountain is high and the road is far. As long as the interpersonal relationship is simple, it makes sense.

10 Maturity is a bright and invisible brilliance, a mellow and not greasy voice, a calmness that no longer needs to observe others, an atmosphere that eventually no longer attracts the surrounding, a smile that ignores the hubbub, a kind of indifference that washes away extremes, and a kind of thick and unobtrusive height.

1 1 The coming and going of friendship is a detector, which tells you the true relationship with the original level. If in a field, a group of friends suddenly look at each other coldly and frame up for no reason, that means you can leave. You shouldn't be here in the first place. I gave you a temporary smile, just to ask. They can't reconcile with each other under the condition of asking clearly. Your existence can only bring turmoil to this village, and it is very unsafe for you to live in this village. Then you should go on your way. Yesterday's friendship has already disappeared in the cow dung fire at dusk. The stars are in the sky, and there is a mountain road ahead. Don't say goodbye, don't leave messages, it's all meaningless. It's important to leave quickly.

12 the great fisherman is the representative of human beings. He sits and negotiates with the sea instead of waiting for trivial alms on the other side.

13 What we have tried our best to maintain, what we have been striving for and worrying about is often not the most precious thing in life.

14 in the world, noisy may be false; What people laugh at may be true; Long-awaited, may be false; What is caught off guard may be true; Overlapping bedstead layers may be fake; Thin, maybe true.

15 life, as long as there is a glimmer of hope, there are infinite possibilities.

16 When you make a choice about some complicated problems, you should first decompress yourself and let yourself relax. Under heavy pressure, even the air is distorted, and it is the easiest to make wrong decisions.

17 Most of my friends have their own expectations, but no one has pointed out this expectation. Peeping at each other all day is really tiring. In this case, if a friend suddenly shows disappointment and then leaves, it is a gratifying move to end the falsehood and will make both sides feel relaxed.

18 is afraid of failure, but it is difficult to do things well.

19 The master will not compete with the ballroom lady in singing, and a general will not show his strategy and tactics in fighting with his neighbors.

Don't be afraid of being misunderstood by others, and wait for understanding. Modern life is independent and Vientiane coexists. The owner's willow is short, so there is no need to explain to passers-by that it could have grown taller. The pagoda tree in Jia Xi is taller, and there is no need to explain to neighbors that they have no intention of monopolizing Feng Shui.

2 1 If a new thing is understood immediately, it is not new; A brilliant idea, which everyone immediately understood, was not brilliant. Any real creation is a departure from the original model, a breakthrough in social adaptation and a challenge to people's habits. If we eagerly expect everyone to understand, the purity of creation will be greatly reduced. Mediocre, waving in front.

What is the essence of vagrancy? Columbus showed that he didn't care about his feet, but only about the front.

There are only two possibilities to feel the crisis of living space in social transformation. The first is to change your lifestyle to expand your space; The second is to destroy other people's living space to expand themselves.

Some people are destroying it passionately, while others are pursuing it bit by bit; Some people are laughing plausibly, others are struggling; Some people gain power through gossip, while others walk in the ice and snow.

No one should avoid and cover up some of the simplest and natural life topics, such as age. No matter how high the position, no matter how much wealth, and no matter how great the disaster, compared with the passing of Shao Hua, the vicissitudes of time, the eyes of young and old, and the interweaving of life and death, all become superficial. The northern geese are singing, and the old emperor and the beggar have heard it together; Cold mountains sweep graves, but the tears of the elders and the tears of the younger generation are different in weight.

The loneliness of the elderly is like the weakness of the elderly, which is inevitable. This is a bit cruel, but this cruelty belongs to all mankind.

-I don't approve of praising youth too much, but insist that this is an era full of traps. Life will encounter traps, but the traps in youth are the most, the biggest and the most dangerous.

-Old people praise youth, mostly focusing on the infinite possibilities of youth. But they forget that this possibility is often a narrow road when it comes to specific individuals. If you choose one possibility by mistake, you will lose other possibilities. Although young people still have a long way to go and can constantly re-choose, a real person is limited by various social relations and objective conditions and does not have much freedom to re-choose. The tragedy of "a slip of the foot makes a lasting regret" happens everywhere, but many slips don't look like slips.

-a lifelong moral character is basically formed in youth. Unfortunately, in a crucial era, young people are always encouraged to strive for success, but the so-called success is always branded with exclusion and selfishness. As a result, they have no wrinkles on their cheeks, but they have dug an invisible black hole morally.

-There are also some profound philosophers in history who praise the youth for promoting the vitality of society. This is a cure for the world, especially for an ancient and tired empire. Large doses should be moderate and need to be fully and reasonably controlled. Because there is obviously an antinomy here: the stronger the object, the more you need to encourage young people to deal with it, and they are just young and can't mediate with real firmness. They just put down their history textbooks. Have they ever observed the desolate connotation of history? They talk about society casually. Have they ever thought about the original mission of culture? It is unfair to put the historical mission of students on his shoulders. If we encourage them and put pressure on them at the same time, they will only become a bunch of twisted bodies and shrill voices, which we saw a long time ago at the beginning of the Cultural Revolution.

What is the normal state of youth? I think everything starts with sincere modesty. Young people should know that the world has existed in a colorful and complicated way for countless years before we were born. We know nothing, and we are lucky to be able to gain a foothold in the corner and make some achievements. If you work hard for a few years, you will actually take root and sprout from your feet and connect with the whole blood of the world, which will connect your thin life with human beings. We should be surprised at this connection. Imagine a mere five feet, connected thousands of years ago and thousands of miles away. It is this connection that makes you appreciate the sublime, care about the magnificent and experience diversity. How can it be worthwhile to suddenly change your face, break these ties and criticize indiscriminately? This modest and safe ecology can also avoid unnecessary waste of youth life and make it possible for young people to live as happy as young people.