First, people suffer because they pursue the wrong things.
second, it's not so much that others make you suffer, it's better to say that your self-cultivation is not enough.
third, if you don't bother yourself, others will never bother you. Because of your own heart, you can't let go.
Fourth, discipline yourself well and don't mind others.
5. if you don't forgive all beings, you will suffer yourself.
6. Don't say that others are pitiful, but you are even more pitiful. What about practicing by yourself? How much do you know about life?
7. Learning Buddhism is a confession to your own conscience, not for others to see.
8. People who don't have enough blessings will often hear right and wrong; People who have enough blessings have never heard of right and wrong.
nine, practice is a bit of work.
1. If you practice in prosperity, you will never become a Buddha.
XI. You should always thank all beings who have given you adversity.
12. You should always accept your fate, because you are human.
thirteen, you should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they hurt you, you must let go before you can get real happiness.
XIV. The world is inherently painful, without exception.
15. When you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal.
sixteen, know yourself, surrender yourself, change yourself, and you can change others.
17th, today's persistence will cause tomorrow's regret.
18. You can have love, but don't cling to it, because separation is inevitable.
nineteen, don't waste your life on something you will regret.
2. When you let go, there will be no trouble.
21. If there is no separation in the heart, it is true asceticism.
22. The first concept of learning Buddhism is never to look at the faults of all beings. You see the faults of all beings, you will always pollute yourself, and it is impossible for you to practice.
23. If you see the faults and right and wrong of all beings every day, you should repent as soon as possible. This is the case.
24. People with deep karma are always looking at the faults and shortcomings of others. Those who really practice never look at the faults and shortcomings of others.
25. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
26. When you know the confusion, it is not pitiful, but when you don't know the confusion, it is the most pitiful.
erqi, arrogant people can be saved, but people who feel inferior can't be saved.
28th, don't always be dissatisfied with others, you should always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, you will suffer yourself.
29. All evil laws are illusory, so don't feel too inferior to yourself. All good laws are vain, so don't be too arrogant.
3. When you are upset, you should tell yourself that all this is false. What are you upset about?
Sany, when you haven't studied Buddhism, everything seems to go wrong with you. When you learn Buddhism, everything you want to see is smooth.
three, two, you should tolerate those who have different opinions from you, so life is easier. If you keep trying to change him, it will be very painful for you. Learn how to put up with him. You have to learn how to tolerate him.
three three, to admit your greatness is to agree with your ignorance.
34. Practice is to correct one's wrong ideas.
three or five, it is difficult for doctors to cure people who die, and it is difficult for Buddha to cross all beings who have no chance.
36. If a person can't forgive others from the heart, he will never feel at ease.
notoginseng, people who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.
March 8th, it takes only one word to destroy a person, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please be merciful.
39. When you advise others, even the best words are useless if you don't care about others' self-esteem.
forty, don't mix arrogance with your wisdom. Don't make your modesty lack wisdom.
41. You don't have to look back to see who cursed you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to get down and bite him back?
42. Being jealous of others will not add any benefits to yourself. Being jealous of others can't reduce their achievements.
43. Never waste a minute thinking about anyone you don't like.
44. How many people will say the same thing when they leave this world? This world is really helpless and desolate!
45. Love is not a charity, so you can't just give it away. Feelings have no formula, no principle and no reason to follow. But people are still persistent and pursuing until they die.
46. Please express your dissatisfaction and grievances with compassion and gentleness, and others will accept them easily.
47. Those who create opportunities are brave. He who waits for an opportunity is a fool.
48. It is not true wisdom to be able to say but not to do.
49. Listen carefully to what others say, and don't express your own opinions in a hurry.
5. Why do you put poison in the same bottle? The same psychology, why are you full of troubles?
May Day, we will always think that what we can't get is beautiful, because you know too little about him and have no time to get along with him. One day, after you get to know it better, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think.
52. There is only smoothness in this world, but nothing is perfect.
53. Practice should be patient and willing to be indifferent and lonely.
one day alive during the may 4th movement is a blessing, so we should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.
five or five, the more you pay attention to others, the less you pay attention to yourself, do you understand?
56. Don't keep your eyes open so wide. Let me ask you, after a hundred years, it will be yours.
57. If you want to know about the sword robbery in the world, listen to the sound of the butcher's door at midnight. Don't just blame yourself for being sick and bringing disaster, but look at how many sentient beings have died by your sword.
hating others is a great loss to yourself.
59. Everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't know life.
6. People who think they own wealth are actually owned by wealth.
June 1st, emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only by letting go of emotional attachment can you be at ease.
62. Fate is not to muddle along, but to do one's best to listen to destiny.
63. Don't be too sure of your opinion. You will have less regrets like this.
June 4th, when you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.
65. It is shameful for a person to cover up his shortcomings by hurting others.
people in the world should be responsible for the law. A man of practice should be responsible for cause and effect.
67. When you are poor, you should give alms with your body, such as sweeping the floor, sprinkling water and moving things. This is also a kind of alms.
68. A person who is full of jealousy, is not frank in his heart, and has an improper speech cannot be regarded as a person with good facial features.
caring and blessing others silently is an invisible charity.
7. Tell more jokes and handle things with a humorous attitude, so life will be easier.
71. The way to get along with others lies in infinite tolerance.
72. Don't try to guess what others think. If you don't have the wisdom and experience to make a correct judgment, you will usually make mistakes.
73. To understand a person, we only need to see whether his starting point and destination are the same, so we can know whether he is sincere.
74. The truth of life is just hidden in blandness.
75. People who don't take a shower won't smell good if they wear perfume hard. Fame and honor come from real talent and learning. Virtue is natural and fragrant.
76. Instead of rejecting it, you might as well accept it. This is called resignation.
July 7th, Buddhas and Bodhisattvas only bless those who are willing to help themselves.
78. Adversity is a necessary process for growth. People who are brave enough to accept adversity will grow stronger and stronger.
79. You should thank the person who told you your shortcomings.
eighty, people who can think for others will never be lonely.
Bayi, if you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as others, then your life will be extraordinary.
82. Forgiving others means leaving room in your heart for maneuver.
83. Time will pass, so let time wash away your troubles!
84. If you insist on taking simple things seriously, you will be very painful.
85. People who distort others' goodwill forever are hopeless.
86. People are not bad, but just habits. Everyone has habits, but they are different in depth. As long as he has the right heart, forgive him if he can, and don't regard him as a bad person.
87. If you tell a lie, you have to make up ten lies to make up for it. Why bother?
in fact, people who love beauty are just falling in love with themselves.
eighty-nine, there is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be admired. When you talk a lot, others will criticize you. When you talk a little, others will criticize you. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.
9. Those who praise us and admire us are not famous teachers. Those who will tell us and instruct us are good knowledge, and with them we will make progress.
91. Everything you have now will become others' with your death, so why not give it to those who really need it now?
92. To practice for the sake of praise is like a trampled fragrant flower and beautiful grass.
93. Living a day in vain and doing nothing is like committing theft.
94. Being able to keep yourself low is the real honor.
in the Ninth Five-Year Plan, make friends with many people, that is, don't hurt anyone.
96. Silence is the best answer to slander.
in 1997, to be respectful to others is to solemnly respect yourself.
if you have a selfless love, you have everything.
ninety-nine, hatred can never dissolve hatred, only compassion can dissolve hatred, which is the eternal truth.
1. It is better for you to accept your fate than to complain. There is no better way for you to accept the unchangeable facts.
11. Don't bring your troubles because of the ignorance of all beings. Don't suffer yourself because of the ignorance of all beings.
12. There is no need to be angry or sad when others say that we are not good. You don't have to be happy to say that we are good. There are good and bad things in this, depending on whether you can use it or not.
13. If you are clearly right and others insist that you are wrong, you should also confess to others. This is what practice is all about. You can make progress only if you can endure everything. Even if you are right, you have to ask others for repentance, and that is practice.
14. When your mistakes are revealed, don't lose your temper. Don't think that being willful or noisy can hide or overcome your shortcomings.
15. Don't always feel unhappy. There are more people in the world who suffer than us.
a fool always wants others to know him. A wise man tries to understand himself.
17. Others are always right, and I am always wrong, which is less troublesome.
18. Coming is accidental and leaving is inevitable. So you must, with the fate unchanged, unchanged with the fate.
compassion is your best weapon.
11, as long as you face the reality, you can surpass it.
111. Conscience is everyone's fairest judge. You can fool others, but you can never fool your own conscience.
112. People who don't know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others.
113. Learning Buddhism is just learning to be a man.
114. Righteousness practices evil methods, and evil methods are also right. Evil people practice right methods, and right methods are also evil. Everything is created by mind.
115. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves calmly, what are we pursuing? What are we living for?
116. Don't stay away from your closest friends because of small disputes, and don't forget the kindness of others because of small resentment.
117. Being brave in accepting other people's criticism can just adjust your own shortcomings.
118. Thank God for what I have and what I don't have.
119. Anyone who can think of others from their perspective is compassion.
12. Learning Buddhism is not a kind of sustenance for death, but living freely and surpassing now.
121. The Buddha never forced others to do things he didn't like. The Buddha just told all beings what is good. What is evil? You still have to choose good and evil, and you still have to master your life.
one, two, the so-called letting go is to get rid of your separation, right and wrong, gain and loss, and persistence.
one, two, three, don't be aggressive, don't be lethal, don't boast about your abilities, don't promote others' evil, and naturally you can turn your enemy into your friend.
one, two, four, a person who often looks at other people's shortcomings is not good enough because he has no time to review himself.
125. Right and wrong happen every day. If you don't listen to nature, right and wrong will happen every day. If you don't listen, right and wrong will still happen. What do you do?
one, two, six, the real charity is to let go of your troubles, worries, separation and persistence.
127. If you really love him, then you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.
128. To overcome the fear of death, you must accept the idea that all people in the world will die.
129. Of all patients, doctors are the most difficult to treat, and all sentient beings and self-righteous people are the most difficult to survive.
13. A donkey will not become a handsome horse even if he eats the best grass. Practice with perseverance and separation, and no matter how hard you make progress, you will not become a Buddha.
131. People who know the eternal truth will not mourn for any where will you go, because where will you go is inevitable.
132. Although you hate a person, you can find his advantages and benefits. There are really few people with such accomplishments in the world.
133. if you can let everything go with him, you are a free man in the world.
134. I hope you always tell yourself that I am the happiest person when I smell the Dharma, and there is nothing but this happiness.
135. If you can shout "I don't need to worry about this little thing" 21 times a day, you will find that you have an incredible power in your heart. Try it and it will be very useful.
136. Be honest with your inner contradictions and stains, and don't deceive yourself.
137. Cause and effect never owe us anything, so please don't complain.
138. We do have some advantages, but we have to hide some. This is called self-restraint.
139. Don't gossip about anything, right and wrong often breed gossip.
14. Most people only do three things in their life. Self-deception, deception, and being deceived.
141. People who admire themselves too much will not appreciate the advantages of others.
142. He who lives in applause from others cannot stand the test.
143, the heart is the biggest liar, others can.