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The New Year is coming again. Whenever I celebrate the New Year, I always think of some topics to talk about in my tutor’s chatter. This year I suddenly thought of such a topic. Talk it out and share it with all your children.
Does it take discipline to not speak loudly in front of parents? Yes, it requires cultivation and it is a long-term cultivation and practice. It is not just a simple rule that will suffice. It requires children to go through trials and gain deep insights from their hearts, so that they can truly reach a state, even nirvana. Mere preaching has little effect and falls on deaf ears. In my book "The Spirit of Qingshan", I once wrote: Young people are all stupid people who love to argue. As they grow older, they will feel that their elders are right!
Children, not speaking loudly in front of your parents is not a harsh requirement, nor does it mean that you are less filial. On the contrary, there are many times when it is you who love your parents more that make you roar urgently. But you must know that in the fierce shouting, your filial piety is compromised. Because your parents will feel cold and uneasy for a while, and they will be worried about your worries. At times like this, if parents don't tolerate it, they will start to quarrel. Not only is this useless, but many uncoordinated families in the world may be caused by the dominance of father and son. After a long period of time, father and son will treat each other as passers-by, and their family ties will be thrown aside. Each plays 50 boards, and both father and son are responsible. The sage said, if a ruler is not upright, his subjects will flee to foreign countries, and if a father is not virtuous, his son will flee to another country. If the father is fearless, he will lose his kindness; if the son is fearless, he will forget his filial piety. This is the truth. The great man said that things in the world are always urgent, and time is of the essence. Ten thousand years is too long, so we only have to seize the day. But there are many mortals in the world, so we can only ask ourselves to adapt to the objective environment as much as possible and do a good job in self-cultivation. Deng Gong said, "Don't argue. Not arguing is a great invention of mine." There is no point in arguing about this truth and truth. A foreign philosopher said: You can choose to be calm immediately, and it has nothing to do with what others do. Thinking twice and speaking softly when something happens will immediately ease the atmosphere and make everything better.
In recent years, there have been many articles on the Internet discussing parents and children. One article was titled "When do parents become cautious in front of their children", which made me feel harsh! As a parent, I feel deeply sorry for the poor parents in the world. After working hard all your life to raise your children, and then hearing some criticism from time to time, what a bitterness it must be! Of course, despite this, I still think it's not entirely the children's fault. To put it more broadly, it is due to the bad atmosphere of the entire society. I even criticized some key aspects of people's livelihood that were not perfect. For example, as a doctor, I love my patients deeply. I think that all examinations in the hospital are free for everyone, and can’t it be done by the state? ? As one National People’s Congress representative mentioned, medical care is free for those over 60 years old! It seems that those who disagree have a valid point. Is it better to compromise a little and spend a little token of your own money to relieve people's worries? This is the top priority. People are afraid of getting sick. Once they get sick, they will be completely ruined, so I even naively thought that if this issue is solved, selfishness may no longer exist! What do you think people need more money to do?
It’s a bit far, but not too far. If everyone can live and work in peace and contentment, it will be a happy life of peace, joy, friendship and joy. Improving the happiness index is also a good way to eliminate many adverse phenomena.
The reason why not speaking loudly in front of your parents is a kind of cultivation because it can bring about many virtuous circles. No matter where you go, you will become kind and approachable. Let everyone be happy, a good mood brings good efficiency, and all work will become vivid, perfect and successful!
Just do it, kids. You are all excellent, green is better than blue, and my hope rests on you.