From "Huangdi Nei Jing Wisdom on Pregnancy".

The essence of the "seven irresponsibility" of ancient parents towards their children

1. No responsibility to the public: Do not blame your children in public, but give them dignity in front of everyone.

2. Feeling guilty or not responsible: If the child already feels ashamed and regretful for his fault, adults should not blame the child.

3. Don’t blame your children at night: Don’t blame your children before going to bed at night. At this time, he blamed him, and the child went to bed feeling depressed and lost, either unable to sleep at night or having nightmares.

4. Not responsible for eating: Don’t blame your children while eating. Blaming the child at this time can easily lead to a weak spleen and stomach.

5. Celebrate without blaming: Don’t blame your child when he is particularly happy. When a person is happy, the meridians are in a smooth state. If a child is suddenly scolded, the meridians will immediately become blocked, causing great harm to the child's body.

6. Don’t blame your child for sorrow: Don’t blame your child when he cries.

7. Don’t blame your child for illness: Don’t blame your child when he is sick. Sickness is when the human body is most vulnerable, and children need their parents' love and warmth more, which is more effective than any medicine.