What do you think of some “pseudo-rich” people in rural areas?

Nowadays, competition in rural areas is becoming more and more fierce. Especially during the Chinese New Year, everyone seems to be a millionaire when they return to the village. My family is from a rural area, so let me first talk about my experience.

Regarding smoking: I live in Xi'an, with a monthly salary of more than 5,000 yuan, and I usually smoke 14 yuan worth of cigarettes. I came back during the Chinese New Year to smoke cigarettes that cost 18 yuan, but I obviously couldn’t get rid of them. They all started as 25-year-old Furong Wang, and Soft China is common.

Gambling: Casinos in rural areas are getting bigger and bigger, and it feels like they are all for rich people.

But in the end, what I learned is that most people who hang out outside are not good at it. Many of them are overfunded by credit cards. Then when I come back during the Chinese New Year, I look like a wealthy person. In this way, the nobles in front of others suffer the consequences. You know your own life, there is no need to do this.

I hope my answer can help you, thank you!

What do you think about the pseudo-rich people in rural areas? This phenomenon is actually easy to interpret. The pseudo-rich people in our hometown are just trying to make themselves fat! People living in this society have several psychological manifestations. Hypocrisy, vanity, and love of face are relatively common phenomena. Nowadays, there is a strong trend of comparison in rural areas. People are usually away from home and have no time to meet and get together. They only go back to their hometown once during festivals, especially New Year. Luxury cars, good cigarettes, and good wine are all items on display. Everyone gets together to brag to each other. Compliments, good cigarettes and good wine are indispensable, don't use bad cigarettes, don't smoke.

I am a down-to-earth, unfussy, casual person. I remember one year when I went back to my hometown, I had ordinary 5-yuan Baisha cigarettes in my pocket. Others were smoking Furong Wang. My brother especially reminded me about this, so don’t be too bad when I come back to smoke cigarettes for people in the courtyard. This is the reality. In fact, I am just used to smoking Laobaisha cigarettes and I didn’t think much about it.

I am a person who is not particular about things and has no concept of material things, because this personality is really disliked by some people. So I also understand these pseudo-rich people. As the ancients said, it's better to die than to save face and suffer the consequences! It’s better to be more realistic, be natural, and don’t be happy or sad about things! < /p>

I am often asked by my seventh and eighth aunts

Xiao Liu, how much does this dress cost?

I bought this dress in a big shopping mall,

Even after discounts, it’s 5.600,

I just smiled and said nothing,

The aunt next door asked me?

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When do you plan to buy a car and what brand of car will you buy?

That car would be good for my son.

The installment payment is less than 20 Wan,

It would be so grand to drive out to visit relatives or something,

I just smiled and said nothing,

My friend Xiao Wang asked me?

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If you pretend to be ten thousand a year, if you pretend to be twenty years, you will get two hundred thousand. It would be great to do something reliable. Maybe the cost of pretending for 180 years in life is too high.

When I went home for the Chinese New Year, I wore the same cotton-padded clothes for three consecutive years and bought Double Happiness cigarettes from Guangzhou for 95 yuan a pack.

What do you think of the pseudo-rich people in rural areas? I think they are too pitiful. Rich people cannot pretend to be rich with just one or two sets of clothes or renting a car. Because you are from a rural area and may have to live for decades. How can you pretend to be rich? If you have the money to pretend to be rich, you can buy two nice clothes for your parents and send them some food. It is better to give your parents two thousand yuan than to pretend to be rich.

Caliwana would like to ask the questioner, why do they mention rural areas every time? Are there no "pseudo-rich" people in the city?

Open your mouth to rural people, and keep silent to rural people. Every mouthful is a rural person. Do rural people eat what you have or wear what you have? I get trolled when I buy a house, and I get trolled again when I buy a car. Can’t rural people buy a house or a car? If they don’t buy a house or a car, and are told they can’t afford it, do rural people deserve to be poor?

There are many urbanites who are extremely poor and like to pretend to be poor, not just in rural areas. Can’t you see that rural people have money? I will satisfy the questioner now and formally return to this question and talk about the "pseudo-rich" in rural areas.

Some people drive back to the countryside, as if they can only afford a car when smoke comes out of their ancestral graves. They want to tie a tweeter to the roof of the car and brag.

Catalpa thinks this is probably because he was afraid of poverty before, and once he succeeds, he has the mentality to fly. In fact, this is the "fake rich". Real rich people are very low-key.

In rural areas, the truly wealthy tend to keep a low profile. Many people with assets of several million still smoke cigarettes worth more than ten yuan a pack and dress extremely well when they return to their hometown in the countryside. Ordinary, afraid of being known to be rich.

Because once relatives and friends know that you have money, someone may come to borrow money. If you don't borrow, it feels like you owe someone a favor, and if you borrow, you may end up with an enemy. Therefore, the more low-key you are, the fewer people will think about you and the better impression you can give people.

However, some migrant workers only have tens of thousands of yuan left after scrimping all year round. The houses in their rural hometown have not been repaired yet, but they always look like they are rich, and they smoke Chinese , the worst thing is that he is also a hard-shelled Chinese, so he has a bunch of relatives and friends who borrow money from him every now and then.

Everyone has his own lifestyle and consumption style. Since others can bear the pressure, why can't they enjoy a better material life in advance? Do I have to wait until I have saved enough money to buy it?

Everyone has their own standard of happiness. Rural people work hard outside, and when they return home during the Chinese New Year, they all hope to show their bright and beautiful side in front of the villagers.

This is human nature, and there is nothing wrong with it, as long as it’s not something that goes too far. For example, people who drive back to their hometown in the countryside in the middle of the night and deliberately make some noise to show off should be criticized.

Buying a car worth more than 100,000 yuan during the Chinese New Year and wearing new expensive clothes, as long as it is not high-profile, has nothing to do with whether you are rich or not.

When I returned to the countryside during the Chinese New Year, many people in the village bought cars. Some people bought a car worth more than 200,000 yuan and washed it clean every day. However, the house at home still had exposed red bricks and no tiles. There was no decent furniture, and it was unclear whether the family was really rich or fake.

I heard people say that people often buy cars with their hard-earned money, and only drive them when they return to their hometown at the end of the year. When they go to the coast to work later in the year, they ride a battery car to work, and the car is parked on the roadside to collect dust. , only open occasionally. I don't know if this is true.

On the sixth day of the Spring Festival last year, in front of a flower shop, twelve "BMWs" were lined up in two rows, decorating the floats to marry the bride.

So majestic, so rich!

I quietly asked an acquaintance, what kind of rich person? It's just an ordinary family in the countryside. If you want to have a good-looking face, Murakami wants to show off your authority and ask your friends to help!

Thanks to Teacher Wukong and friend Lai Xin has withered for inviting me to answer questions.

In the past thirty or forty years, especially in recent years, this trend has become more and more intense!

It should be a good thing to become famous and return home in glory. But even so, you should keep a low profile. Don't you worry that your relatives and friends will come to borrow money and break into your house if they think you have made a fortune?

The key is that this kind of people have not made a fortune, they may be living in disgrace, and they may still owe a lot of debt, but they are just trying to make themselves fatter, just to save their own face!

Liu Ji, the founding hero of the Ming Dynasty, had a famous saying in his book "The Mandarin Seller's Theory", "Gold and jade are on the outside, but failure is on the inside." It is obvious that the family only has enough food and clothing, or has not yet escaped poverty, but at first glance, outsiders look like a rich man, what a lavish big boss, and one sentence is widely circulated outside! In fact, this person feels uncomfortable. Is this the case of half-hiding one’s face while holding the pipa in one’s arms, trying to save face and suffer the consequences?

I recall that in the early days of reform and opening up, there was a similar phenomenon. In the mid-1980s, all the people were doing business, and information about making a fortune was everywhere. There was gold everywhere, and you could make a fortune everywhere!

My company has an office in the city, and an employee told me that a wealthy person from a big business was coming to see me. This big boss came, carrying an old handbag and wearing shiny leather shoes. It looked like he bought them at a street stall. Before the person has fully entered the door, he shouts that there is a big business, do you want to do it?

If you have business, how can you not do it? What kind of big business? Eighty thousand tons of urea and one hundred thousand cubic meters of wood are all on large foreign cargo ships at the port! At that time, the port could not accommodate 100,000-ton large ships. This information was also revealed by our company's business department.

This is what the head of the department in Beijing, whom we are familiar with, told us that 30,000 to 40,000 tons of urea and 50,000 square meters of wood were to enter the port from Lianyungang. Look, as soon as the words were passed, the little duck turned into an old hen!

Therefore, there is a reason for the existence of some "pseudo-rich people" in rural areas. Others are getting rich, but I am not doing well, and I am afraid that others will whisper behind me.

What to do? To use a Lianyungang saying, it’s like wearing a fur coat to pretend to be a sheep! Driving a luxury car, wearing famous brands, and looking rich. In fact, your neighbors know it very well. The house at home, the clothes of the young and old, people already know that you are a "pseudo-rich", they just talk about it behind your back!

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Nowadays, when we visit relatives in the countryside, I believe everyone has met them when they visit relatives. Many rich people give you nice cigarettes to smoke, they are generous when giving red envelopes, and they even drive cars to visit relatives, making them look like rich people. In fact, there are some pseudo-rich people among them. What do you think of them?

Speaking of pseudo-rich people, they are those who have not made any money outside, but pretend to be rich when they return to the countryside. I used to be reluctant to smoke good cigarettes in the city. When I returned to the countryside during the Chinese New Year, I would buy several packs and smoke them, and also give them to others to smoke. This time, others also think highly of you and think you have made a lot of money.

Compared with such people who smoke well, there are some people who directly rent a car to go home to visit relatives. Since they have not saved enough money to buy a car, but now they go back to the countryside to visit relatives and don’t have a car. If you don’t have face, you can only rent one. In this way, others will also think highly of you, and they will be willing to talk to you more when eating, and they will have more fun while eating, and you will not gain great respect.

It can be said that there are still quite a few such pseudo-rich people nowadays. No matter how you look at it, it can only be said that they are forced by circumstances. Nowadays, the trend of comparison in rural areas is becoming more and more serious. In the past, they were very simple, but now they are comparing everything.

It is the comparison in rural areas that has led to more and more pseudo-rich people. They don’t want to pretend to be rich, but if they don’t pretend to be rich, they will have no face at all in the countryside. They can only remain silent when they are full. He didn't speak, and it was quite embarrassing when he was asked.

If you pretend to be a rich person, people will not ask you all the time. If you smoke a good cigarette or drive a car back home, they will think you are rich, and you can avoid a lot of troubles. Problem, this is why more and more people do this.

In short, although the fake rich people in rural areas are deceiving, if they don’t pretend too much, there is no need to expose them. After all, they also have their own difficulties, and it is good to let them get through. . I don’t know what everyone thinks about it, so let’s talk about it.

The real rich should be the kind who are very rich. They speak and act with wealth. You can feel it when you stand aside. In fact, are there really so many rich people in rural areas? Very few, so I personally understand that the pseudo-rich people in rural areas should be people who have no money but pretend to be rich.

So why are there pseudo-rich people? In fact, it is all to earn some face for oneself, so that everyone can envy him, and onlookers will not care so much, they just think that so and so is not reliable.

There are indeed many such pseudo-rich people in rural areas. Maybe they are not satisfied with their jobs outside, so they don’t want the villagers to see that they are not doing well outside. They usually smoke cigarettes worth ten yuan at most outside. , when you return to your hometown, you have to pretend to be a wealthy person and buy cigarettes worth thirty plus or even forty plus, which shows that your identity and status are very different.

Or you may spend all your savings over the years, or borrow money to buy a car worth more than 100,000 yuan. After driving home, you can show your face in front of the villagers from time to time, and then match it with a brighter suit. With their clothes, few people can tell that they are fake rich people. However, when you think about the fact that the other person's parents have been suffering in their hometown all year round, they have built a new house and have no money to decorate it for many years, or they don't even have a new house at all. Everyone knows that they are The appearance of being rich is actually an act.

Maybe this has something to do with a person’s character. He just doesn’t want to be looked down upon. Even if some people really have no money and their families are very poor, when they eat and drink with others, they use the power of alcohol to express their true nature. It is undoubtedly exposed, and everyone is bragging about it. In fact, everyone knows it, but if you blow it, the wine table will become more lively. It is just that many people sound uncomfortable, and it will not damage other people's face.

The really rich people tend to be relatively low-key, and even many people with millions of assets still smoke cigarettes that cost more than ten yuan a pack after returning to their hometowns. The more low-key they are, the more they miss them. They will have fewer talents, and at the same time, they can give people a better impression. As for whether they are rich, they have proven themselves with actions, such as how many houses they have bought outside and what kind of work they do. This information is actually true in their hometowns. It's not a secret, so rich people are proven by actions, not by bragging.

How do I see it? I choose not to see it and just ignore it. Out of sight is pure in heart.

As long as it does not affect my life or touch my interests, he can do whatever he likes. After all, everyone has the freedom and right to live the life he likes.

However, if it is really "fake", then sooner or later he will reveal his secret. If he can accept the psychological burden caused by this gap, then let him be.

Since he has this need to satisfy his own vanity, and he did not kill people or set fires, I can only wish him that he can continue to be such a "pseudo-rich" for a long time.

However, I myself would not agree with this lifestyle and value orientation.

Although everyone has a part of themselves that is vain and saves face, this level can still be controlled.

A person can walk as far as his shoes are, and enjoy the baptism of desires as much as he has the ability to realize his desires. This is more healthy and rational.

What do you think of the "pseudo-rich" in some rural areas? Let's first take a look at what "pseudo-rich" means. The "pseudo-rich" are those who are short of money but pretend to be rich. In fact, such people are famous in front of others, but they suffer behind the scenes. "Fake rich people" just like to show off their wealth.

Although this is the case, the "pseudo-rich" also like this kind of lifestyle. I think the main reason for this is that they care about face. He likes to satisfy his vanity by making others think he is rich and successful.

1. I eat instant noodles by myself in the dormitory, but often post on my friends circle that I ate with so and so in a luxurious hotel.

2. The salary is meager, only three to four thousand. But the whole body is covered with brand-name goods.

3. When I go to dinner with my friends, I don’t want to pay the bill, but on the surface I have to rush to pay, and then I say things like it doesn’t matter.

4. I often drive all kinds of good cars, but they are actually rented.

5. Talk to fellow villagers about your history outside, how much money you make in a year, what business you have done, etc.

6. My wallet is very clean, I may not even have food to eat, but I still have to buy 100 or dozens of yuan worth of cigarettes to share with others.

7. Pay special attention to the price of everything you use.

8. When I went to buy food with my friends, I thought I would just buy a bottle of water. But I told my friends that this is not a brand-name product that tastes bad. It is so cheap and must be fake. If you want to buy anything, I will give you the Marshal's list.

9. Often show off wealth, but always go into debt.