The variety show "Defense of Love" is very popular among middle-aged, elderly and even young people. Many interesting things in the show have also become topics of conversation for people after dinner. This program truly exposes some deep-rooted problems between contemporary couples, and also nakedly shows people the horror of marriage. Of course, although many real-life examples in the show are negative, Tu Lei, the emotional mentor in "Emotional Defense", said many classic love quotes in the show. These quotes also taught contemporary people how to deal with marriage relationships. . 1. People who regard money as their destiny will be unhappy in this life. People who regard money as happiness may be very good at using it.

Money is not everything, and nothing is impossible without money. This wise saying is widely circulated to this day. The meaning of this sentence is that the material foundation determines the superstructure. Only with a certain material foundation can we pursue a higher level of happiness. But money is not everything, because there are many things, such as happiness, health, and family love. , cannot be bought with money, it requires careful management. Therefore, if a person takes money too seriously throughout his life and is too concerned about gains and losses, he will easily become unhappy. However, money is indispensable. Only those who use money as happiness can play the greatest role of money. 2. Many men have a wrong concept: a man’s career is for his family and his lover. mistake! A man's career is for himself

In marriage, we often hear men complain: I work hard outside for this family, and I have to rest when I come back. I have a deep understanding of this kind of thing. I understand how difficult it is for men to work hard outside, and I also know that men work hard to create a better family environment. But there is one point of view that must be corrected, and this is what I often talk about with my husband: The most fundamental reason for a man to work is to achieve himself, to gain a certain social status, to create wealth through his own efforts, and to achieve himself. 3. No choice is the best choice. The art of life lies in giving up. Giving up is for better possession

It is difficult to stick to one thing, such as weight loss, fitness, writing, etc., but in fact, giving up is Harder. Some people disagree and think that giving up is easy and persistence is the most beautiful thing. If you stick to something right, you can gain happiness. But what if you stick to it wrong? Some people never look back until they hit the wall, which is not uncommon in marriages. Many couples, in the process of getting married, are obviously not suitable for each other, but they force themselves to persist because they are unwilling to let go of a relationship. Little do they know that giving up is the only way to achieve perfection. Only by learning to give up can you have better choices.