Sign of maturity
Maturity is a turning point in a person's short life. It is a sign that a person bids farewell to childhood and welcomes social baptism. But what is the sign of maturity? This deserves our serious consideration. In fact, many students have given different answers to this question. But personally, I don't think this question can be answered and summarized in a few words. It contains many aspects. Personally, I think the sign of maturity is "being able to overcome emotions with reason". Why do I say "I can overcome my emotions with reason" is a sign of maturity? Reason is an abstract concept, a correct consciousness reflected in people's brains, and a correct consciousness reflected through social practice and careful consideration. And feeling is subjective, unrefined ideology. Doing things with feelings is often impulsive and presumptuous, leading to unimaginable consequences. "Can use reason to overcome emotions", which seems simple, is not so easy to implement. When people do anything, they usually finish it with their first feeling or impression. This is often an irrational approach based on feelings, and the consequences can be imagined. Friends of our age all study philosophy. What is the purpose of studying philosophy? It is nothing more than using philosophical theory, so that when we deal with problems, we can proceed from reality and look at problems rationally. But philosophy was arranged in this period for a reason, because we need to be mature and eager to be mature in order to realize our ideals and ambitions. There was a series that told the story of our time. There is a boy who studies very well and his strength cannot be underestimated. However, in a trial of a competition team, he deliberately changed his all-right answer to the answer on the passing line, and the result was missed by the top 100. The teacher doesn't understand. The reason is that his father lost his job. His mother always criticizes his father's incompetence with high marks. He wanted to change this situation, so his grades plummeted. Because he doesn't want to see a man lose his self-esteem, taste the taste of failure, and want to share his father's bitterness. He is the pride of his parents, but he can't stand the heavy pressure from his mother to his father. Is it reasonable for him to do so? No, it's not. He is obviously dealing with "emotion trumps reason". For the sake of his father, he did not hesitate to give up the honor of first place to save his father's self-esteem. But after this incident, the teachers felt that he was more mature after reflection, because during that period of reflection, he used "reason to overcome emotions" and he was more stable from then on. Friends, let's use "reason over emotion" to create our brilliant tomorrow. I don't think there is only one reason, do you? .