1. The reason why it is tiring is because everyone is trying to show qualities that they actually do not possess.
2. A great man once said: "It is inconceivable that an isolated person can carry out activities and produce outside society, just like many individuals who do not live together and talk to each other have the same language. . ”
3. There is a famous saying: If you tell a friend about your happiness, you will get two happiness, but if you talk about your sorrow to a social friend, you will be divided into half of the sorrow. It is human nature to like to be happy and get rid of sorrow, and social interaction can satisfy people's desire. It can enable people to gain close friends, get care and help from others, active and enrich people's social life, and benefit people's physical and mental health.
●A true man should make friends with heroes from all over the world.
——Chen Shou
●Don’t be flattering in superiors, and don’t be arrogant in inferiors.
——Yang Xiong
●He is sincere, warm-hearted, gentle and eloquent, which will surely move people.
——Xue Xuan
●Receiving kindness from others should be a place to repay in the future. Don’t ask for more from others.
——Zeng Guofan
●Don’t have any illusions about those who are not worthy of trust!
——Leonardo da Vinci
●Trust a few people, do no harm to anyone, and love everyone.
——Shakespeare
● Those who use power to make friends will be defeated by the power; those who make friends with benefits will be scattered.
——Wang Tong
●The flower path has never been swept by visitors, and now the gate is opened for you.
——Du Fu
●Silence is more beneficial to social interaction than insincere words.
——Montaigne
●It is always ridiculous to show respect to people you know well.
——Goethe
●You trust people, and people will be loyal to you. Treat others with the demeanor of a great man, and talents will show the demeanor of a great man.
——Emerson
●The most sublime way to move a person's heart is to talk to him about his most precious things.
——Dell? 6? 1 Carnegie
● Remembering people’s names and calling them out easily is equivalent to giving others a clever and effective compliment.
——Dell?6?1 Carnegie
●The secret of social interaction is not to hide the truth, but to tell the truth without irritating the other person.
——Sotaro Dihara
●If you are right, try to get the other person to agree with you gently and skillfully; if you are wrong, try to get the other person to agree with you quickly and skillfully. Admit it with all your heart. This is much more effective and fun than arguing for yourself.
——Dell?6?1 Carnegie
●Admit that you may be wrong, you can avoid arguments, and you can make the other party as tolerant as you are, admitting that he is also wrong There may be errors.
——Dell?6?1 Carnegie
●People who do not respect other people’s feelings will ultimately only arouse the dislike and hatred of others.
——Dell?6?1 Carnegie
● Even if you enjoy happiness and all the glory and wealth, if no one is as sincerely happy for you as you are, how can you have great happiness? At the same time, adversity must be more unbearable if no one sees it as a heavier burden than you.
——Cicero
Silence is more beneficial to society than insincere words. ——Montaigne
Human social interaction is not instinctive at all, that is to say, it is not for the love of social interaction, but for the fear of loneliness. —— Schopenhauer
Don’t look down on anyone, because no one is so cowardly that he cannot even retaliate for being insulted. ----Aesop x
Don't be humble because of your noble body, don't go against the crowd because of your unique views, don't break your trust because of your functions. ----Zhuge Liang
A calm and unhurried demeanor is more heartwarming than an aggressive attitude. ----Sanmao
Nothing is cheap in the world, and whoever wants to take advantage will suffer. ----Xu Teli
The best way to encourage yourself is to encourage others----Mark Twain xugu4
Don't trust people who believe everything in everyone. ----Lesing
1. Social life
1. Trust a few, harm no one, love all - Shakespeare
2. If you trust people, they will be loyal to you. Treat others with a great demeanor, and talents will show the demeanor of a great man. ——Emerson
3. If you are right, get the other person to agree with you gently and skillfully; if you are wrong, admit your mistake quickly and enthusiastically. This is much more effective and interesting than arguing for yourself. ——Carnegie
4. We know each other no matter how far away we are, but we are still neighbors thousands of miles away - Zhang JiuX
5. Don't think that having many friends is a blessing. If blessings come from friends, then what do you mean by yourself? ——Sanmao
6. It's so bleak to have no real friends. Without friends, the world is a wilderness.
——Bacon
7. Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——Mencius
8. Learn to live in the simplest way and don't let complicated thoughts destroy the sweetness of life.
——Milton
9. Don't trust anyone who believes anything about anyone. ——
10. Whoever likes what kind of friend is that kind of person. ——Aesop
11. If you want to have good friends, you must first become a good friend to others. ——
12. To be true confidants, you must trust each other. ——Tolstoy
13. Nothing in the world is as pleasant as a friend, and nothing as pleasant as a friend is indifferent. ——
14. Watch out for your enemies, for they are the first to notice your faults. ——Aristotle
15. Friends are valuable, but enemies can also be useful; friends will tell me what I can do, enemies will teach me what I should do. ——Xi Qin
16. Only those who love others have the right to blame others and reprimand others.
17 Hatred cannot quell hatred, and fallacies cannot correct fallacies. They will only add hatred to hatred and mistakes to mistakes. ——
18. The noblest revenge is tolerance. Revenge is a personal matter, while punishment is a matter of God. Society lies somewhere in between. Punishment transcends society and revenge falls short of it.
●Be kind to others, be lenient to others, and be forgiving to others, that is what a gentleman is.
——Lin Bu
●Words must not penetrate the bone marrow, and jokes must not offend people's hearts.
——Lu Longqi
●When you meet someone, you have to say only a few words, but you can’t give them all your heart.
——Feng Menglong
●Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others.
——Mencius
●Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small.
——Chen Shou
●Life is an adventurous activity full of joy and hope. This activity is based on the desire to build, not to keep all one's property or to The desire to acquire the property of others.
——Russell
●Learn to live in the simplest way and don’t let complicated thoughts destroy the sweetness of life.
——Milton
●When I feel pain, I scream and shed tears; when I encounter despicableness, I become indignant; when I see filth, I feel disgusted. In my opinion, this is the only thing called life.
——Chekhov
●When dealing with others, you have to learn to suffer. As the saying goes: give in for life without losing a moment.
——Zuo Zongtang
●It is better to make others love than to make others love, and it is worse to make others respect than to make others love.
——Li Xing
●Nothing is cheap in the world, and whoever wants to take advantage will suffer.
——Xu Teli
●Don’t look down on anyone, because no one is so cowardly that he cannot even retaliate for being insulted.
——Aesop
●Don’t say whatever you want. Everything must be done carefully. Be kind to others, but don’t be too affectionate.
——Shakespeare
●The exact life is: maintaining a suitable state of living aloof from the world.
——Montaigne
●Don’t trust anyone who believes everything about everyone.
——Lesing
●People should live their lives for themselves, they should learn to like themselves, and they should not care too much about what others think of me, or what others think of me. In fact, how others measure you also depends on how you measure yourself!
——Xi Murong
●We cannot place all our happiness on others. Because others can only understand and help us to a limited extent. In fact, there are more people in this world who are a blessing on the cake than a helper in times of need. If you act strong, others will encourage you; if you are weak, few people will help you.
——Roland
●When you like yourself, you will not feel inferior. When you tolerate others, you will not feel that you are on the same side as others. hostile position. When you can feel this way, you will feel satisfied and at peace even if you still don't have many friends.
——Roland