About the motto of family tradition, family and life are prosperous, and people and careers are prosperous:
1. Diligence and frugality are the foundation of managing the family, harmony is the foundation of the family, and prudence is the foundation of protecting the family. Poems and books are the foundation of the family, and the foundation of loyalty and filial piety.
2. Hate between relatives is more dangerous than scorpions.
3. A gentleman must be able to tolerate others at home.
4. Awakened parents should be obligatory, altruistic and sacrificial.
5. If a family has one heart, it will have money to buy gold; if a family has two hearts, it will have no money to buy needles.
6. A prosperous family produces filial sons, but a failed family produces evildoers.
7. Family is nothing but human beings themselves.
8. The family and life are prosperous, and the people and career are prosperous.
9. If the family is not harmonious, it will prevent neighbors from bullying; if the neighbors are not harmonious, it will prevent external bullying.
10. Accumulate small money to do big things; accumulate spare money to do urgent things.
11. The meaning of a daughter-in-law is to calm down the discord in the family, to be the auspicious messenger of a harmonious family, to be equal and harmonious to everyone, and to bring blessings to the whole family.
12. A daughter-in-law should have a nature like water. If her nature is like water, she should be content and happy. She means to be the root, to support the whole family, and to be harmonious and cheerful. As the happy star of the family, she is filial to her parents, harmonious to her sisters-in-law, and kind to her children, who can help her husband become a virtuous person. So that the husband has no internal worries, can contribute to the society, establish himself in the right way, and become famous and show his family. Not only in running a family, but also in social work, one can abide by one's duties and make contributions. Only then can you have a long-lasting family fortune and long-term happiness.
13. As a husband, you must adhere to the three cardinal principles. The three cardinal principles refer to the sex cardinal guide, the heart cardinal cardinal guide, and the physical cardinal cardinal cardinal cardinal guide; being immobile (not losing your temper) is the sex cardinal guide; and not being selfish is the heart. Gang; no bad habits as a body. Being angry is a violation of one's nature; being angry is a violation of one's heart; hitting someone is a violation of one's body. Gang means leading, and a woman must be led on the road, to be filial to her parents-in-law, to be harmonious to her sisters-in-law, and to be kind to her children.
14. If you are a man, you must first settle down on the "three obediences" in order to help your husband become virtuous. Three obedience means that one’s nature follows the laws of nature, one’s heart follows the principles, and one’s body follows the principles of emotions. What does it mean to follow one's own principles? Do what you should do yourself. It is one's duty to be filial to one's parents-in-law, to be at peace with one's sisters-in-law, and to teach one's children below. Don't be afraid of hardship, don't be afraid of difficulties. Don’t get angry, complain, or regret after doing it. Follow the principles of the heart: It means getting rid of the selfishness that interferes with greed and interference. All I think about is how to repay the old man's kindness? How to make peace with my sisters-in-law, and how to teach my children? With the good of the whole family in mind, everything I do will naturally be in line with the law. Nature follows the laws of nature: focusing on the immovable nature, we must also eliminate the nature and perfect the nature, so that we can be virtuous and carry everything.
15. As the saying goes, everything thrives when the family is in harmony. The prosperity of the country, the harmony of the society, the happiness of personal life, the prosperity of the career, and the health of the body all depend on the foundation of a harmonious family.
16. Always mention your daughter-in-law’s strengths when speaking, and be grateful for her mother-in-law’s education. If the daughter-in-law makes a mistake, the mother-in-law will quickly come over and be tolerant first, and then teach her behind her back. She must not quarrel with her, and the daughter-in-law will naturally be grateful and repay the favor.
17. True love has no prejudice: sincerely believe in each other, do not doubt the other person.
18. Respect the elders when you are above, and love the young when you are below. Use gratitude to improve everything and make the family harmonious.
19. A weak man is also called a coward who cannot support his family. Being submissive, saying things but not doing them, not daring to take responsibility, pushing women to the front, and only listening to women's orders.
20. If they are not in harmony, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not get along, causing disagreements in housework and living separately, the family will fall apart, and the family will not be prosperous.