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What do you expect of yourself in psychology?
self-expectation (it has another name, pygmalion effect). What is self-expectation? It means that we are proving that we are right and capable in the direction we want at any time. The psychological mechanism behind this is "I am right" and "I am better than you".

On the 2th, I assessed the coffee practice. Today, the written test is also over. Faced with the unavoidable nervousness in my assessment, I remember that I was pulling tulips with trembling hands during the practical assessment, but my heart was calm. The shaking of my hands was the action caused by nervousness. Fortunately, I practiced making coffee skillfully at ordinary times, which supported the process of my coffee assessment.

With the end of the practical examination and written examination, I feel much more relaxed. Some people say that pressure is the motivation, and it will make you study harder and finish your work, but you have to have a stable emotional internal drive (stable self-character), otherwise the pressure will crush you, and pressure is the motivation, which will turn into poisoned chicken soup and poison many people.

In the assessment, we will have a comparative psychology. Compared with colleagues around us, we unconsciously ask ourselves not to do worse than others (live in others' expectations). Each of us has a serious comparative psychology. For example, in our daily life, we will use a comparative psychology, such as clothing, appearance, wealth, education, experience, and so on. I feel that the sense of class exists around me. In this assessment, I.

recently, I was puzzled by a question, and I wanted to change my shop. If I want to change my shop, what is the reason for changing my shop? Let me first talk about why I want to transfer the store. First, I am working in an old shop, which is full of old employees, all of whom are over years old (the old employees have been transferred to a new store to help). For a post-9 s person like me, I can't communicate and cooperate well with them.

If I mention it to the store manager, she will definitely ask me why I want to transfer the store. Should I tell the truth or put it mildly? I can't tell the truth (it hurts) and put it mildly, what should I say?

recently, the mood of changing stores has always appeared. When I get angry with my colleagues' emotions, a voice will appear (monkey) and tell me that you don't think you can communicate and cooperate well with them. You are right.

I feel like I'm testing my expectations, and I'm proving that everything I said is right (I can't work with the post- generation). I'm moving in the direction I want, and I will leave this store at any time.

with the awareness of this emotion, I will ask myself, is there no good aspect in Store 1? I think so. I will tell myself what good things I have, but this good thing still won't change my mind about going to a new store.

Although I am aware of the emotion behind wanting to change the store, this strong self-expectation is very heavy, and I am on the way to prove myself right.

If a person wants live high, if he doesn't even dare to express his true feelings, then he is influenced by his subconscious mind, so I will follow my true thoughts and pursue what I really want? Is it a good work partner, a good team atmosphere, or a comfortable environment and opportunities for growth, and truly face this confusion.