I also like this TV play very much. I have seen it several times. Every time I watch it, I will get different inspiration and help about life, love and marriage.
I really appreciate the concubines in the TV series "Palace", which makes me understand the ups and downs of life and a lot of truth about life, love and marriage.
In the harem play, the woman I like and admire most is Duan Fei. I think Duan Fei, although dignified and steady, looks weak and has no scheming, but she is actually a woman with deep scheming in the play.
Before, I wrote an article to analyze the female role of Duan Fei, the queen in the palace play. Can you click if you are interested? No wonder Duan Fei can turn a bad card into a king. See what she did secretly? Deeper than Zhen Xuan's calculation? You can read this passage directly.
Today, let's continue to talk about five classic lines that Duan Fei said in the play. Every sentence is full of great wisdom. Let's learn Duan Fei's survival law and great wisdom together!
In addition to being the most scheming woman in the play, Duan Fei is also the most knowledgeable, intelligent and temperamental woman in the play.
Although Duan Fei also said a lot in the play, five of them are the most touching and wise philosophy of life, which can bring a lot of inspiration and help to our love, marriage and life.
In The Queen of the Palace, Duan Fei said five classic lines, which made me realize the six wisdom of life, love and marriage.
0 1, "Cao Qinmo's heart is deep, but no matter how deep this heart is, it is not as deep as the emperor and empress dowager!" The above is what Duan Fei said to Zhen Xuan after learning of Cao Guiren's unfortunate death.
It seems simple, but it has profound meaning.
Although Duan Fei rarely appears in the play, as long as Duan Fei appears, she will make an out-of-line move and use her great wisdom to solve problems and deal with other harem women.
Duan Fei's clever way of dealing with people really makes people applaud!
Cao Guiren is the biological mother of Princess Wen Yi, and she is also a very scheming woman.
Because Duan Fei was murdered by Hua Fei, she can't have children of her own for the rest of her life, so she likes Princess Wen Yi very much, thinks Princess Wen Yi is very cute, and especially hopes to raise this child.
Before Cao Guiren was backed by Hua Fei, Duan Fei had no chance to eradicate her and raise Princess Wen Yi.
Duan Fei finally succeeded in raising Princess Wen Yi, not only because of Zhen Xuan's help, but also because of Duan Fei's wisdom!
Duan Fei finally succeeded in raising Princess Wen Yi, because Duan Fei knew everything.
Cao Guiren's scheming is not as deep as that of the emperor and queen mother, so it is difficult for her to live a stable life in the harem.
Duan Fei said this to Zhen Xuan after Cao Guiren's death.
In fact, Zhen Xuan was awakened. She hoped that Zhen Xuan could understand the great wisdom and survival rule of "He who knows the times is a hero".
She said this sentence to remind Zhen Xuan that in the harem, scheming is ok, but enough is enough. It really can't be easily seen by the emperor and the queen mother, otherwise it will be reduced to the tragic end of Cao Guiren.
02. "It's a pity that the tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop." The above sentence was said by Duan Fei to the maid around her, which was thought-provoking.
Duan Fei is not only the most scheming woman in the play, but also the smartest woman in the play and the most transparent woman in the play.
The maid around Duan Fei always takes care of Duan Fei's daily life.
Before meeting Duan Fei, she never cared about other people's affairs. She always ran away from the world. Suddenly, she found that Duan Fei had changed her previous thoughts. No wonder she is puzzled why Duan Fei wants to join the WTO again!
What Duan Fei said to the ladies around him was not the pain of every woman in the harem!
Duan Fei said to the maid, "It's a pity that the tree wants to be quiet but the wind doesn't stop."
She said this sentence to tell the maid that people living in this world can't obey people's wishes in everything. They should avoid the world when they should, and join the WTO when they should.
To sum up briefly, it is: "Take advantage of the trend to join the WTO, and avoid the world against the trend."
In the harem play, everyone may be puzzled. After Shen Meizhuang betrayed the emperor and got pregnant unexpectedly, why didn't the emperor doubt it?
In fact, the reason is that Shen Meizhuang, like Duan Fei, is the most transparent and sensible woman alive, and Shen Meizhuang knows the great wisdom of "joining the WTO".
In order to save the children of Shen Meizhuang and Dr. Wen Tai, Shen Meizhuang can only change from "seclusion" to "joining the WTO".
This is also the genius of Shen Meizhuang. I think she is more intelligent than Zhen Xuan.
Shen Meizhuang doesn't want to compete with other women any more.
However, Shen Meizhuang is trying to treat too many doctors for herself and her unborn children.
She had to start to please the emperor, and she had to use bracelets. She succeeded in getting the emperor's favor again and dispelled the emperor's doubts. This is really great.
Therefore, the emperor finally did not doubt that Shen Meizhuang would be unfaithful to himself, nor did he doubt the unborn child after Shen Meizhuang's unexpected pregnancy.
If all the harem queens' wives in the palace drama can learn Duan Fei's great wisdom of "following the trend of the world and avoiding it against the trend of the world", perhaps their final fate will not be so tragic.
03. "The child is innocent, and so is the mother. Naturally, they cannot be destroyed. " The above sentence is also a word full of "human feelings are warm and cold" that Duan Fei said to the maids around him, which makes people very moved.
It can be seen from Duan Fei's words that although Duan Fei has a deep heart, she is kind-hearted and a dignified and virtuous woman.
Duan Fei was already very weak, but in order to help Zhen Xuan keep the baby in her belly, she would rather run around day and night, and the whole person was very tired.
At this time, the maid around asked Duan Fei why he was trying so hard to help others, and Duan Fei answered such a touching sentence.
In Duan Fei's view, no matter how heartless Cao Guiren is, her children are innocent, so she likes Princess Wen Yi very much.
Duan Fei is profound, gentle, kind and simple.
She likes children very much, and is especially eager to raise Princess Wen Yi.
She knows that her mother loves her children very much and doesn't want other people's children to get hurt at all.
Therefore, when Zhen Xuan is in trouble, Duan Fei can choose to help Zhen Xuan without hesitation.
In fact, Duan Fei helped Zhen Xuan, not only to deal with other women in the harem, but also to cherish the kindness of children.
On the issue of raising Princess Oboro, Duan Fei is on Fei Jing's side. She can fully understand that Fei Jing has always wanted to raise Zhen Xuan's daughter.
When Zhen Xuan was in a hurry to return to the Oboro Moon, it was Duan Fei who advised Zhen Xuan not to hurry back to her children. She also said some touching words to Zhen Xuan.
Duan Fei said to Zhen Xuan, "I respect the princess's concern for Oboro Moon more than my concern for Wen Yi. She has been around since birth, so Oboro Moon naturally needs to be closer to her. "
From Duan Fei's words, I can see that Duan Fei is actually not just thinking about Zhen Xuan, but secretly helping Fei Jing to continue to raise Oboro Moon.
Fei Jing never knew that she could finally keep raising Oboro Moon. As it turns out, it's thanks to Duan Fei, not Zhen Xuan's willingness to raise her children.
In fact, Duan Fei is also very distressed by Zhen Xuan, and she also understands Zhen Xuan's yearning.
Duan Fei is a living transparent woman. She knows how to protect herself in the harem and how to have the last laugh.
Duan Fei was able to become the ultimate big winner, not only because Duan Fei was shrewd and knew how to forbear, but also because Duan Fei knew how to be warm and cold, and she was full of great wisdom in getting along with others.
04. "The beauty in the palace is like a flower, but no one can say which one is the best. For example, peach blossoms. The person who loves it is called Yi Shi IKEA, and the person who doesn't love it is abandoned by the water. In fact, every flower enters every eye, and right or wrong is only in people's hearts. " The above is what Duan Fei said to Yong Zhengdi to save Su Peisheng and Park Sunseeker.
What Duan Fei said really tells a lot of great wisdom about love, marriage and life!
In fact, Duan Fei is a woman who never meddles. She hopes to protect herself by avoiding the world.
Even the emperor believed that what Duan Fei said to her was not for Su Peisheng and Park Sunseeker. The emperor was cheated by Duan Fei, who was really clever.
In order to dispel the emperor's doubts, Duan Fei did not ask about Su Peisheng and Park Sunseeker himself, but chose to use a book to attract the emperor's attention.
Next, Duan Fei, with his profound knowledge, succeeded in getting the emperor to take the initiative to raise the issue of Su Peisheng and Zhu Jin Sunseeker, thus gently letting the emperor forgive them both.
In The Queen of the Palace, the woman I admire most is Duan Fei, and I think what Duan Fei said is really touching.
When the emperor didn't know how to deal with things between Su Peisheng and Park Sunseeker, Duan Fei didn't directly ask the emperor to forgive the two men, but told the emperor the truth through examples, and then guided the emperor to forgive the two men willingly.
Duan Fei used only a few words, not only won the trust of the emperor, but also successfully rescued Su Peisheng and Park Sunseeker. What a kill two birds with one stone!
What Duan Fei said to the emperor exposed the suffering of many harem women!
There are many beautiful young women in the emperor's harem.
But even the most beautiful woman in the harem, if the emperor doesn't cherish her, will be abandoned by the emperor and even murdered innocently.
For example, Hua Fei, who loved the emperor for most of her life, was also calculated by the emperor for most of her life. It's really pathetic.
The Guiying people in the play won the favor of the emperor. Because of his third brother's fault, the emperor had to sacrifice the Guiying people for the sake of the royal family's face, which was really sad.
In the play, Zhen Xuan is infatuated with the Emperor, but unfortunately, he is still regarded as the body of the Pure Yuan Queen by the Emperor, and he has lived in the shadow of the Pure Yuan Queen all his life.
An Lingrong in the play is sincere to the emperor, but unfortunately he has never been cared for by the emperor in his life.
Shen Meizhuang in the play is dignified and virtuous, and has the temperament of "good family".
She was deeply loved by the emperor as soon as she entered the palace because the emperor liked her.
When the emperor didn't like Shen Meizhuang, even though Shen Meizhuang was excellent and beautiful, the emperor abandoned her and chose to neglect her!
The queen, Duan Fei, Cao Guiren and other women in the play are not like this!
These harem women have been trapped in the palace all their lives. The emperor loved them when he liked them. When he dislikes them, he has the heart to abandon them.
I like Duan Fei's words very much: "Every flower goes into every eye, and right or wrong is only in people's hearts".
In fact, there are some things that we don't need to ask other people's advice at all. What we do lies in people's hearts and in our own choices.
05. "Don't be stupid, don't be deaf, and don't be a family man." The above sentence is also a sentence Duan Fei said to Yong Zhengdi to save Su Peisheng and Park Sunseeker, but it tells a different life wisdom.
In just eight words, Duan Fei can finally convince the emperor to forgive Xixi and Su Peisheng, and also bring some inspiration and help to our love, marriage and life.
Duan Fei said to the emperor, "Don't be stupid, don't be deaf, and don't be a family man."
Simple eight words, one sentence tells the ingenious way to solve the contradiction between husband and wife, mother-in-law and children in the family.
Yong Zhengdi in the play doesn't know how to solve the problem of the affair between the maid-in-waiting and the eunuch, but after listening to Duan Fei's words, she suddenly laughed and finally understood the difficulties in Duan Fei's words.
In fact, what Duan Fei said was to remind the emperor that sometimes difficult and embarrassing housework can be faced with the mistakes made by others with the attitude of "pretending to be deaf and dumb" and "minimizing major issues and minimizing minor issues", so there is no need to be in a dilemma.
Duan Fei's words are full of great wisdom.
It can not only guide us to deal with the contradictions among family members, but also put forward brilliant solutions to the contradictions among people in our lives.
In the harem play, everyone may be puzzled. Why did the emperor suddenly die so soon?
In fact, the reason why the emperor suddenly died so soon was not only because of the joint murder of Ye Lanyi and Zhen Xuan, but also because he didn't keep this sentence firmly in mind and didn't understand what Duan Fei said.
When solving the relationship with the county, Shen Meizhuang and Doctor Wen, Sun Wuji and the guards, the emperor did not use the means of "playing dumb".
Finally, the emperor didn't know how to bear it. He was so angry that Shen Meizhuang, Sun Wuji and others betrayed him.
Summary: In short, in the play "The Queen of the Palace", Duan Fei said the above five sentences, which really hit people's hearts, and finally made me realize the six great wisdom about life, love and marriage.
These five words of wisdom said by Duan Fei can also give us a lesson for women in China.
Don't be too smart, and don't be too far-sighted, or you will be "smarter than you" and eventually "both people and money will be empty".
People living in this world should know how to advance and retreat, know how to be measured, and know how to move at the right time. It is also a clever way to play dumb to solve family conflicts and treat others' mistakes. Evaluating the right or wrong of a thing is not in the thing itself, but in people's hearts. Some things, we should not haggle over every ounce, but should know "roll with the punches, roll with the punches". Living in this world, people should be kind, learn to be flexible, and understand the great wisdom and survival principle of "knowing the times is a hero". I hope these five words full of great wisdom said by Duan Fei in the play can bring some inspiration and help to the love, marriage and life of female friends.
I hope that the six proverbs and great wisdom I have summarized above can give some guidance to the love, marriage and life of female friends.
Finally, I wish each of us can make our personal life transparent, live the life we want, have a happy marriage, meet a better self and come on together!
Encourage with all your friends!