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A true example of success determined by emotional intelligence.
In the past, when my brother was a freshman, several students in his class went to serve as soldiers. At that time, many children who didn't study well were arranged by their families to serve in the army. After two years, most of them returned to the local area to arrange work). At that time, several of his classmates went to the army. Basically, when he was a senior in high school, everyone went back to their hometown and started working. But one classmate, in the army, completely changed his fate because of one thing. The following things were told to me by one of my younger brothers. The details can't be verified, but I don't think we should tell the truth. His classmate is a little different from ordinary people, so be prepared when you look down. Finally, I believe you can do such a thing with an underage child. Let's call him "calf" below.

When the army was training or everyone was wandering around, a leader-like man stopped his leg and said, Comrade, you go to the service agency over there (that is, the supermarket we usually talk about) and buy me a pack of cigarettes. Go back, I'll wait for you here. Give it to the calf 100 yuan.

(warning, it is such a simple thing. The little comrade seized this opportunity and immediately changed his fate with a nearly perfect plan. I told this story to two of my friends. One guessed that he bought a lighter for the leader, and the other guessed that he bought cigarettes for the leader. You can also guess for yourself without looking below.

Comrade Mavericks took the money of this leader and ran to the service agency. A few minutes later, he appeared in front of the man. The calf appeared in front of the leader with two cigarettes in his hand, and there was 1000 yuan under these two cigarettes. The calf said to the leader, "Hello, here is your change for cigarettes."

What the military and political session needs is your high emotional intelligence, and the word "being a man" is not as simple as talking about it;

What the business community needs is your methods and strategies, and it is useless to work hard;

But in general, it is most important to see the trend clearly and seize the opportunity.

I think very few people can do such a thing. Even if you do, it will be embarrassing to make a bad speech. A child about 18 years old can turn an ordinary thing into an opportunity and seize it perfectly with his eye-catching and ingenious operation skills, and show his own advantages different from ordinary people without embarrassing the other party.