Never try to change a person. I just realized the truth of this sentence today. Only after experiencing it can people understand the meaning behind each philosophy.

The epidemic prevents us from returning to work and we can only work from home. With such a long vacation, I naturally use this free time to study and improve myself. I listen to online classes and read books on various platforms every day.

One day, my friends sent me messages and expressed their admiration for me. Because I am only one or two years older than them, they feel that I know much more than them and hope that I can teach them. I readily agreed. And I prepared what I wanted to tell them every day, spent a lot of time organizing and writing manuscripts. I thought to myself, hello everyone, that’s what’s really good.

I have confidence in myself. I think I have the ability to guide and change them and make them better. But what was the result?

Later, I found that most people were only interested in it for three minutes. Slowly, fewer and fewer people responded, and their summary of knowledge became more and more perfunctory. It wastes a lot of my energy every day and does not benefit me at all.

I try my best to make you better, but if you don’t want to change, no one can do anything about it. Don't try to change anyone unless she really wants to change and has shown you her determination to change. Otherwise don't help. You can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep. Life is too short, don’t waste your time on things that aren’t worth it.