1 Always forgive everyone, forgive others countless times, because no one in the world is sinless, no one does not need forgiveness, so no one has the power to punish or Correct others.

——Tolstoy's "Resurrection"

2 Westerners talk about ability, but Chinese people don't. We talk about ability but not ability. A person who has ability but no ability will sooner or later become a problem person. What is ability? To be capable, you need to be popular with everyone. The person who has the ability to be unconventional and make others dislike him will sooner or later become a troublemaker. If you are capable, you should respect others and let others have face, and they will support you.

——Zeng Shiqiang

3 I am tired of the life of hating others and the life of being unable to love anyone. I don't have even one friend, not even one. Most importantly, I couldn’t even love myself. Why can't I love myself? It's because you can't love others. One needs to love someone and be loved by someone in order to learn how to love oneself. Do you get me? People who do not love others cannot love themselves correctly.

——Haruki Murakami "1Q84"

4 A person can succeed not only because he is qualified, but also because he has something that others do not have that makes him a qualified person. Human ambition, written down, is the so-called dream.

——"TA Love Alliance"

5 I gradually understood that the person I was in love with was a person who was difficult for me to understand. ?

He will forget that I am waiting for him, but write a song for me. Before hearing that song, I never thought that he was so affectionate to me. ?

He has the ability to make me happy, and the best ability to make me cry. ?

He fell in love with someone and couldn’t explain the reason. If you don't love someone, you won't know why. He turned out to be a man not worth relying on.

——Zhang Xiaoxian "The Woman on the Bread Tree"

6 A person cannot ignore or despise the suffering of others just because he has endured enough suffering; at least, it It can also make you remember: You are not qualified to regard your so-called suffering experience as personal life capital, because it is not just you who pays the price, not even just your relatives and friends, but also many people who have nothing to do with you. .

——Xu Xiao's "Half Life"

7 Light and Shadow, Choice?

Everyone has two sides, without exception. ?

The important thing is the choice. Do you choose to give others your glamorous side or your cool side? ?

Some people say that the former is hypocritical, no, they just don’t want to show their bad side to you. Everyone wants others to like them, and so do they. ?

Some people say that the latter is annoying. No, there are always a few people who can make him wholeheartedly treat those few people well, but you are not among those few people. ?

Hypocritical or annoying. ?

Isn’t it true that I am not like this? Since I am also like this, then what qualifications and in what capacity do you have to criticize and accuse others? ?

This is just a choice between light and shadow.

——The Return of the Jade

8 If you like someone, it is easy to say it, it is also very relaxed to say it, and it is very happy to say it, but if it is just for the temporary pleasure, then It is extremely irresponsible. Therefore, my responsibility is to shape myself into an absolutely excellent person, a person worthy of being truly liked by others, so that I am qualified to accept the likes of others, and I am also qualified to say to the people I like: I like it you.

——Yao Dao "The spring breeze is not as good as you"

9 If you do things for others' favor, recognition, and reward for you, if others do not recognize you, it will be equal to zero. Even if no one acknowledges the things you do for your own conscience, talents, and life, there will be no loss at all.

One of the reasons why I prefer to rely on my own ability to make a living is to save worry and effort and not have to manage interpersonal relationships that I am not good at.

——Zhou Guoping's "Confetti in the Wind"

10 Many people think that the older a person is, the more humble he is. In fact, the older a person is, the more unwilling he is to admit defeat. The more you like to hear others flatter you. If flattery comes from the mouth of a colleague who is similar in ability to oneself, it will be extremely pleasant, and no one in the world does not like to hear it.

——Gu Long

11 There is nothing wrong with being disliked. At least you brought out something, but the other party is not satisfied. There are still many people who can't even bring out a decent thing, and they don't even have the qualifications to be disliked. The best thing about people is that as long as we work hard to become better, we don't care at all about the blows others give us. Enthusiasm, fullness and confidence are the best self-defense weapons.

——Liu Tong

12 In this world, it does not mean that you can live a better life just by smiling away your grudges. This is a world where people cannibalize people, and you can only survive if you stand taller than others. People without strength cannot be lost among all living beings. They are doomed to choose a side and their hands are stained with blood. ?

Only the strong are qualified to forgive others. ?

The weak can only gain life by drawing out their swords! If you choose to retaliate with kindness, you are courting death!

——Black Fire "Hell Cinema"

131 People cannot ignore or even despise the suffering of others just because they have endured enough suffering.?

At least, it can make you remember that you are not qualified to regard your suffering manager as personal life capital.?

If I can't live with you and Le Ankang, Then I can at least be calm and free when you want to leave me. This is the best love I can give you.

——Canoe "I have also been wandering for a long time"

14 In today’s world, no one can be patient. It depends on whether you have real skills, and few people can really understand. However, if you can often talk about some mysterious words, you can fool people. Stay, this is more useful than anything else.

——Qu Xiaoxiao's "Ode to Joy 2"

Is 15 funny? Don't forget, you were once a weak person and you are not qualified to trample on the dignity of others. To laugh at me is to laugh at yourself

——Feng Xinglie's "Ao Feng"