People are good at being bullied and horses are good at being ridden? This sentence has been circulating for a long time. Many people believe this truth and think that people should not be too kind in life. If you are too kind, you are likely to be bullied by others, and you are likely to be violated by others.
Being a man needs kindness, because only kindness can make our hearts more calm. No matter who has a kind heart, they can face everything in life calmly.
Kindness actually means not hurting others, not maliciously speculating others, and not disturbing others' happiness. If everyone has this kindness, I think the environment in which we live will become extremely beautiful.
But the reality is often much more cruel than imagined. We can only stick to our hearts with kindness and let ourselves have a clear conscience, but we can't demand others with kindness, let alone restrain others' wrong behavior with kindness.
We can not hurt others, but we should also learn to protect ourselves. This society is much more realistic than we thought. Many times kindness really won't hurt others, but it will hurt yourself.
There are too many facts in life that tell us that some things can be kind and some things should not be kind. Each of us is an important part of the family, and your kindness may bring serious harm to yourself and even the whole family.
Everyone should learn to protect themselves from others, which is actually a kind of. There is no end to goodness in life. As long as you don't take the initiative to hurt people, I think it's already kind.
You really can't be too kind, because you have no sharp eyes, you don't know who your kindness has helped, and you don't know what consequences your kindness will bring. Our life needs kindness, but sometimes I really dare not be kind.
Be a kind person who can protect yourself, and your kindness will become the light and heat in your life.