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Life is full of ups and downs. Some people always complain that God is unfair and has not arranged a good destiny for themselves. But in fact, God is very fair. It will not give anyone the life they want according to their preferences.

The Austrian poet Rilke once said: There is no victory in life, holding on means everything. ?

Life has different difficulties for everyone. Many people are in places you can’t see, wiping away the tears on their faces time and time again and getting through their own pain.

No one can replace it, and no one can be spared. The night is very long, and you may not be able to see any stars.

But only by choosing to persevere can you have a chance to see the sun.

Maybe you feel that you have to work harder than anyone else, but you still have to go through the hardships. Don't be discouraged or complain, your destiny is in your own hands, and hope is also in your body.

Only by accepting everything calmly, knowing how to rely on yourself, and getting through it can you support the sky above your head.

02. Life has entered a trough, and it turns out that there is no one to rely on.

Keigo Higashino said: The greatest evil in human nature is not to see others being kind. You never know how much ill will those seemingly close people in your life may have towards you behind your back. ?

This world is very realistic. If you are good, some people will fawn over you and flatter you; if you are not good, there will be too many people looking for a sense of balance in you. Look, this person is worse off than me?

Life is full of different situations. Maybe you have seen the ugliness of human nature in this world and have fought against it.

When your life reaches a trough, you may feel helpless. You see the people around you clearly and become more and more indifferent.

No matter what, the cruel truth of life still needs to be faced by you alone. No matter what kind of day, you must go on alone.

No one can go through this journey for you, and no one can rely on you. Even if you are hit by life in turn, you can only have your own hope if you get through it yourself.

03. When life reaches a trough, and you are confused, you can only rely on yourself

General Patton said: To measure a person's success, you need to see how high he bounces back from the bottom. ?

Facing life, you are restless. If you are not careful, you will lose your job, become lonely, go bankrupt, or even reach the edge of emotional collapse.

Many people seem to be joking and making noises normally during the day, and they can still handle their work with ease. But when I got home and calmed down, I felt that my life was like a mess and I couldn't figure it out clearly.

I have seen this sentence: "Everyone in this world is suffering, why can't you bear it?" ?

Everyone has his own bitterness and helplessness, and he is struggling to survive in his own world.

If you bring these people together, you will find that the things you encounter may really be nothing.

We are all children without umbrellas. On heavy rainy days, we can only run as hard as we can to be reborn. Let your life no longer be a painful struggle, but live with dignity and more dignity.

Faced with the confusion of life, even if you cry and despair, don’t stop. Only by getting through it can you have more opportunities and see the vigorous vitality.

04. You can only endure and rely on your own efforts

In life, no one can be responsible for your life, and no one can always give someone happiness. Everything you get is earned with your own hands. As long as you work hard, you will be given a satisfactory explanation in the future and live a more enjoyable life.

Don’t sit back and wait for death during the trough period, let alone give up easily.

Even if life beats you to pieces, you should use the time in the future to repair yourself and then face it with strength.

You will always experience various kinds of pain in life, but after the pain, you will find that you are completely different from the past.

If you get through it one more time, you will gain more insights and make greater progress.

If you take one more step, you will find that you have widened the gap with many people, and your destiny will become completely different from before. The more you take this difficult step, the more you realize that life will become easier and easier in the future.

So, when you feel that life is extremely difficult, you must get through it. Only in this way can you see the light in the darkness and usher in your own success.

Different choices lead to different lives. Rely on yourself to solve all the problems in life and turn adversity into opportunities that will help you.

Don’t be afraid, don’t run away, control your own destiny.

Only by enduring in life and working hard on your own can you have hope.

05Hold on, you can only rely on yourself.

Charles Byard said: When the sky is dark to a certain extent, the stars will shine brightly. ?

Everyone has times when they feel it’s hard, and they also feel like they can’t hold on. You can slow yourself down, but don’t give up easily.

The trough of life is actually a rebirth. You can see the people around you clearly, you can gain more experiences, and you can also learn to rely more on your own strength to live.

Even if there is no one to rely on, don’t let yourself get depressed, make yourself stronger. If you always yearn for light in your heart, you will not always walk through darkness.

When encountering difficulties, learn to rely on yourself and survive, so that you can walk in this desolate world, break all the difficulties in front of you, and give yourself more and more freedom.

The road of life is full of ups and downs. If you persevere and come out of each trough, you will always go smoother and live a better life.