Li De, Li Yan, Xiu, Qi, Zhi and Ping.
There are many gentlemen's styles in The Analects.
A gentleman is harmonious but different, but a villain is different: a gentleman is friendly with others, but he will not be in cahoots with others, and a villain is in cahoots with others, but not friendly;
A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others: a gentleman is strict with himself, while a villain is strict with himself;
A gentleman speaks before he acts: a gentleman does what he wants to teach others before he speaks;
A gentleman must keep his word and do what he says: a gentleman speaks in a low-key way and does things in a high-profile way;
To the world, the gentleman is at a loss, and there is no Mo Ye. Comparison between righteousness and righteousness: a gentleman does not have to do what he has to do, nor does he have to do what he has to do, but he can do what he has to do.
A gentleman doesn't suffer from ignorance, and people don't know. A gentleman doesn't care that others don't know himself, but only that he knows others.
A gentleman can be bullied, ignored, lost and trapped: a gentleman can be deceived, but not played, killed, but not framed.
Quality is better than literature, literature is better than history, gentle. Then, a gentleman: quality (internal and essential qualities such as physique, talent, personality and knowledge) is better than literary talent (external qualities such as courtesy, dress, decoration and eloquence), while rudeness and literary talent are better than quality, and vanity, literary talent and quality complement each other. This is the manner of a gentleman.
A gentleman is not a weapon! A gentleman must not be used by others.
There are many more, but these should be enough to express Confucius' requirements for gentlemen.
There are many gentlemen's styles in The Analects.
A gentleman is harmonious but different, but a villain is different: a gentleman is friendly with others, but he will not be in cahoots with others, and a villain is in cahoots with others, but not friendly;
A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others: a gentleman is strict with himself, while a villain is strict with himself;
A gentleman speaks before he acts: a gentleman does what he wants to teach others before he speaks;
A gentleman must keep his word and do what he says: a gentleman speaks in a low-key way and does things in a high-profile way;
To the world, the gentleman is at a loss, and there is no Mo Ye. Comparison between righteousness and righteousness: a gentleman does not have to do what he has to do, nor does he have to do what he has to do, but he can do what he has to do.
A gentleman doesn't suffer from ignorance, and people don't know. A gentleman doesn't care that others don't know himself, but only that he knows others.
A gentleman can be bullied, ignored, lost and trapped: a gentleman can be deceived, but not played, killed, but not framed.
Quality is better than literature, literature is better than history, gentle. Then, a gentleman: quality (internal and essential qualities such as physique, talent, personality and knowledge) is better than literary talent (external qualities such as courtesy, dress, decoration and eloquence), while rudeness and literary talent are better than quality, and vanity, literary talent and quality complement each other. This is the manner of a gentleman.
A gentleman is not a weapon! A gentleman must not be used by others.
There are many more, but these should be enough to express Confucius' requirements for gentlemen.
A gentleman is heavy but not flattering, strong but not flattering, beautiful but not attached, evil and outspoken, strong but not afraid, weak but not bullying, friendly and good, fond of and disliked, respected when young, safe for the people, and not humiliated by the officials. Mencius said that if you are poor, you will be immune and the world will be good.
The drama "Love from Marriage" is all the words of the tiger and the wolf, and the people who listen to it are red-faced. The setting of love after marriage is al