If you want to be strong,

please demand yourself by the standards of the strong.

(1) Tell yourself: I am a person who does great things

No matter when you are lazy, jealous, fearful, impetuous or self-abased, you must say to yourself: I am a person who does great things.

Only by strengthening your heart and staying away from mediocrity can you stand up step by step. If you want to become a strong man, then demand yourself by the standards of a strong man.

(2) Keep away from these people

1. Don't be nice to others.

2. people who loaf around and don't make progress.

3. People who always beat you up.

4. People who always take and never return.

People around you have a great influence on yourself. These four kinds of people must stay away. They are your enemies on the road to growth.

(3) Hang a picture in an eye-catching place

Always remind yourself to hang whatever you lack.

1.? If you don't have tolerance, then hang a famous saying of tolerance.

2. If you are always lazy, hang up the famous words to motivate yourself.

Don't spend time worrying, focus on the present, stay real, and work hard.

(4) Appropriate solitude

No matter how busy you are at work and how much you socialize, you should leave yourself alone.

Being alone is not doing nothing, but thinking, reflecting and talking to yourself. Know yourself better, know what you want better, and learn to be alone so that you won't lose yourself in time.

(5) Don't let yourself be too idle

Many people have a doubt, why do things so hard when a cloud is so rich. In fact, doing things is just what you need. Whether you have money or not, you must find your own things to do. When people are idle, they are prone to entertain foolish ideas and decadence. When people are busy, their lives will be more fulfilling, so that they can reduce their bad feelings and move in a good direction. (6) Help others more. (P) If you feel depressed and feel that life is meaningless, help others more. If you are not strong enough inside, helping others more will make your mind more sunny and stronger. Others' affirmation of you will enhance your sense of self-worth and make you in a better state.