1. Do I always refuse? Did I not learn to pretend to be optimistic?
When you learn to refuse others and learn to answer blows with blows, others will respect you and even fear you.
Not everyone has a kind nature. Some people hurt you without guilt or anxiety. They just laughed at your stupidity. When you learn to refuse others and learn to answer blows with blows, they will respect you and even fear you.
You are destined to be smart. Step bricks won't refuse to scratch the window grilles, and you can't turn off the sunset.
When your child learns to refuse, it means that he has learned to think. No matter whether this idea is reasonable or not, you should respect it.
6. In love, it is more difficult to refuse than to compromise. Only those who dare to refuse can truly learn to compromise. Author: Moon listens to the wind Source: My family has a proud wife.
7. We need to learn to get used to being rejected, even now. I was rejected more than thirty times when I was looking for a job. I went to KFC to apply, and 24 people accepted 23, but I was the only one who was rejected. I went to take the police exam. Four out of five people recruited me, and I was the only one who was rejected. Later, I applied to Harvard and was rejected 10 times. Author: Ma Yun Source: Davos Speech
8. People who don't know how to refuse, thankless, will kill themselves sooner or later.
9. When everyone learns to use his brain, learn to think independently, stop being superstitious about authority and refuse to listen to other people's suggestions, its significance and strength are incomparable to 100 thinkers.
10. I don't know how to learn to refuse, just like learning not to cover for myself when being rejected by others.
1 1. Don't be afraid that others will be unhappy. What's the use of unhappy life? Learn to refuse to think that others can be shameless and please everything. How can I give him face? Your job is not to help others, okay?
12. Only after being separated from other places can we learn to refuse temptation, learn to fight for each other, embrace each other more tightly and grow old together.
13. Learn to reject others correctly and never start practicing. The more direct the better.
14. Kindness is innocent, but excessive kindness will also harm you. Learn to refuse to grow, and don't let kindness become your weakness.
15. Most people can't learn to refuse others, and more people habitually refuse themselves. The rest of their lives won't be long. Please really live for yourself.
16. Self-reliance is to learn to undertake some important tasks in life, but you should also undertake them according to your own situation, instead of blindly refusing others' help, and everything depends on yourself.
17. Learn to live, die, and be a man, you must learn to refuse.
18. It is a woman's inherent privilege to refuse the pursuit of the opposite sex. Even if she refuses the warmest love, it will not be considered cruel. However, if the goddess of fate makes a mistake, breaks the shy nature and gives love to an uncertain opposite sex, and the other party shows indifference and rejection, the result will be unimaginable. When a man refuses a woman's pursuit, he hurts her noblest. Self-esteem by Zweig
19. I finally learned to smile and refuse what I like.
20. I finally learned to smile and shake my head and refuse what I like.
2 1. It's not that others are too smart, but that they are too stupid, not that others are too treacherous, but that they are too kind, not that others are too idle, but that they are confused, not that others are too bad, but that they are soft-hearted. Don't force yourself to accept too much so-called helplessness and boredom. After all, time and energy can't be bought by money. Learning to refuse temptation is the best way to move forward easily!
22. Learning to listen is an irresistible attitude in our life, and learning to listen is also the best way for us to find happiness and get out of loneliness.
23. If you take a person too seriously, it is easy for the other person to ignore you. When you can't bear to refuse all the time, the other party begins to give you the cold shoulder. Gradually, we learned to say "no".
24. What is it like to feel insecure since childhood? I don't think it's okay for others to reject me. You feel guilty when you refuse others. Maybe I haven't learned to refuse others yet.
25. I slowly learned to refuse the invasion of outsiders. You can't blame yourself for being too suspicious. I don't think anyone will think that I deserve to be treated sincerely. After all, I can only use time to see through a person's heart, so even if there is hope, I can only hope on myself.
It is not easy to refuse other people's demands. It is easier to say yes than to say no.
27. Learning to refuse is a sign of maturity.
28. We can't miss every dynamic as before, just as we can't be so kind to everyone. We should learn to cherish our own goodness, because not everyone will appreciate it, but we will feel silly. Learn to refuse, and your good people will cherish it more.
29. Many people have blurred boundaries and unclear bottom lines, not because they are kind enough to refuse others, but because they are afraid that they will not be recognized and accepted. To put it bluntly, not rejecting others is for fear that others will reject themselves.
Every time you tell me that you need me, I can't bear to refuse. Someone once asked me why I never refused others. Can't bear to hurt, can also be understood as not knowing how to refuse. Why I won't refuse you. But, you are you, how can I have the heart to refuse?
3 1. Smile and refuse: You should be able to smile and have a solemn attitude when refusing, so that others can feel your respect and courtesy, and even if you refuse, you can accept it gladly.
32. We all cut songs if we don't like a song: if we don't like someone, maybe we should all learn to refuse. Author: Lu Sihao Source: Please wake me up before you leave.
Do what others tell you to do, and you will eventually become a coolie. Appear when others need you, disappear when others don't need you, and slowly lose yourself. The biggest problem in life is not to refuse. Because in this world, crying children have milk to drink. The more you refuse, the more you get. Being a man is to bear the burden of humiliation, be choosy and enjoy happiness. Say no, you can get it, know how to refuse, and live without entanglement.
34. Release the unbearable, reject the unacceptable, learn to be silent, and learn to live seriously. Stay away from people you don't like, pursue what you love, don't please people who don't want to please, and don't live for others. Don't try your best to get along with the whole world, don't try to make everyone like you, and don't believe that you are made of iron and are not afraid of grievances and injuries. May you not comfort others, and may you know how to feel sorry for yourself.
35. I learned to refuse, I learned to be empty, I learned to wait for the soul in the endless night, I smiled and said that I was free and easy on the road called youth, I cried and said that I would give up and stop the crazy closure of the unknown, and I would no longer have absurd ideas about your world. I'm just a passerby.
Don't refuse to be busy, because it is a kind of enrichment: the past is like smoke, smiling and safe. Learn to feel life calmly and have a calm and fulfilling life.
37. If you want to protect yourself, you must first learn to refuse pies that fall from the sky.
38. Agreeing or refusing is the most important.
39. The suffering in life has taught us to endure it. Life is also ups and downs, joys and sorrows, which constitute the perfection of life: life does not need to refuse to be dull, nor does it need to be afraid of wind and rain. It is in dullness that we realize the true meaning of life and exercise people's strength in the wind and rain. It is in the bittersweet immersion that we become profound and richer in connotation.
40. I finally learned to refuse, to fight back, to smile, to act, and finally to lose my true self.
4 1. Your excessive kindness will only make some people in it have no bottom line, no conscience and push their luck. Not everyone in this world is as simple as you think. Some people hurt you without guilt or anxiety, but just think you are stupid. You asked for it, but when you learn to answer blows with blows and learn to refuse, they will be afraid of you. I finally believed that sentence. There is nothing wrong with ruthlessness.
42. Reasonable rejection doesn't necessarily offend people, and unconditional acceptance will only make you live a humble life. A man must learn to refuse and dare to sayno. Learning to refuse is the beginning of being kind to himself and respecting others' refusal. No one is born to agree with all the demands of others.
43. Life is a process of choice. In order to succeed in your dream, you must learn to persist and resolutely refuse all kinds of temptations, even if a person repeats boring days and chews loneliness and cold. We should believe in ourselves and constantly motivate ourselves. Even if the things you insist on in the end are not realized, you can calmly face the generosity after giving up wholeheartedly, at least much happier than the regret of giving up lightly.