People who say this have a masturbation mentality that wants to drive others to sink like themselves, and at the same time find reasons for their own inability. In life, "Be serious and you will lose" seems to have become an excuse for some people to find reasons for themselves. They think that they have not dealt with something. It is not because of their lack of ability, but because they did not take it to heart. Use the so-called reason that seriousness is the biggest failure to excuse yourself. Moreover, this sentence is not only a reason for a person to sink, but has become a reactionary force in society. Many people will be passive in this atmosphere, and even believe this sentence and stop working hard to make progress. In fact, there is no such thing as "If you are serious, you will lose". Losing is never the outcome of being serious. 1. Masturbation psychology

Although our childhood education tells us to face our own shortcomings and the shortcomings of our abilities, in fact not many people can admit their shortcomings frankly. Because everyone attaches too much importance to their own face and self-esteem, they want to be self-improvement in various situations, or even overly self-improvement. But too many times, we are unable to cope with the plan in front of us, but we don't want others to know our cowardice and incompetence, so we use the so-called words "If you take it seriously, you will lose" to excuse ourselves. This is masturbation psychology. 2. Herd mentality: Be serious and you will lose? This has become a saying of wisdom for many groups. They firmly believe that being serious will not bring success, but only failure, so they degenerate themselves and spread this mentality to others all the time. And those who have worked hard have not often succeeded. Instead, they correspond to this fallacy. Instead of deceiving themselves and others and being criticized by others, it is better to give up on themselves like those around them. 3. The mentality of encouraging others to degenerate

People who don’t work hard will always excuse themselves and let this excuse affect others. They don’t want to see others working hard and want to lead others to imitate themselves. This is obvious. The mentality of encouraging others. Those who often say "If you take it seriously, you will lose" are the ones who are incompetent and make others fall.