Kindness is used to counteract fierceness, fierceness is used to counteract lenientness, and government is based on harmony. The will is as strong as iron and the strength is as big as the sea. Only by respecting others can others be respected. People who cannot tolerate others do not deserve to be tolerated by others. ——(Russia) Turgenev A great man has two hearts: one bleeding heart and one tolerant heart. ——(Lebanon) Gibran Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——"Mencius Li Lou Xia" The famous writer Fang Long once quoted the definition of tolerance from "Encyclopedia Britannica" in his famous book "Tolerance": Tolerance means allowing others to act or judge freely; to tolerate others patiently and without prejudice. Opinions that are inconsistent with one's own views or accepted views. The definition of tolerance in my country's modern Chinese dictionary is: being generous and magnanimous, without caring or pursuing. 1. Tolerating others is actually tolerating ourselves. Being more tolerant of others actually gives us a little more space in our lives. A life with friends will provide love and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; a life with friends will have less wind and rain, and more warmth and sunshine. In fact, tolerance is always a sunny day. 2. Tolerance is to forget. Everyone has pain and scars. Every time you open them, you will create new wounds. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuses against you, time is a good analgesic. Learn to forget, only then can life have sunshine and joy. 3. Tolerance means not caring about things and letting them go. Everyone has mistakes. If you stick to your past mistakes, you will form ideological baggage, distrust, grudges, and inability to let go, which limits your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. Those who can withstand betrayal are the strongest people, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with their strong will. Their majesty can give people confidence and motivation, and thus they can better prevent or reduce betrayal. 4. Tolerance means being free and unrestrained. "Green poplars everywhere are good for horses, and every family has a road to Chang'an." Treating others generously and tolerating criticism is the way to a successful career and a happy family. Worrying about everything, worrying about gains and losses, life is tiring. It is rare to live in this world, and the most important thing is to be free and unrestrained. 5. Tolerance is a kind of strength, not weakness. Tolerance requires retreat and active defense. The concession reflected in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in one's own hands. Helplessness and necessity cannot be considered tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all living beings. 6. Tolerance means not forcing others when they disagree with you. From a psychological perspective, every idea has its origin. Every motivation has certain inducements. By understanding the origin of the other person's ideas and finding the basis for their opinions, you will be able to put yourself in their shoes, and the proposed plan will be more in line with the other person's psychology and be accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We must respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence of others, and make good efforts to discard them. 7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstandings from friends, excessive arguments and "counterattacks" are not worthwhile. Only calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. I believe in this famous saying: "Tolerance is the grain that grows among thorns." If you can take a step back, the world will naturally become wider. 8. Tolerance also requires skills. Giving a chance does not mean condoning, nor does it exempt the other party from responsibility. Everyone needs to be responsible for their own actions; everyone must bear various consequences. Otherwise, the other party will make the forbidden mistake again and again, showing weakness. 9. Aphorisms about tolerance: Violet leaves its fragrance on the ankles that crush it. This is forgiveness and anger. "——Mark Twain The way of a gentleman is to be loyal and forgiving. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. I don't want others to do to me, and I don't want to do to others. (The Analects of Confucius) Mount Tai will not give way to the soil, Therefore, it can be as big as it is; rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can be as deep as possible. (Li Si) "Tolerance is like the drizzle from the sky that nourishes the earth." It blesses those who tolerate and those who are tolerated.

——A line from Shakespeare's famous play "The Merchant of Venice"