The night breeze blows, as if it is ruffling the vast sea of ????heart.
When people walk by, it is like a boat passing by, making ripples silently, and then gradually dissipating with inertia.
I originally thought that I deeply understood the famous saying "No man is an island", but in fact, after changing the person and angle, I found that what I had always understood was its literal meaning, or in other words, its literal meaning. The meaning of fame.
In fact, it has another deeper meaning.
No man is an island, so no one does not need company.
Human nature advocates prosperity and hates isolation or being isolated. Therefore, people always seem to be lively social animals, and one person is often considered weird. Therefore, when a person seems to be strong and independent and does not need anyone, in fact he may need it more than anyone else.
Because some people just look strong. The fragility hidden deep under his strong shell is always invisible to ordinary people.
So, it was really heartbreaking when I saw that sentence for the first time:
"You are so strong, you must not have many people hurting you, right?"
Sometimes I see female men carrying buckets upstairs to change the water. When they are sick, they go to the hospital for injections and medicine. All the heavy work is done by them. They always look very strong and can do anything, so Boys have always thought that if you live well alone, you may not need me very much. In fact, no matter how strong the heart is, it will be fragile, and no matter how adaptable to loneliness, people will need companionship.
No man is an island, so people who look like islands usually have treasures buried deep inside them. (Except for exceptions) If you peek carefully, you may find different rare scenery. Because a heart soaked in loneliness is always compassionate and more resilient.
Chai Jing said in "Seeing": "I never thought it would be like this. Over the years, I have changed many places and jobs. I can cooperate with anyone and be separated from anyone. All I think about is ——There is always the next group of people, the next place, and the next life. "This is her feeling after meeting Lao Hao. Lao Hao became an unexpected encounter in her life, and he also changed her perspective unexpectedly.
It takes a long and painful process to go from affectionate to ruthless. It is necessary to use tears as the medicine and pain as the prescription. Under the cover of numerous scars, he gradually learned to disguise himself and began to put on a close-fitting armor for himself.
So everyone likes to defend themselves, is afraid of getting hurt, and always hurts others habitually. When they are separated, they are afraid of showing a little bit of reluctance, as if they will lose, so they show no concern or even look happy, but after turning around, the smile falls and silence rises on their faces, so what’s the point?
People’s habitual thinking Always, he is a human being who breaks the rules, so he should be punished. Who makes him different from us? People always like to use secular standards to measure, treat, and crush us.
In fact, why not be more compassionate and think more about the other person?
Yes, human nature is inherently selfish.
Also, with this white jade lamp, why do you need a blue tile basin?
This is the truth of life, the unstoppable reincarnation in the rolling world, and the destined end in gloom after the hustle and bustle.
But, I do.
I am willing to live a very real life, as if there are too many falsehoods in the world, I will mix a dose of truth with a potion, even if it is insignificant.
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I am Wutong, a desperate girl born in 1995.
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