1, people around the city want to escape, and people standing outside the city want to rush in. Whether it is marriage or career, most of their desires for life come from this.
It's a pity that such heavy luggage as wooden cases and iron boxes can be protected by thick ropes. These wooden boxes and iron boxes are not as durable as flesh and blood.
This question is very intriguing. Think about it carefully, I endure this and that, just to keep my inner freedom and inner peace. You scold me, and I laugh it off. You hit me, I will never fight back. If you want to kill me with a knife, I will say, what have you to do with me, that you want to kill me? What am I in your way? "So, forbearance is a shield to protect your armor and resist aggression. I am wearing an invisibility cloak. Others can't see me, but I can see others. I am willing to make a zero. People don't treat me like a thing, so I can see through anyone who looks down on me. So I can pursue freedom and show my personality. So I said that tolerance and freedom are dialectical unity. Endure is for freedom, and if you want freedom, you have to learn to endure.
From birth to death, generations have worked hard and been busy, and in the end they have only become a group of walking dead. What value can they get in life?
Husband and wife should be friends for life. The most important thing between husband and wife is friendship. Even if you are not intimate friends, you should at least be friends who can be partners or partners who respect each other. Relationships between lovers, not friends, can't last. Husband and wife are not friends enough, so they have to break up.
When I was young, I thought it was not enough to understand life without reading. It was not until later that I discovered that if I don't understand life, I can't read. The meaning of reading is probably to read with the feelings of life and live with the income from reading. Yang Jiang
7. Reading is like visiting. We are just short-lived insects. We climb into the world of books, climb here and stop there. Sometimes we meet the right person, hear nice words, or occasionally get something from the problems on our minds, just like we are so happy that we forget our words.
As a woman, don't think beauty is more important than anything else. Good looks and gorgeous clothes can only give you a good body, but they can't stand the erosion of time. Reading more useful books will make your heart stay forever; Be good at discussing big plans with others, know etiquette, know how to advance and retreat, and make your words and deeds more attractive; Get used to changing yourself. Only when you change, will the world change with you.
9. What are the materials and what are their uses? If it is a radish, try to make a good radish with more water and crispy meat; If it's Chinese cabbage, try to be a good Chinese cabbage.
10, when people think back on past lives, they can realize what they did wrong. This is not only because they were young and ignorant, but also because they are conscious now. There are other reasons, such as being blinded by one's own desires, selfishness and vanity. After these things are satisfied or vented, their conscience will be revealed, and people will realize that they have done something wrong, but they just regret it.
1 1, vague, only allowing you to dream and imagine. Distance adds to the mystery. I can't see the edge, and it has become a distant and vast place with no boundaries. Mountains and rivers in the clouds, stars in the dark night, the future in hope, superb ideals, respected celebrities, and the promise of "knowing each other" in your heart-through the curtains, you can have unlimited wonderful imagination. If you hate the space between curtains, rush into the door and look behind the curtains. The naked truth is invisible.
12, I looked around and couldn't find him.
13, when the moon is full, it loses money, and when the water is full, it overflows. Love is enough here, and I don't want it to overflow.
14, I think, on the eve of liberation, many people ran abroad in fear. Why are neither of us willing to walk a few roads? Is your mind improving? Is the consciousness high? Silently, I often quote a sentence from Liu Yong: "My clothes are getting wider and wider, but I don't regret it. I am thin because of Iraq. " We just can't bear to part with our motherland and Iraq-that is, we or us. Although hundreds of millions of "us" or "us" are strangers, they all belong to the same body, are closely related and are inseparable parts of themselves.
15, I am an old man, I always say the old saying. For the times, I am a laggard, and I have no good words to contribute to modern marriage. I just want to remind young people now that the most important thing in the combination of men and women is feelings, not the degree of mutual understanding. Only by getting to know each other better can we appreciate, attract, support and encourage each other. Only in this way can they become two of the same kind.
16, there will be no ending like a novel or fairy tale in the world: "They will live happily ever after." There is no simple happiness in the world. Happiness is always accompanied by troubles and worries.
17, fame, being alive may be useful to yourself, but it can only be used after death. Yang Jiang
18, not many people can be equal to Zhong Shu, and people who don't like each other will think Zhong Shu is stingy. It seems that we are all proud to keep our distance from people who don't like each other. We are young and unsophisticated, but those who are the most sophisticated and capable are also criticized. Zhong Shu and I use this to explain ourselves.
19, your problem is mainly that you don't read much and think too much.
20. People are hanging curtains. Don't peek. I'd rather hang one myself, gorgeous or simple. If you don't care about hanging up, or are too lazy to hang up, you might as well leave an exposed window open. However, you have to respect other people's curtains. -Jiang Yang's curtains.
2 1. Shouts fell in the wilderness, as if swallowed up, leaving no faint sound. The complete silence added weight to the heavy night and deepened my loneliness.
22. I stroked the post road I walked step by step, and I left my feelings all the way. Three of us.
23. Teenagers are playful, young people are infatuated with love, and they are eager to become famous and have a family in their prime, and they are content to deceive themselves in their later years. Life geometry, how much pure gold can stubborn iron make? Speech at the centennial celebration
24. "Before I met her, I never thought about getting married; After marrying her, I never regretted marrying her. " Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang have a lifelong love. I first met Zhong Shu in June. He is wearing a blue gown, shoes with wool soles and a pair of old-fashioned glasses. His brow is beautiful. After meeting, Lao Qian began to write to me and asked me to meet in the I-shaped hall. When they met, his first sentence was, "I'm not engaged." And I nervously replied, "I don't have a boyfriend either." So he began to correspond with Hongyan, and wrote letters more and more frequently, one a day, so that he went home on holiday. I was ill for a long time. Calm down and don't feel good. This is love.
I think fate is the most unreasonable. Fools, idiots and assholes enjoy wealth and honor, while ignorant people can cheat the world and steal their reputation for life. Only those who have virtue suffer, the wicked are in power, and the good suffer. Therefore, the commander is called "the son of nature".
26. Although a man is small and his life is short, he can learn, cultivate and improve. Man's value lies in himself.
27. Westerners say that seven evils are allowed: pride, greed, lust, anger, gluttony, jealousy and laziness. These seven evils also include what Buddhists call greed, anger and delusion. All these evils are rooted in human flesh and blood.
28, the old friend laughs more than the atrium tree, and the autumn wind is sparse.
29. A failed poet often becomes an angry critic, just as bad wine can make good wine. Miscellaneous memory and miscellaneous writing
30. Miss Hu thinks that he (Yu Nan-Editor's Note) is penniless with two fists and is a penniless "iron cock". I heard that he has been looked down upon by women many times, and there must be a reason. However, as a husband, this is also a virtue. He is like a thrifty housewife. He will never waste money. Anyway, she has made a condition that she will get married and the financial power will belong to her. Yu Nan agreed. For him, the financial power is only the management power, and the ownership is still his, even Miss Hu herself is his.
3 1, we were so eager for the waves of fate, only to find that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually inner peace and calmness. We are so eager for recognition from the outside world that we finally realize that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others. Speech at the centennial celebration
32. My hands are baking the fire of life to keep warm; The fire has gone out, and I'm ready to go. -Jiang Yang's Miscellaneous Notes and Essays
If you want to live in peace with others, you must first deal with them and be prepared to suffer losses at any time.
34. Our family is very simple; The three of us, it's simple. We have nothing to do with the world and others, but to get together, stay together and do what we can.
35, a person through different degrees of exercise, get different degrees of sense of accomplishment, different degrees of income. Just like spices, the finer they are, the stronger the fragrance. Speech at the centennial celebration
36, love is involuntary, easy to get, easy to see, can not get, or can not get, just feel rare and precious. have a bath
37. I read the Romance of the Three Kingdoms and read a lot of "vernacular". According to Zhong Shu, all children who study by themselves have "white words" in their minds, and sometimes they can't change them. The two of us often shake out the white words in our stomachs for comparison. Very interesting.
38. Everyone deludes himself to varying degrees, which is called "compromise".
39. "Let him sing and ask him for a friendly voice." A friendly voice can be thousands of miles away, but after hundreds of years. Zhong Shu is a judge, and his knowledge is unpopular. He once said to me, "Being famous means more people you don't know." We want to have a few friends, not fame and voice.
40. I read the Romance of the Three Kingdoms and read a lot of "white characters" (typos). According to Zhong Shu, all children who study by themselves have "white words" in their minds, and sometimes they can't change them. The two of us often shake out the white words in our stomachs for comparison. Very interesting. -"Miscellaneous Memories and Miscellaneous Writing"
4 1. If we envy something very much, our father often just says, "There are many good things in the world." It means: you have to fight for it yourself. Maybe this is another kind of labor education, but I think it is more like advocating personal struggle. My private reaction is: there are many good things in the world. Can you have everything? -"will drink tea"
42. "Teenagers are playful, young people are infatuated with love, and they are eager to become famous and have a family in their prime, and they are content to deceive themselves in their twilight years." -"Centennial Speech"
43. I think the most reliable quality in difficulties and troubles is willingness to endure hardships. Because suffering breeds wisdom; I don't know how rough life is without suffering. With personal experience, you can become smart and capable. -"Miscellaneous Memories and Miscellaneous Writing"
44. There is no simple happiness in the world. Happiness always brings troubles and melancholy. There is no eternity in the world. -"The three of us"
45. They may forget because they feel ashamed, and more likely because they are not ashamed. Shame often makes people forget, and things that lose heart and face are always things they don't want to remember, so it's easy to leak out in the sieve of memory. Shame also makes people cringe and hesitate, delaying the fierce competition for survival; People who feel guilty will temporarily retreat and fall behind for life. -"Six Chapters of Cadre School"
46. I always thought I was an easy-going person, but I was a little withdrawn, often depressed, and even suspected that I had depression, and felt that I was a mistake from birth. In retrospect, I always feel inappropriate. I was wrong about everything. Why do I have this person? Yang Jiang
47. My husband and wife often say; I hope to have one or two more confidants. People I don't know are not famous. -"Miscellaneous Memories and Miscellaneous Writing"
48. But the wind has passed. As long as you listen to the quiet time, at dusk, there are often a few low sighs, like a peaceful old man sighing helplessly. The wind has not abated. Or just for this, heaven and earth are so tightly bound by the wind. -"Wind"
49. I don't argue with anyone and I don't care who I argue with. A simple life and a noble soul are the highest realm of life. Yang Jiang
50. Hope will come true sooner or later, but the realized hope is always stale. Yang Jiang
5 1. Although living in a humble abode, it has opened up the whole world. Yang Jiang
52. A cultured person can show his anger without showing his face. Yang Jiang
53. Recite new words and do exercises all day, because if you learn a language, you will fall back if you don't make progress. Yang Jiang
54, blame yourself, have the ability to like others, have no ability to make others like you. Yang Jiang
55, naked, can be said to be naive and simple. However, if naive simplicity is used as the material and color of curtains, and a transparent soft yarn is stacked on pure white curtains fluttering in the wind, this simplicity is more attractive than colorful ones, and it should be naked and unadorned, unless there is a perfect body like a Greek idol and a pure soul like an angel. Source: curtains
56. The wrinkled gentleman is Catholic, perhaps because he wants to marry her. Catholicism does not allow marriage, but divorced people must also be allowed to enter the church. Source: Miscellaneous Notes
57, silent storage has always been very refreshing, as if you don't have to think; But after that, I never wandered around again. I can't help thinking about the past and the future, but our choices are always the same. Since it is our own choice, and it is not a blind choice, we will be dead set and will not be delusional again. Source: Six Records of Cadre School
58. God is equal in nature. No matter how rich or poor, there is a soul, a personality and a human nature. However, everyone's background and experience, as well as natural qualifications, are far from equal. Source: Go to the edge of life
To tell the truth, I think I'd rather be scolded than swear. Because swearing is a kind of self-expression, being scolded is a conscious or unconscious expression of others-showing their feelings for me and inadvertently revealing their true feelings is often very intriguing. Source: Can drink tea.
60. You will lose money when the moon is full. The water will overflow when it is full. This is enough for our love. I don't want it to overflow.
6 1, I think, on the eve of liberation, many people ran abroad in fear. Why are neither of us willing to walk a few roads? Is your mind improving? Is the consciousness high? Silently, I often quote a sentence from Liu Yong: "My clothes are getting wider and wider, but I don't regret it. I am thin because of Iraq. " We just can't bear to part with our motherland and Iraq-that is, we or us. Although hundreds of millions of "us" or "us" are strangers, they all belong to the same body, are closely related and are inseparable parts of themselves. Source: Six Records of Cadre School
62. Write a letter home when you are free; In a few words, off and on, all day long. How interesting it would be to reread these letters if they were kept! But more valuable letters have been destroyed, so why cherish them? Source: Six Records of Cadre School
63. Human feelings are more delicious than the bright moon and the breeze; You can read it as a book, but you can watch it as a play. The description in the book and the description in the play, even if lifelike, are only literary works; The human world is a naive and natural expression, which is often beyond reason, shocking and surprising, giving people more profound benefits and wonderful entertainment. Only humble people have the best chance to see the truth of the world, not the artistic performance in front of the audience. Source: Can drink tea.
64. An important part of creativity is imagination. Experience is like a fire lit in the dark, and imagination is the light from this fire. Without fire, there would be no light, but the scope of light far exceeds the size of fire. Source: Can drink tea.
65, a person through different degrees of exercise, get different degrees of sense of accomplishment, different degrees of income. Just like spices, the finer they are, the stronger the fragrance.
66. God won't concentrate all happiness on one person. You may not be rich if you get love. Being rich is not necessarily happiness; Happiness does not necessarily mean health; Having health may not be everything you want. Contentment is the best way to temper and purify the mind.
67. In this noisy and restless era, Mr. Jiang Yang seems to be a warm comfort, which makes people see that "there is still hope in life, and it can be so good".
Everyone can get rid of the original "self" and become a person with moral cultivation through reasonable exercise and under the guidance of spiritual conscience. But people's bad habits are tenacious. Teenagers are playful, young people are obsessed with love, young people are eager to become famous and have a family, and they are content to deceive themselves in their twilight years. Life geometry, how much pure gold can stubborn iron make?
69. This miserable world happens to be a place to exercise people, such as a steel mill, a playground for coaching athletes, or a classroom for educating students. This also shows that life is really bitter for a reason.
70. I am alone and miss the three of us.
7 1, a person has faith and a correct outlook on life and values. It is unfair to say that when a person dies, he has nothing but fame or lifelong contribution. What about unknown people? The master of cheating and stealing the world is famous! If you are disabled or sick, what contribution can you make? Are worthless?
72. Body and soul are twisted into one. Do evil together and do good together.
73. There is no simple happiness on earth. Happiness always brings troubles and melancholy. There is no eternity in the world.
74, a person through different degrees of exercise, get different degrees of sense of accomplishment.
75. I'm an old man, I'm just saying some old sayings. For the times, I am a laggard, and I have no good words to contribute to modern marriage. Only under the trend of material supremacy, I want to remind young friends that the most important thing in the combination of men and women is feelings, which is the degree of mutual understanding. Only by understanding each other deeply can we appreciate each other.
76. We are young and unsophisticated, but those who are the most sophisticated and capable are also criticized. Zhong Shu and I use this to explain ourselves.
77. There is no pure happiness in the world. Happiness is always accompanied by trouble and anxiety. There is no eternity in the world. -Jiang Yang's "We Three"
78. We had a rough life, and we didn't have a stable residence until our twilight years. However, with the aggravation of the disease, we have come to the end of our lives.
79. I like reading poems, China's poems, western poems, and talking with him. We often recite poems together. We find that if we forget a word, it must be the most inappropriate word in the whole poem, and the appropriate word is sticky and unforgettable.
80. Now the three of us are separated. The past will stay, and the dead will chase it. I'll never find them again. We can only relive the years when we lived together and get together with them again.
8 1, actually there is no eternity in the world. We have a rough life and a place to live in our twilight years. However, the old illness has prompted us to come to an end on the road of life. I clearly see that the apartment I once regarded as "our home" is just an inn on the trip. Where is home? I don't know. I'm still looking for my way home. -Jiang Yang's "We Three"
82. There is no pure happiness in the world. Happiness is always accompanied by trouble and anxiety. There is no eternity in the world. I clearly see that the apartment I once regarded as "our home" is just an inn on the trip. Where is home? I don't know. I'm still looking for my way home.
83. If we want to escape, we are not desperate. But when a person is at a critical juncture, what determines his future may always be his most basic feelings. We never sing patriotic songs. I don't like singing and I don't like listening. But we refused to run away, just refused to go to my parents' country and could not leave our home.
84. I don't argue with anyone, and I don't care who I argue with; I love nature, followed by art; My hands are burning the fire of life to keep warm; The fire has gone out, and I'm ready to go. Slowly learn to face yourself frankly, even if it is a shortcoming. There is no controversy or worry, but it is by no means inaction.
85, a person through different levels of exercise, get different levels of self-cultivation, different levels of benefits. Just like spices, the finer they are, the stronger the fragrance.