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After reading a sentence, I am deeply impressed: No matter who you meet in this life, it is no accident that he should appear in your life, and he will certainly teach you something.
Sometimes, I think that there are thousands of worlds and a vast sea of people. No matter where we go, what kind of experiences we have, what kind of people we meet and what kind of stories we have, in fact, everything should happen, and it seems to have been predestined.
when we have traveled a long way, all our experiences and encounters are impartial, which is the scenery you should pass by and the distant place you should reach.
Many people are used to saying that they met someone and what kind of beautiful scenery they met. In fact, there is no accident. All encounters in the world have a reason.
A Buddhist friend once wrote a sentence in a circle of friends:? If there is no debt, how can we meet? ?
yes, the encounter in life is more doomed than fate. In this case, then treat everything with a normal calm heart, cherish it when you have it, and say goodbye seriously when you say goodbye.
Of course, life is always full of uncertainty.
just like in a song:? In an instant, there are 1 million possibilities. ?
It's just that everyone's choice is different. Some people choose to leave, while others choose to wait.
No matter whether you leave or wait, the person or thing you face calmly will freeze your destiny at that moment.
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People have been going around all their lives, searching for themselves, knowing themselves and finally affirming themselves.
Shi Tiesheng has a famous saying: I have walked through mountains and water, but actually I just walked through my life with them; I look at the sky and the ground, but actually I just use them to determine my position; I love him, I love you, in fact, I only realized my love desire with the help of others. ?
Life is bittersweet. When you have experienced life and tasted everything, it is just a process of returning to yourself.
In this journey, when you meet with thousands of people, in the wilderness with endless time, everything is fate. The people you see and what you do happen to catch up, neither earlier nor later.
in the stormy journey, the most tender sentence is probably that someone gently said to you:? Oh, there you are! ?
so, I always thought that it was a great fate to meet one another. It was lucky to be right, but it was not an arrangement to be wrong.
The same is true of things in life. Joy is appropriate, and sadness also has its reasons.
When we are young and middle-aged, we have experienced love, marriage and family, bearing heavy pressure, suffering from success and failure, and to a great extent, we are mature and calm.
In the end, all the stories you have experienced on the road of life will make you a warmer self, so that you can go on more calmly in the future.
isn't it?
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When I met you, when I was young, I always had some longings. After a long, long journey, I found that everything just went with the flow.
when we are in love, what we feel most is, why can't we meet the right person?
So, when you miss a relationship, no matter how hard you try, you should still go. Finally, you may be surrounded by an unexpected person. Wait until many years later, you may be able to sigh that there is no right person, and what is around now is the best.
Life, whether it is love or marriage, the road you have traveled, the people you have loved and the things you have experienced are actually the best arrangements. Some things, you can't change if you want to, may not be the best, but they must be the best for you.
It's like crossing over in TV series. Even if you go back to the past, you think you can finally change your destiny, finally get someone who misses you so much, and finally finish those things that you regret in your life. However, no matter how hard you try to change, the final outcome is still your present life.
It should be said that the best arrangement is the most real and safe you now. Perhaps, some people live a happy life, some people live a wandering life, but no matter what kind of life you experience, it will be the most suitable look in your life.
Therefore, whether we are young and ignorant teenagers or middle-aged people who have gone through Qian Fan, when we are gradually honed in the world, we will definitely understand in the end that we will live a plain life with a natural attitude.
There may be thousands of possibilities in life, but not being responsible for others and yourself is the only script.
I wish you and me, cherish the people around us, cherish the most precious feelings around us, know how to be grateful, know how to face the people you want to meet calmly, what will happen, the rest of your life, the time is quiet and the years are safe.
so, very good.