Love and being loved are not all love, but both are the same. There are often cases of intentional falling flowers and unintentional running water. When you love each other hard, he/she is lukewarm to you and has a pair of hands waiting for you to turn around and hold hands. At this time, do you stick to your choice or give people around you a chance? To love or be loved, some people think that it is the happiest thing to spend a lifetime with the person they love the most. But if their favorite person doesn't love you, but marries you because of gratitude or other factors, and you are warm to him/her every day, but he/she is as plain as water, is this life still a kind of happiness? Between men and women, the most basic thing is to have a good impression on each other, so that further development is possible. Everyone has his own responsibility. If you choose someone who loves you, you must learn to love him. I have always believed that the feelings between people can be cultivated, depending on whether you are willing to try. It is natural that you will get someone's love. Love is equal. If you get it, you must learn to give it.

▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊ ▊. When you have experienced love and being loved and learned to love, you will know what you need and find the person who suits you best and can get along with you for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person; Your favorite often won't choose you; What loves you most is often not what you love most; And the longest, it happened that it was not you who loved you the most, but the person who appeared at the most appropriate time. Who will you be in someone else's life? No one wants to change his mind on purpose. He really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't. If he loves you, he can't pretend not to love you. Similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you should ask yourself if you still love him. If you don't love him, don't refuse to leave because of your poor self-esteem. If you still love him, you should hope that he is happy and stay with the person he really loves, and you will never stop him. If you stop him from getting real happiness, you don't love him anymore. If you don't love him, who are you to accuse him of changing his mind? Love is not possession. You can't say why you really love someone. You only know that you want this person to accompany you whenever and wherever you are in a good mood. True love is that two people can stay together in the most difficult time, but there is no requirement at all. After all, feelings must be paid, not just wanted; Separation is an inevitable test. If your relationship is not stable enough, you have to give up. True love does not turn into resentment. So in the end, we have to choose which one believes in fate, and everything goes with the flow.