It can help children establish correct values ??in life, cultivate children’s correct understanding of themselves, interpersonal relationships and their own functions, enhance children’s psychological endurance, strengthen children’s sense of justice and social responsibility, and improve Children’s self-esteem, confidence, independence and resilience.
“Hoping for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix” is the common mentality of most of our parents in China. However, when this matter was actually put into practice, we found that at certain moments, this was a very difficult sutra to recite.
As the age increases, parents will find that their children behave and speak more like themselves in certain aspects. At this time, some parents will reflect on whether their behavior has a bad impact on their children. and make corrections;
Some parents may let their children grow up freely and rarely care about their children's behavior, speech, and behavior. In this case, if they do not guide their children in a timely manner to grow correctly, May cause unhealthy development of the child.
Educator Mr. Cai Yuanpei once said: "Family is the first school in life." A clear understanding of the important role of family education is of great importance to each of us, every family and even the entire society. significance.
Family education plays an important role in children’s thoughts and will. In schools, teachers usually teach students to be useful to society, to be caring, to be kind, to be strong-willed, etc.
Whether a child has these good thoughts and will, school education takes part of the credit. In fact, to a large extent, it depends on the influence of the family. Good family education affects the child's moral character, will, and personality. All play a very important role.
You can find that many children have bad habits, large and small, and most of these are inseparable from family education. For example, a child sees a very interesting toy brought by another child at school and takes the other person’s toy home without the owner’s knowledge. The parents find out but fail to stop the child from stealing. .
Parents are invisibly agreeing with their children's actions, encouraging their children to develop bad behaviors and habits, which may lead to countless such situations happening in the future, even as the children grow up. Serious mistakes were made in the process.
Some parents scold and blame their children for trivial matters; parents also blame their children for poor grades. Invisibly, these words of parents hurt their children's self-esteem and hurt their children. Gradually, children become less close to their parents and do not tell their parents anything. The relationship between children and parents will become further and further apart, and the children's behavior habits will become more extreme.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to their own words, deeds, cultivation, and the impact of family education on their children. Closely integrated with school education to jointly cultivate children's behavioral habits and learning, so that children can grow and develop healthily.
Family education is the kind of education that has the deepest impact on a person's life. It directly or indirectly affects the realization of a person's life goals. It begins when a child is born and can even be traced back to the fetal period until a person is under the influence of family education throughout his life.