1. Life is full of contradictions: happiness and pain, happiness and sorrow, success and failure. We do not want hardships to appear in the journey of life. Everyone hopes that the road to life will be free of thorns and bumps. , there are no failures and setbacks, but we can always have happiness, peace and success. However, have you ever thought that setbacks can temper our will, enrich people's talents, and make people strong, so as to shoulder the great responsibility given by history.

2. In the face of difficulties, we must unite and work together to overcome the suffering; in competitions, we must unite and unite with boundless strength; in life, we must unite and unite, and twists and turns will become smoother in the blink of an eye. My friends send you your care and concern. May you be united and help each other in your life, and may you be filled with happiness!

3. If a person has no obstacles and is about to maintain his contented and mediocre state forever, then he will be stupid and confused, as contented as a cow.

4. Life is like tea, and human growth requires tempering. Human growth occurs in failure again and again, and human growth occurs in storm after storm. Without repeated tempering, how can we usher in the fragrant fragrance? Those who enjoy the warmth will only be filled with reluctance and regret at the end of their lives.

5. In life, you need to go through many ups and downs. Don’t be afraid when the wind and rain come, when difficulties and setbacks coexist, I will always be by your side. 512 I want to love the sun, and I just want to tell you that the one I love is you.

6. I can’t imagine the difficulties I will face in the future, and I don’t want to think too much. I have to fulfill my responsibilities and do what I have to do. Be happy, cherish your loved ones, and enjoy life. Don’t be afraid if you still want to marry the right man. In this world, if you live in the eyes of others and do everything for others to see, your body will be like a corpse and your heart will rot. Such people will never find their true self.

7. Only by standing higher can you see further. Only by trying can you understand the difficulties. Only by facing difficulties can you succeed. Only when you succeed and understand, will you be happy. Around you!

8. No one can succeed casually. The road of life is full of thorns. Setbacks again and again may make you lose all your energy, but opportunities again and again will always make you full of hope. . When setbacks come, please think calmly: The opportunity for success is waiting for me not far away! In this way, you can overcome setbacks and achieve success.

9. No matter how difficult today is, we must firmly believe that there is only a past that cannot be returned, and there is no tomorrow that cannot be reached. Don't forget what you once had. What you can’t get, you should cherish even more. What's yours, don't give up. The taste of life is always bitter and sweet, sweet and bitter. The scenery of life lies in knowing how to follow nature and find your own unique beauty amidst twists and turns.

10. During the Great Cold season, the weather is cold and the ground is freezing. It surrounds you. Diseases and diseases, big and small, run away from you with fear and despair. Sorrows and troubles completely dishearten you and abandon you. Pressure, difficulty, and heart-warming farewell to you. Good luck, happiness, fullness, coldness, and affectionate love for you. , health, safety and hardship will accompany you through hard work. I wish you peace, happiness, good luck and good luck in the Great Winter Season!

11. Please reflect carefully on everything left by pain! Once the suffering is over, the suffering becomes sweet.

12. The road of life is so long, and setbacks are like small stones on the road of life. We may be tripped by them at any time. What do you do when you stumble? Setbacks are like small crises. There are dangers but also opportunities. Pessimistic people only see danger, and if they fall, they can never get up again; optimistic people work hard to find new opportunities in times of crisis, and are good at seizing opportunities in crises. As long as there is still a glimmer of hope, they will Be brave enough to face and meet the challenges.

13. Difficulties are both bad and good things. Difficulties force people to find solutions, and difficult environments can train talents.

14. When others call it a difficulty, you regard it as a challenge; when others give excuses, you take the initiative to implement them; when others take their time, you work harder; when others complain about their hardships, you give them credit; when others fail to recover, you never recover. Never give up.

15. Avoiding difficulties is the loss of decisiveness.

16. Self-reliance is our confidence in overcoming difficulties, making us brave to face the problems before us; self-reliance is our commitment to facing society, allowing us to show our broad mind and noble realm; self-reliance is our maturity The symbol of self-reliance makes us diligent in thinking, dare to assume, and fulfill our responsibilities; self-reliance is the expression of our perseverance, allowing us to stand up again after thousands of falls; self-reliance is the reward we give to our parents and teachers , so that we learn to be grateful and repay the society.

17. The road to running is not smooth. Even if you expect to live a peaceful life, sometimes you will fall and fall very painfully. Maybe, you will get hurt, which is a setback. Although adversity is painful, experiencing setbacks and failures can increase the wealth of life. Suffering is also training. A life without setbacks is a life that seems lucky but is actually poor. When setbacks come, it’s how we deal with them that matters. As the saying goes: Frustration is like a spring. If you are weak, it will be strong. To face it or to escape? Is it a brave overcoming, or a needless sinking? Different attitude, different life.

18. Adversity reveals talents, while good times hide talents.

---Horace

19. The perspective of looking at problems will affect a person's realm! Negative people will think of countless difficulties first when facing every opportunity, while positive people can continue to look for opportunities in every difficulty. In fact, there are no desperate situations in the world, only people who are desperate for their situations! Cai Wensheng

20. When God gives a person a difficulty, he also gives a person a piece of wisdom Hugo

21. It is easy to look down on others, but it is easy to deal with yourself. difficulty. Following fate is a kind of enterprise and the behavior of a wise man. Accompanying is not following, it is letting nature take its course, not resenting, not being impetuous, not excessive, not forcing; accompanying is not being casual, it is seizing the opportunity, not being pessimistic, not rigid, not panicking, not forgetting the shape; following is a kind of optimism, is a A kind of freedom and ease, a mastery of human feelings, is a maturity of life.

22. Hardship and setbacks are the teachers of life. Some people fall down in the face of setbacks, some shrink back, and some people rush forward and overcome difficulties. Conquered setbacks. Such people are the strong ones in life; only such people will experience the joy of success!

23. Buddhism cannot replace us in facing real difficulties, it can only give us the courage to overcome difficulties. If you expect others or other things to change your predicament, but fail to learn from your experience and work hard, see yourself clearly, and do not save yourself, no one will be able to help you in the end.

24. There is a solution to every problem, and there is nothing unimaginable.

25. People are more strong and unyielding in adversity than in adversity, and it is easier to protect their body and mind when they encounter bad luck than when they are lucky. ---Hugo

26. Avoiding difficulties is the loss of decisiveness.

27. Independence means facing wind, rain and various difficulties on your own. If human beings do not act independently and survive in the embrace of others, then they are also a loser.

28. The difficult thing in this world is not the absence of love or the loss of love, but the inability to transfer this energy between each other quietly and fluidly. And let it extend the calm future in response. From this point of view, time is indeed not terrible.

29. When encountering difficulties, the stronger a woman is, the more respectable and heart-warming a woman will be. Being strong is not stubbornness nor toughness, it is the rational support of emotions. It allows the injured woman to cast her sights into the distance and give herself a reason to live a leisurely life. A strong woman will unlock her heart with a key; borrow a clear sky and embrace the sunshine. She will also find a shoulder to let the tears flow freely. Loved, hurt, cried, laughed. Then continue to be strong.

Thirty. If you want to eat or drink, the Party will help you with your difficulties; be leisurely and happy, the Party will help you realize your dreams; don’t be afraid of hardship, don’t be afraid of difficulties, the Party will be with you By your side; when July 1 comes, may you smile, and the Party will always protect you!

31. Life will not always be smooth sailing and wonderful. -- Suhomlinsky

32. When facing difficulties, those who dare to fight are the masters of fate! In a desperate situation where mountains and rivers are exhausted, if you try harder, you may be able to see the bright lights; in the severe cold of ice and snow, if you try harder, you will definitely usher in the warm spring breeze! Trust me! Only when you face all kinds of setbacks bravely and fight tenaciously will the God of success come to you with a smile! Sentences about suffering

7. Suffering makes people tough, and once suffering becomes the habit of living, people will be immersed in it for a long time, but will not have any superfluous feelings about the suffering itself. ——Qi Jin Nian

8. I have been thinking about one thing, that is, am I worthy of the suffering I have experienced? What is suffering? Suffering should be the soil. As long as you are willing to put your All your inner feelings, if they are contained in this soil, will most likely bloom into brilliant flowers that you can’t even imagine. ——Dostoyevsky

9. Suffering makes people tough, and once suffering becomes the habit of living, people will be immersed in it for a long time, but will not have any superfluous feelings about the suffering itself. Surrender is the same as being alive. This invisible will is extremely powerful. People in the depths of suffering never think of giving up their lives. Only through the comparison of happy experiences will we be unable to maintain the balance of perception in the strong gap. So fragile. ——The Year of Qi Jin

10. Although there are many sufferings in the world, the sufferings will eventually be overcome. ——Helen Keller

11. Please reflect carefully on everything the pain has left to you! Once the suffering is over, the suffering will become sweet. ——Goethe

12. Suffering is never terrible. What is terrible is the heart that is scared back by the suffering.

13. People who have experienced great suffering have the right to prove that creating happiness and enduring suffering belong to the same ability.

14. If suffering is eliminated, there will naturally be no need for sorrow, but if suffering is eliminated, everything will be eliminated. ——Shi Tiesheng

15. Don’t say to me: Suffering purifies the soul, tragedy makes people sublime. In silence, suffering has dulled so many sensitive hearts, and tragedy has destroyed so many frustrated heroes.

Why use the vividness on the stage to cover up the silence in life! - Zhou Guoping

16. If you keep improving in the face of suffering, you will definitely win success and happiness. It is inevitable that a person will suffer a lot in his life, whether it is from birth defects or misfortunes in life. But as long as you have the courage to face hardships and strive for self-improvement, you will definitely win applause, success, and happiness.

17. In fact, in life, you will always suffer varying degrees of suffering. There are no absolutely lucky people in the world. Therefore, no matter who wants to gain enlightenment from suffering, he should not worry about lacking the necessary opportunities and materials. The world is in trouble, and good luck is limited. The kind of shallow people who get carried away when they get lucky. I doubt whether suffering can make them deeper. ——Zhou Guoping

18. The real salvation is not the victory after fighting, but the ability to find the strength of life and peace of mind in the suffering. —— Camus

19. Loneliness and suffering make people profound. Perhaps nature or destiny wants everyone to become a little deeper, so a person can either actively enter loneliness, or passively endure suffering. ——Zhang Fangyu

20. Don’t tell others about your suffering. If you tell others, it will just be a joke.

21. Everything you have learned, every suffering you have suffered, will come in handy at some point in your life. ——Penelope Fitzgerald’s famous quotes about suffering

1. Suffering can actually be as beautiful as flowers. Because it can make people wise and strong, and it is also the cornerstone of success. So instead of escaping, we should face the suffering and let ourselves control our own destiny.

2. Some people say that suffering is misfortune. Yes, suffering often pushes people to a point of helplessness and confusion, but it often allows you to maximize your potential and reflect your own value. It was a rough and treacherous journey, and only when you fell down did you get up.

3. Smiling people are not without pain, but they are good at turning pain into poetry; smiling people are not without tears, but they are good at turning tears into spiritual lamps, shining The way forward. Smile is a kind of temperament.

4. On our long road of life, suffering may suddenly and mercilessly come to us. It will swallow up people's precious lives in a short period of time and destroy a good world. Disfigured beyond recognition. When some people face suffering, their choice is to complain without grace and not find a solution. The result may be that suffering will always accompany them throughout their lives.

5. Suffering is also something I must have. It will make me stronger. Suffering is also a precious spiritual wealth, pushing us to the other side of happiness. Life must not only have a gentle breeze, The calmness of the water is gentle, but the waves are turbulent and majestic. Life requires not only the quiet autumn moon, but also the vigorous spring and the bustling summer. Life not only requires the heroism of turning the tide, but also the conscientiousness of work. of cultivation.

6. "You have a demeanor towards pain when you are young, and you may become a strong man when you grow up." We should dare to face pain and respect suffering. Joy can be praised, but suffering is not worthy of praise? Anyone who cannot experience joy and suffering does not know how to enjoy joy and pain.

7. Understand the importance of finding the way and the difficulty of opening the way. And after going through that muddy and bumpy road, what is there to be afraid of? In this way, suffering cannot be regarded as misfortune.

8. Pain should be the ballast on the boat of our life. It is precisely because of its existence that our boat can move forward steadily.

9. Most people in the world are lonely, right? Articles that have not been praised, sincerity that has not been appreciated, beauty that has not been noticed, plots that no one sheds tears for, the sound of mountains and rivers that have been played over and over again in vain but never been said...

< p> 10. "The sun always shines after the storm, please believe there is a rainbow." We should face up to suffering, face suffering, respect suffering and praise suffering. Because we have suffering, we can feel sweeter joy; because only the happiness after understanding suffering is a real quality happiness. I believe that the book "Bronze Sunflower" will shock everyone's soul and change everyone's belief in life. Maybe, you will feel the same as me, and you will have a new attitude towards suffering: "Suffering is beautiful, because as long as you endure suffering and overcome suffering, you will definitely reap the sweetness of success!"

11. Laughing at the suffering is the perseverance of Sima Qian who endured humiliation and worked hard to write a book; smiling at the suffering is the unrestrained spirit of Su Dongpo who climbed high to express his voice without fear of wind and rain; laughing at the suffering is the uninhibited spirit of Xu Xiake who traveled around the world and wrote about his life. Through the dust of the years, the confidence and perseverance displayed by countless sages in the face of suffering have all turned into a crystal drop in the long river of time, shining in the sky of history.

12. Suffering, like death, is a festival that will inevitably come in life. Many times, we need the courage to stand up, face the suffering with a smile, and complete the gorgeous turn of life.

13. As long as a person has a belief and pursuit, he can endure any pain, persevere in any adversity, and adapt to any environment.

14. Life is not gentle and drizzle, there are rainy days and wind and waves. At this time, we should face it bravely and challenge the suffering. This process is very painful, but - as he said, "Bitter? Why is it bitter! I am a man, no matter how hard it is, I can get through it!". We can't change the fate of suffering, but we can bravely challenge and change our mentality. Be strong and don't complain about life. Life is deaf and it doesn't know what you are talking about. However, you can train yourself in suffering!

15. As young people, we are full of beautiful longings for the future, but a beautiful life will not be smooth sailing. Looking back on our real-life experiences in 2008, from snowstorms to train derailments to the Wenchuan earthquake, disasters are happening around us all the time. Why don’t we understand the times we live in and understand our “nation thrives through adversity” through suffering? Why don’t we realize the value of life and the strength of human beings through suffering? Why don’t we taste the joy of suffering through suffering? Touching sweetness, sucking the taste of great love.

16. I am glad that I live a pampered life, but I am even more glad that I feel the value of suffering in this book. Who can guarantee that there will be no setbacks in a person's life? We should be like bronze and sunflowers, optimistic about the setbacks and tribulations in our lives, and walk firmly on the road of life; we should be like bronzes and sunflowers, the more we dedicate our love to us in the days of suffering. The people who need it most.

17. Suffering follows us in our lives. Unintentionally, suffering has worn away many troubled souls and destroyed many frustrated heroes. However, suffering is just a dark cloud, which looks black from a distance. But when we face the suffering bravely, we will be surprised to find that it is only gray.

18. Everyone wants to have happiness, no one likes suffering. The pursuit of happiness is justifiable, but it is difficult to obtain happiness and happiness without going through suffering. After experiencing suffering, when you recall all the efforts in the pursuit, you will suddenly feel that everything is so hard-won and so sweet. This is a true kind of happiness. of quality happiness.

19. The coming of suffering is unpredictable and even irresistible, Goethe said. The weak sigh, but the brave raise their pure eyes towards the light. When you smile at suffering, you find that suffering is nothing more than that.

20. Life has both bright sunshine and cold wind and rain. The key lies in whether you have the courage to face it. Suffering has extraordinary significance, and life has the dignity of rising. In the face of misfortune, Helen Keller overcame the long night of the soul, Beethoven played the sonorous symphony of fate, and Hawking revealed the scientific mystery behind the black hole of time. All this comes from their positive attitude towards life and healthy and optimistic personality.

21. Only by walking with suffering can we better appreciate the beauty of happiness; by walking with suffering, can we know how to better grasp the present and cherish what we have; by walking with suffering, you can Life will be more exciting...

22. Without suffering, a calm life will always be incomplete. If I had to divide life into parts, I would name the biggest piece suffering. Because the benefits obtained after success are not just material things, but material things are just a by-product. The benefits of success are the pain before success.

23. Suffering is not only the most precious wealth, but also the best teacher in the world. Suffering is actually a teacher arranged for us by success. This teacher will teach you the methods of success without reservation and guide you on the shortcut to success.

24. When the wind and rain of life come, we must smile and sing the songs of life. When we feel that the future is bleak and the suffering is insurmountable, we must dare to take a step forward. Suffering is like a dark cloud. When we really face it, we will find that it is just gray. It is far less unattainable and invincible than we imagine.

25. Suffering can build a person or destroy a person. Suffering limits people's vision and suppresses their personality and dreams, but humble people show a kind of perseverance and tenacity in the face of powerful suffering, showing a kind of stubbornness in life. Only by daring to face the sufferings of life can we remain invincible.

26. The reason why the small stone has a round and smooth appearance is because it has been washed by running water for a long time; the reason why the small river has the beauty of agility is because it has to cross mountains and ridges. The reason why the butterfly has beautiful wings is because it has tried its best to break through the thick cocoon. Therefore, we can say that suffering is also beautiful, because suffering can make people wiser and stronger, and it is also the cornerstone of success.

27. Suffering is like the towering mountain. If you want to climb it, you must have perseverance; suffering is like the gentle water. If you want to cross it, you need ideal wings. A word about suffering

A word about suffering

1. We must learn to endure the many sufferings in life, learn to take responsibility, and learn to stand upright in our souls in tears. Life has always been ups and downs, and destiny has always been full of twists and turns. Because of the twists and turns and stories, our lives will be wonderful. Sometimes, crying is not giving in; retreating is not admitting defeat; letting go is not giving up.

So what if we fall down, at least we are still young!

2. Every day is a new day with new content. Don't be satisfied with past achievements and don't wallow in past sufferings. Let go of everything in the past and devote yourself to a new life, learn new knowledge, make new friends, do new work, recite new poems, listen to new music, and discover new brilliance. Every day is so good. And finely chopped, and loved.

3. I hope the tears will be filled with emotion, happiness and joy. I hope life makes people less miserable.

4. Today my aunt told me that you are good and you should be cherished. We regard good times as life, and regard adversity as not life, but an exception that we have to endure. We hope that it will pass soon and life can start again. With such a mentality, people must be anxious in adversity, with no end in sight to their suffering. You should adjust your mentality and think like this in adversity: This is my life, how can I live it meaningfully? If your mentality is calm and positive, adversity is indeed a kind of life.

6. When we face suffering, it is good to find ways to escape from it; if we cannot balance the situation and change the status quo, then face it with the healthiest mentality. Resentment, not despair, nor resignation. Only then can we truly absorb the nutrients of transcendence and growth from suffering.

7. I accidentally saw a strong and optimistic girl, which reminded me that there are not only hardships and sorrows in life, but also home and distance.

8. The real reality is insipid. It takes great courage to move from a very colorful world to an indifferent sobriety, because it requires your heart to give up your love for yourself. Letting go of care and contamination with desires, facing yourself bravely without lying, facing all sufferings, and accepting them requires faith. The truth can no longer control anything, it needs faith to complete, and faith cannot have impurities.

9. When one day we look back at the path we have taken before, we will realize that so many sufferings are just like that!

10. Adventure is about savoring suffering. Happiness or meaning can only be obtained in the process of pursuing it. Dostoevsky said: I am afraid that I am not worthy of the suffering I have suffered. Whether people in the arena are aware of it or not, they are always on the front line of passion. Whether consciously or unconsciously, one is always involved in the fate of life and death.

11. On May 5, 1996, the poet Ai Qing passed away. Ai Qing is a realist poet with a unique style who has had an important influence in the history of Chinese new poetry. His poems mostly integrate personal destiny into the suffering of the nation and people, conveying the aspirations of the times and the people. Chilean poet Pablo Neruda once called Ai Qing the leading figure in Chinese poetry in his memoirs.

12. I am not a revenge seeker, and I have no intention of writing the blood debt owed to us by Japanese militarism on the Japanese people's account. However, I believe that forgetting the suffering of the past may lead to disaster in the future. Mei Ruao

13. So wouldn’t it be great to go through all the hardships alone? No matter how heavy the rain is, whether you are holding an umbrella or soaking in the rain, you have the freedom to enjoy yourself.

14. People who like to make chicken soup are not very happy, but they have not experienced real suffering, because neither those who are really living well nor those who are really unhappy are easily incited by cheap emotions. Same goes for people who like to take selfies.

15. A passage I like very much: Don’t disturb other people’s happiness. Happiness is also one’s privacy. What you see in your eyes is a kind of suffering, but in others' hearts it may be a kind of happiness. This kind of happiness has nothing to do with glory, wealth, reputation or status, but only a kind of telepathy and tacit understanding. This kind of happiness is as silent as a flower blooming.

16. The temperament of a man: not afraid in the face of danger, but still ambitious in the face of difficulties; capable of self-reliance in adversity, taking responsibility for oneself; resentment can be rewarded with virtue, clear distinction between beauty and ugliness; fame and wealth are willing to take the back seat, and are ideal. Gallop; be kind and accepting of close friends, be open-minded and open-minded; be able to make decisive decisions when faced with troubles, be able to act cautiously; endure humiliation, be able to bear heavy loads, be perseverant and be perseverant; be able to cry when faced with weakness, dare to fight against evil; be not arrogant when it comes to merit, and often reflect on it afterwards; Always be consistent in your behavior and follow through on your words. Nan Huaijin.

17. Everything you have learned, every suffering you have suffered, will come in handy at some point in your life. Fitzgerald

18. We exaggerate our suffering in the hope of gaining sympathy from others. When others do not show the compassion we expect, we say they are cold-blooded.

19. More and more, we find that what growing up brings us is acceptance and endurance. Accept those who leave to leave, accept those who come in to come in, bear one's loneliness and suffering, in the end your world is still your own and has nothing to do with other people.

20. I know that suffering cannot make people nobler, but makes people humbler. It makes people selfish, petty, narrow-minded, and jealous. It attracts our attention to small things. It does not make a person more than a human being, but it makes him less than a real human being; I have cruelly written that we learn obedience not from our own suffering but from the suffering of others.

21. Once it rains, the road will be dirty and muddy, and everyone has to step on it. However, I have a life, and I am willing to work hard and make money so that all the suffering and hardship in this world will never be able to hurt her again.

22. There are evils in human nature that you can’t imagine, and there are also good things that you can’t imagine. When it comes to summing up life, everyone must calmly face and accept all the surprises and sufferings life has to offer, and no one is left behind.

23. The story is long, so tell it slowly and don’t cry; the road in life is still long, so keep walking and don’t look back; in the future you will understand that all the suffering and setbacks will make you the best appearance.

24. The past is the best guide to the future, and a nation must be worthy of the suffering it has experienced.

25. Life is like a big pot. When you reach the bottom of the pot, no matter which direction you go, it will be upward. The most difficult moment may be the beginning of the turning point. Changing the way of thinking may usher in a turning point. Optimistic and open-minded people can make ordinary life interesting, make difficult days sweet and precious, and make tedious things simple and feasible. Looking at the world with a normal mind, flowers blooming and fading are all scenery.

26. When you have experienced tears, sadness and suffering, you will find that happiness is holding your beloved one in your arms at night and watching tacky TV series.

Twenty-seven, I suddenly felt sad. We all went through the most difficult days, and then we were no longer together. Suffering will end, strong people will last forever, and bad times will eventually come to an end. But many of the days we think are the worst may turn out to be the best in retrospect. It's just that the suffering in the bad days consumes a lot of precious tenderness. When the good and relaxing days come, we don't have the extra courage.

28. Hard work cannot change your destiny, and suffering will not turn into wealth. What can really change your destiny is your state. The same simple life starts early and goes dark, some people drink poisonous wine while others work hard to catch up. Your efforts cannot determine the future, but they can determine whether you are a knight full of vigor and expectations in the present. You have to know that destiny is never the result in the future, but at this moment.

29. Suffering is the price of discerning good from evil, and faith is the only salvation.

Thirty. The rain falls on the body, and even more on the heart. Unspeakable suffering, endless grievances

Thirty-one. A way out, a way out, out, There is always a way. Difficulties and sufferings, being stuck at home is difficult.

32. Pain is a man’s nourishment. It is a blessing for a man to suffer a little when he is young, but suffering when he is old is suffering. Be an affordable man first and give others a sense of security.

33. If you put a handful of salt into a glass of water, the water will be too salty; if you put a handful of salt into a pool of water, the water will basically remain unchanged. The same handful of salt, different containers, completely different results. The same is true in life. Suffering is like a handful of salt. If your capacity is small, the suffering will expand; if your capacity is large, the suffering will shrink. Therefore, today we do not ask God to take away suffering, but to ask God to expand our capacity.

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Thirty-five, damn! I couldn't even watch the previous "Let's Date", but my dad actually wanted to watch "If You Are the One". I hate this kind of show about family affairs and blind dates and marriages. I neither want to find comfort in other people's suffering, nor do I have the compassion to worry about others. Why do Chinese people always like to be spectators in other people's lives?

Thirty-six. If you don’t want to accept your fate, you must fight hard! I always believe that if you work hard, you will get something, no matter how big or small, sooner or later, your efforts will never let you down. There is a gap that means you are not worthy of your ambitions and your sufferings, just because you did not stick to your beliefs.

37. Only regard good times as life, and regard adversity as not life, but exceptions that have to be endured. I hope that it will pass quickly and life can start again. With such a mentality, people will definitely be anxious in adversity, with no end in sight to their suffering. You should adjust your mentality and think like this in adversity: This is my life, how can I live it meaningfully? If your mentality is calm and positive, adversity is indeed a kind of life.