In life, being an elegant woman should be the lofty realm of a woman's life. Elegance is a way to show politeness. Nature, individuality, conciseness, harmony, intellectuality and well-off. It definitely refers not only to external beauty, but to internal wisdom reflected in various situations of life. If there is no elegance in the heart, it can't be said to be true elegance.
First of all, she must be a kind and generous person. Because of kindness, her eyes will shine gently and clearly. Her expression will be soft, because generous, will not produce bitter expression lines because of haggling, there will be compassion between heaven and earth. She must be well-read to have a good conversation, and because of the increase of wisdom, she will be less dull and boring, and she will not feel boring when interacting with her, which is what the ancients said.
She should have taste, know how to dress up, know how to match colors, and know the harmony between mind and body. Knowing what kind of clothes to wear at what age and what kind of clothes to wear on what occasions is proper. Taste also lies in the choice of friends and the embodiment of exquisite life details. I remember a friend once told me a line from an old movie, "How can life make do?"
She should also have a gentle, quiet and understanding personality. Although "Taishan collapses in front and its color remains the same" is exaggerated, she should also have her own opinions and ideas. Most things in the world have ups and downs, just as the old man said, "People have three ups and downs." When there are various changes at home, she should be able to face them independently and calmly. Instead of crying whenever something happens, it's useless, like a dissatisfied wife. What's more, it is "flying separately in the face of disaster."
She must be a diligent housekeeper, too. Home economics is very important. She should be considerate of her family. Only when her family is happy will she be truly happy. She should have time to dress herself, be considerate of herself, make up carefully, maintain her clothes in the morning and evening, and match them. The older she gets, the more time she spends. "There are no ugly women, only lazy women; There are no ugly women, only women who don't dress up. "
She must also have her own specialties and hobbies to accompany herself in her long life. People are lonely in the end, so that she won't be lonely and won't fade away because of loneliness.
An elegant woman should also be a beautiful woman. But beauty does not mean beauty. Beauty is a kind of natural beauty, which belongs to innate characteristics, so it has timeliness: beauty belongs to young people, not beautiful old people! However, there is no age limit for beauty, and beauty lies in the cultivation of the day after tomorrow: children have the beauty of children, and the elderly also have the elegance of the elderly. The connotation of beauty is: pure mind, good health, elegant temperament and proper speech.
Therefore, elegance means fighting against the secular and not being a vulgar person. To have this resistance, women must constantly strive to improve themselves: show their gentleness and charm in life and show their most elegant side in work.
At the same time, elegance must be based on health. A fragile woman cannot be elegant, and Lin Daiyu's beauty can only be appreciated from a distance. A strong body is not only a man's capital, but also an elegant capital of an elegant woman.
To be an elegant woman, you should not only have a healthy body, but also a healthy mind. Maintaining a tolerant and peaceful attitude is the foundation of elegance for elegant women.
An elegant woman should also be like a well, unfathomable, which is not obvious to a man at a glance. She will leave him endless imagination. Are shallow people elegant? Even if he is beautifully dressed, gentle and lovely, and can see through it at a glance, there is nothing elegant about it. Therefore, women should learn to hide so that others can only see the tip of the iceberg! A grandiose woman is not elegant.
An elegant woman should also have enough affinity. If a woman is strong at work, but always looks like a strong woman, it is by no means elegant. An elegant woman is the kind of person who can communicate closely with everyone and always smile. Smile is a person's eternal charm, it is an elegant external performance!
So how can we be an elegant woman?
There is a famous saying: "nouveau riche can be born overnight;" But three generations may not make a gentleman. "Yes, a gentleman is not made overnight. Similarly, women's elegance can't be imitated and can't be anxious. It is different from fashion: fashion can be chased and driven, and you can spend a lot of money to "flow in". Elegance is an eternal fashion, the accumulation of culture and accomplishment, and the precipitation of cultivation and knowledge. From a woman's elegant manners, we can see a kind of cultural upbringing, which is pleasing to the eye.
Therefore, to be an elegant woman, we must first increase our knowledge and let the elegant tree take root in the fertile soil of culture, so that it can flourish. Because an elegant woman must be a pure-hearted person, the best way to purify the soul is to learn wisdom, and the best way to learn wisdom is to read. "The book has its own beauty", "The book has its own golden house" and "The book has its own Yan Ruyu". People who read thousands of books will not have a pool of sewage in their hearts. Knowledge can change fate, just as knowledge can cultivate a woman's elegance. Therefore, if you want to be an elegant woman, you should read more books, especially some inspirational books, and constantly enrich yourself and improve yourself. Reading is of great benefit to personal conversation; Reading can improve a person's taste; Reading can make people enter another world from the realm of self. People who like reading are always good people, and only good people are qualified to be elegant people!
An elegant woman must have her own career! An elegant woman is not innocent girl, nor is she a wonder of rock climbing. An elegant woman is a Kun Peng who flies high and is a towering tree. Career is the foundation of all this. Need to have a certain economic foundation to support her taste. People often say that "the economic base determines the superstructure". Therefore, to be an elegant woman, you must also love your job, because only by loving your job can you do your job well. It is lucky to do what you like, and it is a kind of happiness to love what you do. Luck is not something everyone can meet, and happiness is something everyone can pursue. An elegant woman must be a happy woman, and the pursuit of happiness is the pursuit of elegance.
Elegant women should pay attention to maintaining an elegant image on any occasion, especially at home. Married women have endless housework every day. She always cleans the room, cleans the house, washes clothes and cooks in and out. Therefore, in this family environment, a woman should pay special attention to her image, don't dress herself up as a washerwoman, overcome her carelessness in speaking and doing things, and get along with her husband day and night, otherwise she should pay more attention to her image.
When elegance becomes a natural temperament, this woman must look mature and gentle!
Although the above can't completely cover all of an elegant woman, they are all necessary conditions for an elegant woman. I want to send this article to all the ladies.