Of course I agree! At the same time, behind the strong ability to withstand stress, you can feel it from the following three aspects:

1. The more you experience it, the more you get used to it. The success of successful people requires much more effort than ordinary people, and these are rarely understood or felt by people who have not experienced it. To give a real example, the owner of a business management consulting company in Guangzhou (I know him) specializes in helping companies attract investment. He has his own huge investment team and branches in major cities across the country. He can be considered a successful person. But what I know is that in the early days of starting a business, he went to bed at 3 to 4 o'clock almost every day and got up to meet customers at 8 o'clock.

2. Don’t have time and energy to worry about small things. As successful people, they know how to allocate their time and energy. On general affairs, they usually spend very little time and energy on coordination and layout. As for the implementation details, they will arrange for the team or subordinates to complete them; for relatively mature affairs, they don't even bother much.

3. The pattern is high. Successful people have a relatively high profile, and they will focus on a higher and further future.

Based on the above, successful people pay less attention to ordinary people, things, and things, and the outside world thinks that they are very calm.

Agree! Because: Did they get "Tao"?

No one can succeed casually. The successes of Zhu Zhiwen, Guo Degang and Jack Ma all illustrate the ability to withstand pressure. Be strong

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Whether successful people have stronger stress resistance or psychological endurance can be broken down from the determining factors: psychological (capacity), withstanding (pressure), and (solving) ability. Emotional Container

"When a cup is full, it will overflow." When 200ml of water is poured into a 100ml cup, it will overflow, but when poured into a 500ml cup, it will not even reach half of it.

If the moment when the cup overflows is regarded as the critical state of our emotional explosion, then the capacity of each person's "emotional container" is different. Obviously, the larger the capacity, the stronger the tolerance. .

We often use the word "open to all rivers" to describe a person's mind, structure, and tolerance. When a person's "emotional container" can accommodate more emotional states, when these emotions appear, he will be able to handle them with ease and be calm. Cognitive diversion

Diversion is about cognitive boundaries.

The reason why successful people are successful is often related to their cognitive dimensions. The significance of cognitive dimensions is that things that seem to be "certain" may not be "certain".

This incident must have been caused by XX, because... so the result must be...

The reason for this way of thinking is that our cognition is not divided. When cause and effect Relationships are inevitably formed, so when we see the "cause", it is equivalent to acquiescing to the "effect", and we fall into anxiety in advance starting from the "cause".

The cognitive dimension will allow us to see that a "cause" may produce different "effects", and there are infinite possibilities behind it.

When the pressure of an event is diverted, the pressure carried by each path is naturally reduced a lot. High degree of vision

When we stand on the road, as far as we can see, there are only two directions on this road, go forward or go backward;

When we Standing at the crossroads, you may have two more choices, you can have different directions, front, back, left and right;

And when we stand at a high place, you will find that the roads are intricate and intertwined, no matter where you want to go No matter where your destination is, there are always more options.

Height is horizon.

When ordinary people face a problem, there may be only one or several solutions. Once this road fails, they will fall into pressure and feel that "there is no solution";

When successful people face a problem, if one path doesn't work, they switch to another. If a solution doesn't work, they switch to the next solution.

Vision determines the number of solutions. When faced with problems, there are always ways to solve them, not just this.

Therefore, the psychological endurance of successful people may be that they have a higher degree of psychological tolerance, are better at diverting stress, and are better at finding solutions to spread risks.

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Successful people have a strong psychological ability to withstand stress. Do you agree? Why?

As an unsuccessful person, I strongly agree with this statement. Successful people may not necessarily have many college problems, strong abilities, or superior skills, but they must have the courage to persist, not be afraid of failure, and have the ability to withstand stress. Strong people.

No successful person will have smooth sailing. He will not become famous overnight as people say. He will experience many difficulties and setbacks. People with poor ability to withstand blows will shrink back when encountering difficulties, and may even be unable to recover. But People with strong stress tolerance will look for a way out in desperate situations, and may do so many times.

Agree. This is a necessary psychological quality.

Success is really difficult. Some people never succeed in their whole life, which is normal. Some people say that people who start businesses and do business are the so-called successful people. It can be said that they are successful people. A narrow escape from death. Come and go in the wind and rain, and almost suffer most of the sufferings in the world. This is really not a boast, as can be seen from some people's memoirs and personal biographies.

Let’s not talk about the experience of Huawei CEO Ren Zhengfei. If you put it on ordinary people, they would either give up early or commit suicide due to the stress and depression. In short, this It is not a life experience that ordinary people can afford. If you don’t have a strong psychological quality, you simply can’t bear it. Shi Yuzhu of Giant Company also went from being the richest man to being the first loser. Try to think about it, most of us feel a lot of pressure when we owe others hundreds of thousands of dollars. These people often owe millions or even tens of millions, and they still have to think about making a comeback. This is really not something that ordinary people can bear. pressure.

When heaven entrusts people with great responsibilities, they must first work hard on their minds, muscles and bones, and starve their bodies and skin... This passage from the ancients is a summary of the path that successful people must take before success. How could it be possible to succeed so easily without enduring so much hardship! Especially for ordinary people nowadays, who do not have excellent opportunities, luck, certain psychological quality, courage, courage and structure, it is not easy to succeed.

Everyone is discussing the glory of successful people enthusiastically. How many people have seen the cruel experiences of successful people on the road!

Personal opinion, for reference only!

Agree!

Success does not come casually. Soldiers need to practice hard. Entrepreneurs have to go through a life of nine deaths... Politicians have to play a life-and-death game. Without a strong psychological quality to withstand stress, you will not be able to handle difficult and complex situations. You must remain calm even when the mountain is overwhelming, and face life situations calmly and calmly! Successful people must have extremely strong psychological quality and ability to withstand stress.

A successful person must have something special about him or her. The so-called inner endurance should be higher than that of ordinary people. It usually talks about the relative strength of goal, pressure, perseverance, and ability. In addition, a driving force is generated. If a certain undertaking persists in reality for a long time, it will definitely have significant results, which is what people call success. Of course, the success of each class also varies. How does a successful person cultivate his strong inner self? This lies in the environment in which this person lives, the teachers he meets and his sincere pursuit, respect, etiquette, wisdom, etc., which are inseparable. This is what is called opportunity. No matter where such a person is, They all have a certain amount of energy and affinity, as well as the ability to achieve success.

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Agree, you cannot achieve great results without the ability to withstand stress.

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When I saw the question, I suddenly thought of the movie "Partners in China". The prototype of Cheng Dongqing played by Huang Xiaoming is Yu Minhong, the current boss of New Oriental. It was also the most difficult moment for him to start a business at that time. It took me three college entrance examinations to get into Peking University. I applied to study abroad many times without success. My girlfriend even broke up with me and went abroad. I was expelled from the school because I took extra classes outside the school. I lost my relationship, lost my job, drifted to Beijing, and had no money. It doesn't matter, what should I do?

A portrait of his life. This is such a strong heart. Even at the moment of despair, you are still looking for hope and persisting in your faith. The greater the setbacks and difficulties, the more you can prove your strength, because setbacks are your medals of victory, and difficulties are your certificates of success. It is precisely because of setbacks and difficulties that you become a successful and better you.