A tolerant story

Zi Gong, a student of Confucius, once asked Confucius, "Teacher, is there a sentence that can be used as a principle of being a man?" Confucius said, "This is probably forgiveness." "Forgiveness", in today's words, is tolerance.

A prime minister is big-minded-broad-minded/broad-minded/magnanimous.

Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".

Offer a birch and ask for whipping ―― Humble and sincere apology.

Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".

Renyi Hu tong

Dong was a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, and was an official in Beijing during the Ming Dynasty. One day, he received a letter from home saying that his house was built to lay a foundation, and he had a quarrel with his neighbor, hoping that he could use his power to solve the matter. Dong immediately wrote a book after reading it, saying, "A thousand miles to send books is just for the wall, and I can't help laughing and breaking my heart;" You are very kind to me and close to me. Why not give up both feet? "After the family saw it, they felt that Dong made sense. When building a house, they voluntarily gave up a few feet of land. Neighbors saw Dong Jia's behavior and felt something, so they followed suit. As a result, the two houses were eight feet wide, and after the houses were built, there was an alley called Renyi Hutong.

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Liszt accepts students.

There is a girl who is going to give a concert. The poster says that she is a student of Liszt. Liszt appeared in front of the girl the day before the performance. The girl was frightened and sobbed, claiming that she had no livelihood and asking for forgiveness. Liszt asked her to give him her bullet and give him some advice. Finally, she said brightly: "Come on stage and act boldly. You are my student now. You can announce to the theater manager that the teacher will play the last program of the party for the students. " Liszt played the last song at the concert.

Legend of Liuchi Lane

During the reign of Emperor Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, Zhang, a native of Tongcheng, went to Wenhua Hall as a university student and a minister of rites. The neighbor is another big family in Tongcheng, and the owner is Ye Shilang of the same dynasty. The two families had an argument over the courtyard wall. Mrs Zhang wrote a book for Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying was deeply worried after reading the letter. She replied to the old lady, "A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall, so what's the harm if it makes people three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "So, Mrs. Zhang told the family to stand back three feet and build a wall. Ye Fu was so moved that he ordered his family to move the courtyard wall back three feet. Since then, Zhang and Ye's two governments have eliminated barriers and become family friends.

Peng measures magnanimity.

More than 30 people, including Peng, commander-in-chief of the Third Army of the Red Army, inspected the terrain ahead, and the messenger shouted out of the way while holding the red flag. Only one soldier sat still. Peng shouted a few words when he saw someone in the way. The soldier stood up and gave General Peng two punches. Mr. Peng told him to hurry. Later, the messenger tied up the soldiers and went to see General Peng. Manager Peng immediately told him to go back to the Great Xia, knowing that he was in trouble. He's scared. He was deeply moved to see Peng Zong's indifference. Later, he said to everyone, "The commander-in-chief is really generous!"

Jesus: You have heard that you should love your neighbor and hate your enemy. It's just that I told you to love your enemies. To force your prayers.

It is also a kind of tolerance for Christianity to break through the Jewish law of "an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth"

A lot!

The father who indulged Zhuanggong was (that is, digging and slaughtering), and the mother was Wu Jiang, the daughter of the empress of God. In the 14th year of Zheng Wugong (757 BC), Wu Sheng was a prince, and in the 17th year (754 BC), he was born as a young uncle. Because of the dystocia at birth, Jiang's family was frightened, so Jiang didn't like him and loved his younger brother Uncle Duan. In 744 BC, Wu Gong was seriously ill. Wujiang repeatedly said uncle Duan Xian in front of Wu Gong, "I want to be a prince and a husband." (Shi XII) was the year when Wu Gong died of illness. He was born to inherit the throne. This is Zheng Zhuanggong.

In the first year of Zhuang (743 BC), the military commander requested to establish land (now Sishui Town, Xingyang City, Zhengzhou City) as a fief for an uncle. Zhuang Gong said, "There is no way, because the terrain in the city is dangerous and it is a military location related to national security." The military commander changed the tyrant Zhuang Gong to seal Beijing (now southeast of Xingyang, Zhengzhou City) as the Shu land. Beijing is the city of Zheng, with high walls, large population and rich products. Zhuanggong refused in his heart, but because of his mother's request, he had to agree. The doctor advised Jin Zhong, "Beijing is bigger than the capital, so it can't be used as my brother's fief." Zhuang Gongzheng: "This is the request of Jiang Mu's family. I can't help but listen! "

After Duan Shu arrived in Jingyi, he was called Uncle Jing. With the support of his mother Jiang, he never cared about respecting the monarch and governing the people. Instead, he recruited soldiers, reinforced the city walls, hoarded food and grass, trained, stepped up his expansion, and conspired with his mother Wu Jiang to attack Zheng from the inside.

Knowing that his mother was extremely unhappy about his succession, he also knew who he was and Duan Shu's plan to seize power, but his face did not change color. Duan Shu's abnormal behavior in the capital caused people's discussion. The doctor Jizhong said to Zhuang Gong, "All the capital cities are surrounded by walls of more than 300 feet, which is the scourge of the country. Therefore, according to the former king's system, fiefs should not exceed one-third of the state capital, one-fifth of the medium-sized ones and one-ninth of the small ones. Now that the capital is illegal, how can you tolerate it? " The landlord said helplessly, "Jiang Jia wants it, how to prevent harm?" It means that if Chiang Kai-shek wants to do this, where can I avoid this disaster? Ji Zhongdao: "When will the Jiang family be satisfied? It is better to find a place for Uncle Duan as soon as possible to prevent him from developing and spreading. Once it spreads, it's difficult to deal with. The spreading weeds are still hard to get rid of, not to mention your beloved brother? " Duke Zhuang said, "If you do more injustice, you will die. Let us wait and see. "

Zhuanggong gave in again and again, which made Duan Shu's ambition to usurp the country and call you a king grow day by day. Soon Duan Shu ordered the western and northern borders to obey himself at the same time. Then he brought two small towns near Jingyi into his jurisdiction. Lu, the son of the doctor, said to Zhuang Gong, "One country cannot have two monarchs. What is your master going to do? If you want to give up your throne to your uncle, I will serve him; If not, please get rid of him and don't let the people have second thoughts. " Zhuang Gong said tepidly, "There is no need to get rid of him. Without justice, it is impossible to win the hearts and minds of the people. He will be in trouble sooner or later. "

Duan Shu repeatedly challenged the authority of Zhuang Gong and endured again and again. Does he really believe that God will punish Uncle Duan instead of doing it himself? That's not true. This is because Zheng Zhuanggong, as a king of a country, can't put his feelings on his face. More importantly, Zhuanggong knew that if he started work too early, he would be talked about by outsiders, saying that he was unfilial and unjust, so he deliberately let Duan Shu's plot continue to be exposed.

In the twenty-second year of Zhuanggong (722 BC), with the encouragement of his mother Wujiang, Duan Shu personally led ten thousand soldiers to attack Zhengdu, and Wujiang was ready to open the city gate to meet them. The landlord got a tip-off on the day when his uncle left, saying, "It's time to start work!" "Is he ordered his son led 200 chariots to crusade against Duan Shu. Jing Yi people heard the news and rebelled in succession. Duan Shu fled and rushed out of the city (now northwest of Yanling County, Henan Province). Zhuang Gong attacked Yancheng again, and Shu Duan fled to the country of * * * (now Huixian County, Henan Province) to take refuge. Therefore, in history, it is also called uncle festival.

Raise a tiger as a menace: connive at the enemy, leave behind future troubles, and backhand self-harm. Fu Jian did not kill Yao Chang and Mu Rongchui after destroying Yao Jia and Murong Yanguo. As a result, Mu Rongchui was the first to rebel after the failure of the Feishui War in Fujian. Later, Yao Chang and Fu Jian died at the hands of Yao Chang.

Lure wolves into the room: bad guys or enemies are attracted in. As a result, I brought myself unimaginable trouble. Wu Zixu destroyed Chu, Shen saved Chu, Fu Cha destroyed Yue, and Gou Jian covered Wu.

Palliating and nurturing traitors: unprincipled tolerance will only encourage bad people to do evil.