? This passage is Lao Tzu's exposition of existence and non-existence, which roughly means: if you make a wheel, you must leave a shaft wheel in the middle so that the wheel can turn; If clay is used as a vessel, whether it is a bowl or a plate, its center or top must be empty before it can be used to hold things; In ancient times, to build a house, the middle must be hollowed out before it can be used for living. So you have a convenient dependence on something, but if you want to use it, you have to leave considerable space.
? After understanding this passage, you will find Lao Zi very interesting. Different from the various concepts of "being" established by the world, Lao Zi emphasized "nothing", the most famous of which was "inaction". Many people think that Laozi's "governing by doing nothing" is passive, but I think Laozi's "governing by doing nothing" means that you don't have to try to manage many things, and you are willing to design various schemes, but in the end it may backfire. Lao Tzu said that as long as people follow the "avenue", things will naturally be done well.
? Is that so? Looking around, we will find that many things are fulfilling this truth.
? The hottest topic these days is the event that a variety show received gifts from star fans. Actually, think about how this happened. Is that people don't know the truth of inaction. I quite agree with a sentence, which probably means that fans should not do anything for idols. As long as you like TA, let TA do the rest (make every effort to make TA better). This is what Laozi called "inaction", so we should leave room for things. But looking at the relationship between fans and idols in today's entertainment circle, fans will not take the initiative to leave enough space for idols, but will try their best to penetrate into all aspects of idols' work and life, almost to the point of omnipresence. In this way, all kinds of farce were deduced: the order of the airport was affected by the gathering of the airport; Chasing a car leads to a traffic accident; Fans tearing each other affects the idol's reputation; Protest idol work team; Including the intention to let idols be treated well by the program through gifts and so on. This is really hateful and ridiculous. On the other hand, do idols really like what TA fans do for TA? Did these behaviors achieve the expected results? Not necessarily. The author believes that the charm of idols lies in their own efforts. Never giving up, good or bad, will only make him lose himself, like him from afar, and let your idol know that only through more efforts can his value be better affirmed.
? Compared with ordinary individuals, "governing by doing nothing" reminds us to find more gaps when doing things.
? We often say that people should be modest and not complacent. Modesty is modesty, and emptiness is to leave a space. Modesty is actually to leave a space of wisdom for yourself. Many people who modestly say that they don't know much are usually wise and knowledgeable. Often those who are complacent are ignorant and have little knowledge. Because only people who are modest and willing to admit that they have a lot of ignorance will learn more useful things.
? This "blank space" thinking can also be applied to work. When looking for a job, you have to find a position with room for development and promotion, and your ability will continue to improve. To start a business, you need to find a market with potential or blank demand, so that you can succeed more easily. In management, superiors should also learn to delegate power to subordinates, so that subordinates have the opportunity to complete their work independently, thus cultivating their independent ability.
? Looking at life again, parents should learn to let go of their children; Husband and wife should respect each other and give independent space; Friends should support each other, but do not interfere ... so that both sides can maintain a stable and harmonious relationship. All these prove that inaction is a magic weapon to make our life more beautiful and happy in many cases.
? Therefore, today's people need to learn from Laozi's famous saying of governing the country, know the benefits of "inaction", learn to do subtraction for themselves, and especially don't do self-righteous or selfish things.