There are too many. Almost everywhere in these books is not as full of vernacular nonsense as in current novels, but has profound meanings. Old stories from the south of the city: I saw the big tree's mother gently stretching out her arms to wipe the sweat from her face. She covered the thin sapling with her huge body. Suddenly, there was a coolness. The green leaves, weak branches, and the faces of the saplings that could not withstand any blow did not show a sweet expression, but a depressed face, with an empty heart, calling softly deep in their hearts: Mom , how could you do this? There must be love in this world, but excessive love turns into doting, which harms my own children. Mom, Panasonic, your loving hands, let me understand life by myself! The big tree's mother didn't understand the child's wishes at all, and the little tree began to learn to struggle. She pushed her mother away hard and allowed the sun to "get angry" mercilessly at people. The little tree made up its mind: accept the test of the sun and grow into a towering tree. You must be familiar with the following paragraph. I read it in a textbook when I was in junior high school. There is a sentence in it: Dad’s flowers have fallen, and I am no longer a child. I haven’t read Yuanyuantang’s essays, I’m ashamed = = Letter from Fu Lei’s family: 1. If you do one wrong thing in life, your conscience will never be at peace! Really, Balzac said it well: Some sins can only be redeemed, not washed away! (January 18, 1954. Evening) 2. There is no end to passing the test of life. When you are almost done with it, you will have to leave this world again. (Night of January 19, 1954) The flowers and fruits irrigated by the gardener's blood and tears must sooner or later be sent to the world for others to enjoy. (January 19, 1954) 3. I disapprove of blaming yourself without taking action. This is the basic way of life. It's not just about someone or something. As I often tell you before, only facts can prove your intentions, and only actions can show your intentions. Don't be so careless with your friends. People who are not "thin-hearted" by nature, but behave in the same way as "thin-thin", are the most unjust and unworthy of the crime. Just like a person who is not naughty plays naughty but ends up suffering a loss, the same truth. (1954.4.7) 4. You understand all the principles of life, and the disadvantage is the lack of factual expression; I hope you will remember this from now on for the rest of your life. You have to explain everything to others! (1954.4.7) 5. People who have not experienced sharp pain will not have deep and broad sympathy. (1954.4.7) 6. A person venting requires mental health, not making himself more and more depressed. (Afternoon, June 24, 1954) 7. Regarding emotional issues...you must exercise restraint no matter what, put your future and health first. (Morning, July 4, 1954) 8. ...Use more reason and less emotion. Of course, that requires your strong confidence to control all troubles. It is not an easy task, but it must be overcome. (1954.7.15) 9. Be patient. No one will encounter times of depression from time to time, but they will pass soon. (Morning, September 21, 1954) 10. Try to ignore success or failure as much as possible, just do your best and feel no regrets. (Morning, September 21, 1954) 11. People spend their whole lives floating in high tides and low tides. Only mediocre people live like stagnant water; or only those who have extremely high cultivation can achieve no results and achieve true liberation. As long as the highs don't make you nervous and the lows don't make you decadent, that's fine. If the sun is too strong, it will scorch the grains; if the rain is too strong, it will drown the crops. We just need to be mentally balanced so as not to get hurt... Slowly you will develop a different mood to deal with the past; that is, you can think about it without being shocked, and you can analyze the causes and consequences from an objective standpoint for future reference. , to avoid repeating the same mistakes. Only if a person dares to face up to reality, face up to mistakes, use rational analysis, and thoroughly comprehend, will he not be eroded by memories... You should look at these things as the ashes of the soul. Of course, you will be filled with emotions when you look at them, but don't be deeply hurt. You should have the same respect for yourself as if you were facing an ancient battlefield. (1954.10.2) 12. Although the competition problem is a heavy burden, you must be mentally prepared anyway. As long as you try to put aside gains and losses as much as possible, you can be calm and completely relaxed mentally and physically. Only in this way can you hope to achieve good results... If you can often think of the famous saying "Essays are eternal, you know the gains and losses," you will definitely be much more relaxed mentally. Only in this way can we avoid the feeling of overwork and fatigue. The most tormenting thing is not mental and physical work, but worry! (Morning, October 22, 1954) 13. Work hard to relax yourself mentally, and keep it in mind so that you can achieve good results. Nervousness is harmful to everything. ... With the concept of "I am doing my best", when you are nervous, immediately relax yourself. Treat your spirit just like you treat your hands and fingers. Pay attention to relaxation at all times. (Morning, October 22, 1954) 14 You can’t be too busy on weekdays. When someone pulls you out, you have to make up for your homework. This will hinder your energy. Let’s just say no more for the sake of practicing piano. If you are not nervous, it is not advisable to be too busy; you would rather take some time to think quietly by yourself... Don't be too sentimental, sorry. If you make it a habit not to go out with others during working hours, you won't offend others. Life's energy is limited... (Morning, October 22, 1954) 15....Art is your lifelong career. Art itself is already exciting. You must not be overly nervous when practicing piano.

Life is limited, and energy is also limited. We must take a long-term view and run a marathon. You are an emotionally impulsive person, so you should restrain yourself more. (Noon, November 6, 1954) 15. ...Suppress emotions more, focus more on skills, and use reason more. I believe that fatigue will be reduced. (Noon, November 17, 1954) [This is what Mr. Fu Lei instructs Fu Cong to pay attention to when practicing the piano and how to reduce the fatigue of practicing the piano] 16. You don’t use enough effort; you can’t get good results without suffering enough! (Noon, November 17, 1954) 17. Anyone who practices skills all day long is an art craftsman rather than an artist. If a person cannot escape this level, he will never dream of art in his life! Art is the goal, and skill is the means; those who always only pay attention to the means will inevitably forget its purpose. (Night of November 23, 1954) 18... In fact, perfection does not exist at all. The whole life, the food street, and the universe are not perfection. To be is to exist in the ideals of philosophers and the ideals of statesmen. Our lifelong pursuit, and the pursuit of many generations of people throughout history, is nothing more than perfection, but it can never be pursued, because human ideals and fantasies are always endless, so perfection is like the moon in the water or the flower in the mirror, which is always within reach. And out of reach. But being able to achieve overall "completeness" or comparative "completeness" at a certain stage is pretty good.

(Noon, March 21, 1955) 19 The most severe hardships for people are unknown and uncertain! (1955.4.3)