A lost lover is always loved deeply.
Don't worry about the past
Don't worry about the future
Be realistic
With the past and the future.
This is the dream of many people. God cares for this smart, straightforward and bold girl. Although she was criticized a lot, she really gave her a lot of money, gave her original health and lived a luxurious life like a princess.
Even so, in the end, Xibao still has a sense of security, but his heart is empty. Finally, she put down the money that originally belonged to others and lived an ordinary life with her healthy body.
After all these troubles, I lost my youth, paid the price of my body and freedom, and finally got rid of Xibao's so-called happy and luxurious life. God will eventually take what doesn't belong to me.
In fact, everyone's life trajectory has been worked out when you came to this world. You must learn to respect the rules. You can try to live a better and happier life, but it also needs to be down to earth. Life is an equivalent game. What did you get?
Half a year before graduation, the school began graduation practice. Every day, there are overwhelming recruitment information and companies coming to school. It was almost the end of the year. I am bent on thinking that I will have less freedom when I go home with a job. Go home and spend the New Year with your family during unemployment. After reading so many company recruitment, I think it should not be difficult to find a job, so I didn't apply for any company and went home.
I came back after the New Year and found that most of my classmates were already at work. I haven't settled down yet, and I'm impatient. So I quickly found two companies for interviews, and then I chose a better company to work. I didn't talk about a job that was different from the interview until I really went to work, because I was an intern and had to obey the arrangement.
So I thought my desperate job turned into telemarketing. Every day at work, the leader will give me a phone bill. I started to make mechanical phone calls over and over again according to my words. It was ok at first, but then I lost interest. Every day, I feel that I have no room for enthusiasm. I have been thinking about when I can work in my favorite HR department, so I survived the internship and completed the graduation internship report.
Later, after graduation, I changed my favorite job with my major and the salary was very good. I didn't expect to succeed in the first interview.
I later learned that HR hired me because my tone, intonation and logic on the phone were better than others, so even before I went to the interview, they decided to use me, thanks to my most exclusive telemarketing work for half a year.
02
After more than two years of human resource management, I suddenly feel that I have reached the bottleneck period again, and I have no motivation to move forward in the work I was obsessed with at that time, and my work began to become lifeless and passionate.
I began to feel that this routine work has not challenged me, so I began to regret why I didn't directly do the challenging and high-paying job of sales!
So I resigned again and interviewed a sales company with great expectation. When I first came here, I didn't adapt at first, but later I became the fastest growing person among the people who came together at the same time. And I suddenly feel that I have found my own world.
In the sales industry, we face different challenges every day, and we face the work with passion every day. Sometimes I wonder why I didn't choose this industry directly.
But slowly, I found that my performance was good. First, my phone invitation is better than others'. Second, I know more about mind-reading and insight into people's hearts than others. And this happens to come from my previous two jobs plus two and a half years of exercise and tempering.
I have been working for seven years now, and I feel dissatisfied every time I am in it. The old job that I have been complaining about has become the most unforgettable and cherished day in my life. The leaders of the colleagues I met in the past are also the best partners and the most intelligent leaders.
Beggars envy rich people who have no worries about their livelihood. They drive out in luxury cars and enter luxury houses every day. I didn't know that the rich envied beggars having plenty of time to sit in the sun and enjoy life. They don't have to worry about their jobs, and they don't have to work overtime all night to squeeze in some time to have dinner with their families.
Some time ago, the movie "Xibao" starring Guo Caijie was released, and at one time the circle of friends turned to Xibao's sentence: I want a lot of love. If there is no love, I want a lot of money If there is no money, it is good to have health. "
However, no one noticed another sentence that Xibao said at the end of the movie, "What do I need so much money for? An ordinary person can take care of me. "
But she also forgot that she didn't think before saying this sentence. At the beginning, an ordinary man wanted to take care of her, that is, the boyfriend, the bartender in Chinatown, and the man who paid the tuition fee loved her.
When the ordinary man said, "I love you, I hope you are with me", she refused. She didn't realize that an ordinary man could take care of him.
Therefore, what we need to adjust is only the current mentality. What is a state of mind that is not bitter? A painless mentality is how to face the current emotion, how to understand it, accept it and solve it.
The rich people in "Xibao" have saved money, and their business is all over the world. There is more money than they can spend, but the spiritual world is still empty. He said: I only have money now.
I don't know how to cherish the people in front of me, and I don't know how to cherish everything in front of me. I don't know what happiness is. What can you do with money and power? None of his three children are close to him. Dead, dead, stupid, running away from home.
So it doesn't necessarily mean that rich people must live well. You don't have money, and life is not necessarily bad. The key lies in your understanding and mentality of the present happy life.
As the saying goes: contentment is always happy.
People don't know how to cherish, don't know how to be satisfied, and keep running forward, then you will never see how beautiful the scenery is along the way and never feel the surprise that the world brings you.
Xibao tells people that no matter how much things you have that don't belong to you, you still have to pay them back without inner stability.
Ji Bolun said: If one day: you are no longer looking for love, but just love; You are no longer eager to succeed, just do it; You no longer pursue vague growth, but just start to cultivate your own temperament; Everything in your life really begins.
So, please cherish, your present life is the one that suits you best and matches you best.
# "Flash Moment" Theme Essay Phase II #