2. Positive people see an opportunity in every worry, while negative people see some kind of worry in every opportunity.
3. Don't make excuses to fail, just make excuses to succeed. (Don't find reasons for failure, find ways for success)
4. A great man is great because when he is in adversity with others, others lose confidence, but he is determined to achieve his goal.
5. There is no desperate situation in the world, only people who are desperate. 6. When you feel sad and miserable, you'd better learn something. Learning will make you invincible forever.
7. among the easiest things in the world, procrastination is the least laborious.
8. People can do it because they believe in it.
9. The strength developed by a person with faith is greater than that of 99 people who are only interested.
1. Behind every hard work, there must be a double reward.
11. The establishment of great achievements in life lies not in knowing, but in being able to do it.
12. Any restriction starts from one's own heart.
13. Those who sow with tears will surely reap with a smile.
14, desire to enhance enthusiasm, perseverance to smooth the mountain.
15. A person who can see things from other people's point of view and understand other people's mental activities will never have to worry about his future.
16. A person's greatest bankruptcy is despair, and his greatest asset is hope.
17. Don't wait for opportunities, but create them.
18. If the greeting is just a greeting, what is the difference between it and the barking of a monkey? In fact, the correct greeting must clearly show your concern for him in just one sentence.
19. A few more minutes of preparation last night saved a few hours of trouble today.
2. Doing the right thing is more important than doing it right.
21. The perfection of personality is the foundation, and the establishment of wealth is the end.
22. There is no destiny that can be conquered without contempt, endurance and struggle.
23. Action is a good medicine to cure fear, while hesitation and procrastination will constantly nourish fear.
24. There is no innate confidence, only the confidence that is constantly cultivated.
25. There is only one way you can't choose-that is the way to give up; There is only one way to refuse-that is the road to growth.
26. The most pitiful thing about human nature is that we always dream of a wonderful rose garden on the horizon, instead of enjoying the roses that opened in our window today.
27. The quickest and surest way to conquer fear and build self-confidence is to do what you are afraid of until you gain a successful experience.
28. What is failure? Nothing, just a step closer to success; What is success? That is, after all the roads leading to failure, there is only one road left, and that is the road to success.
29. Let's change our worries into thinking and planning beforehand!
3. No matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step. No matter how short the road is, you can't reach it without taking your feet.
31. Any qualitative change in performance comes from the accumulation of quantitative changes.
32. Success doesn't happen in the future, but is accumulated from the moment you decide to do it.
a typical example of growing up in adversity
1. To be determined
means to stand firm.
Everyone has hopes and plans for the future.
Aspiration is the starting point of success.
With ambition and unremitting efforts,
we can make progress towards success.
1
and
Most of them were teenagers,
but Su Xun, a writer of the Song Dynasty, became angry at the age of 27
, and
determined to study,
stayed up all night,
and finally became one of the eight great masters in Tang and Song Dynasties.
2
Wang Mian, a painter of Ming Dynasty in China, was determined to paint the beautiful lotus flowers vividly when he was herding cattle. He painted day and night
, determined not to move, and later became a famous painter at that time.
3
Gou Jian, the king of Yue, was defeated by the army of Wu, endured great humiliation and became a slave to Fu Cha, the king of Wu. Three years later, he was released and returned to China, < P > determined to avenge his country's humiliation. He tried his best, and finally defeated the State of Wu.
4
, where there is a will, there is a way, and 12 customs will eventually lead to Chu; Hard work pays off, and three thousand more armour can swallow Wu.
-
Pu Songling
Second, struggle
means giving one's life and fighting fiercely. Metaphor is to do one's best to achieve one's goals.
1
, swim against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat.
2
How many beats can you have in your life? If you don't beat, when will you beat?
——
Rong Guotuan
3
Life is a hero, but death is a hero.
-
Li Qingzhao
4
Beethoven struggled to grow up
Beethoven, a great composer, couldn't go to school because of family poverty when he was a child.
After suffering from typhoid fever and blooming flowers at the age of seventeen, lung disease, arthritis, yellow fever and conjunctivitis followed. At the age of twenty-six, he unfortunately lost his hearing and fell in love
. In the tenacious struggle with life, his
will prevailed, and in the career of music creation, the fire of his life burned more and more vigorously.
5
Sima Qian wrote
Historical Records
Sima Qian inherited his father's business in the Han Dynasty, and
was determined to write historical books.
He traveled around and
read a lot of books.
Unexpectedly, when he was working on Historical Records, he was implicated by Li Ling's disaster. However, he was determined, endured humiliation, suffered
corruption, and was quiet and angry. After more than ten years of hard work, he finally wrote a masterpiece
-
Historical Records
3. Diligence
Industriousness is good at diligence, sweat is the dew that nourishes the soul, and diligence is the ladder to realize the ideal.
1
, the industry is good at diligence and wasted in fun, and the success is destroyed by thinking.
-
Han Yu
2
If the young and the young don't work hard, the old will be sad.
-
Poems of Yuefu
3
, Don't be idle, with a white head and empty sadness.
-
Yue Fei
4
No pains, no gains.
-
Xu Teli
5
,
Wang Xizhi and
"
Mo Chi
"
Wang Xizhi was a famous calligrapher in the Eastern Jin Dynasty.
He keeps practicing calligraphy every day.
After practice, he washes his pen in a pond at home.
Day after day,
the whole pond water was dyed black,
like ink.
so people call this pool
pond
"
Mo Chi
"
, also called
"
Xiyan Lake
"
"
" pen washing pool
"
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7
Sima Qian started writing Historical Records at the age of
42
and finished it at the age of
6
, which lasted
18
years. If you add up his work of collecting historical materials and field interviews after he was
2
, this Historical Records took him a whole
4
years.
8
Genius comes from diligence. Edison had more than 1 inventions in his life. In order to invent the electric light, he read a lot of materials, and his notes alone have more than 4 thousand pages. He experimented with thousands of substances and made tens of thousands of experiments before he invented the electric light.
9
,
"
Where is a genius? I spend all the time drinking coffee in other people's work.
"-
Lu Xun
Counterexample:
1
Fang Zhongyong changed from a genius to a mediocre person just because he didn't study hard.
fourth, perseverance
refers to a strong and lasting will.
the flowers of victory bloom in sweat,
the laurel of honor is woven with thorns,
overcoming all difficulties,
being firm and not
moving, and success belongs to the determined.
1
Perseverance can conquer any peak in the world.
-
English
Dickens
2
People should have perseverance, otherwise they will accomplish nothing.
-
Method
Madame Curie
3
There is no royal road to science, and only those who do not dread the fatiguing climb along steep mountain roads can hope to reach the summit of glory
.
-
De
Marx
4
Zhang Haidi Li Zhicheng
Zhang Haidi suffered from severe paraplegia since childhood,
he was on the verge of death several times,
his body was weak
small,
but
.
obtained a master's degree in philosophy
, and taught himself acupuncture techniques, and treated more than 1, people, making great contributions. Compared with Zhang Haidi, what should we
healthy people do?
5
Achievement and Sweat
① Wang Xianzhi, a famous calligrapher in Jin Dynasty, used up
18
jars of water to write, and finally became a master of calligraphy.
② Li Shizhen spent
31
years, read
8
various books, wrote tens of millions of notes, traveled to
7
provinces and collected
thousands of prescriptions.
In order to understand the detoxification effect of some herbs,
(4) Darwin, a British biologist, spent
22
years studying the theory of evolution and wrote the book The Origin of Species.
⑤ Madame Curie, a famous French physicist, has been experimenting for
12
years, and is not afraid of setbacks and failures. She has extracted
a few grams of radium from dozens of tons of minerals.
6
, Beethoven
"
Hold fate by the throat
"
; Japanese Prime Minister tanaka kakuei is not afraid of ridicule and tries to correct stuttering; When Li Bai met an old woman,
"
the iron pestle
was ground into a needle
"
; The case of Sima Qian.
5. Adversity
refers to difficulties, mostly refers to unsatisfactory, even very bad and unfortunate situations. It makes people sad and painful, but it can also temper their will. Jie
Almost all outstanding talents have gone through difficulties and obstacles and become strong people in life.
1
, born in sorrow, died in happiness.
-
Mencius
2
, therefore, heaven will demote a great post, so people are also
......
Zeng Yi was powerless.
(same as above)
3
,
Examples cited in Born in Worry and Died in Happiness.
4
Fu Cha, the king of Wu, is determined to avenge his father and defeat the powerful country
-
Chu; Greedy for pleasure, defeated by the small country he once defeated
-
Yue Guo.
5
Only after being honed can you
be king
After Pele became famous, a reporter interviewed him:
Will your son become a king of the ball like you in the future?
"
Bailey replied:
"
No. Because his living environment is different from mine. I was born
in a very bad environment in my childhood,
but it was in this bad environment that I honed my strong fighting spirit,
which made me qualified to be the king of the ball;
But he lives a comfortable life and has not been tempered by difficulties. He can't be the king of the ball.
"
6
, the sword front comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold.
VI. Success or failure
means success or failure.
success means that a career or work achieves the expected results;
Failure means encountering setbacks,
or being defeated by an opponent in a struggle,
competition
. Everyone is eager for success, but don't be discouraged when you fail.
1
Failure is the mother of success.
2
Success or failure is not eternal, but can be transformed.
3
, don't be arrogant in winning, and don't lose with grace.
4
Failure is often the darkness before dawn, followed by the sunrise of success.
-
hodges
5
and Edison invented the electric light. After tens of thousands of failures, he was never discouraged and finally invented the electric light.
6
Wellington failed without being discouraged, and rallied to defeat Napoleon.
(
Failure is an Unknown
)
VII. Time
Our life is made up of time, and even wasting a little time is a waste of part of our life.
1
Time is life, time is speed, and time is power.
-
Guo Moruo
2
Time is life. Spending other people's time for no reason is no different from killing people for money.
-
Lu Xun
3
, Don't be idle, turning a young man's head white and feeling sad.
-
Yue Fei
4
Don't idle away during the day, time will never come again.
-
Tao Yuanming
5
Do you love life? Then please don't waste time, because time is the material of life.
——
Franklin
For a brief account of specific events, please refer to some examples in
"
Diligence
"
, or sort them out by yourself.
eight, accumulation
refers to the gradual gathering of things.
"
Rome wasn't built in a day
"
, learning needs to accumulate over time, and you need to accumulate and work tirelessly to achieve your career.
accumulation is a kind of perseverance, the only way from small to great, the premise of success, and the process from quantitative change to qualitative change.
1
, persevere, the dead wood does not fold; Perseverance, the stone can be carved.
-
Xunzi
(it can also be proved that
"
perseverance
"
)
2
, no accumulation of steps, no miles; If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't make rivers and seas.
——
Xunzi
3
, the folded wood, was born in the end; The platform of a hundred feet starts from the base soil; The journey of a thousand miles starts with one step.
-
Lao Zi
4
, a drop of water wears away the stone, but the rope saws the wood.
5
, the embankment of a thousand miles, collapsed in the ant nest.
6
, disasters often accumulate in the small, while wisdom and courage are trapped in drowning.
-
Ouyang Xiu
7
and Li He only lived to be
27
, but they left many excellent poems. His success lies in accumulation. He carries a kit with him, writes it down on paper as soon as he
gets inspired,
puts it in the bag, and
takes out the paper at night to sort it out.
This has accumulated a lot of creative materials, < p