Baby, the reason why you feel some pain brought by fate is because God loves you very much. God wants you to undergo some tempering, which can increase your knowledge, sharpen your will and sublimate your emotions. "Suffering hardship" is a kind of life capital. In the growing season, suffering experience is a nutrient for people to grow up. Later, you will know that this nutrient is of infinite value!
Parents all over the world know how to cultivate their children by "suffering". For example, parents in Germany never take care of their children. German law also stipulates that children should undertake some obligations at home when they are 14 years old, such as polishing shoes for the whole family. This is not only to cultivate children's working ability, but also to cultivate children's sense of social obligation. In order to prevent their children from becoming incompetent, parents in Switzerland cultivate their children's spirit of self-reliance from an early age. As soon as they graduate from junior high school, they are sent to a well-educated family to work as maids for one year, working in the morning and going to school in the afternoon. In doing so, on the one hand, they exercise their labor ability, and on the other hand, they are conducive to learning languages. Because there are German-speaking areas and French-speaking areas in Switzerland, girls in this language area usually work in another language area. In Japan, there is a famous saying in educating children: "Except sunshine and air are the gifts of nature, everything else must be obtained through labor. Many Japanese students go out to work to earn money in their spare time. Work-study programs are very common among college students, even the children of rich families are no exception. They rely on restaurants to serve dishes, wash dishes, sell goods in shops, take care of the elderly in nursing homes, and work as tutors to earn their tuition fees. When children are very young, their parents instill in them an idea: "Don't bother others." The whole family should travel, no matter how young they are. American parents let their children know the value of labor from childhood, and American middle school students have a slogan: "You have to spend money to earn it yourself." When American teenagers are young, no matter how rich their families are, after the age of 12, boys will cut grass and deliver newspapers to their neighbors or their parents at home to earn some pocket money, while girls can earn money as nannies or help their mothers at home, and they can still get paid. However, some children feel that earning their mothers' money at home is not a skill, and they must go out to make money to show their ability to stand on their own feet.
A survey of examples at all times and in all countries shows that people who have suffered will be stronger. If you blame the people around you with the idea of "I shouldn't suffer", it will only make you suffer more, because this pessimistic and negative idea will not solve any problems, but will make you suffer more and more.
Baby, stop complaining, ok? Think about your situation, which is much better than many children. You should remember that the only effective way to face setbacks and pains is to say to them, "OK, come on, I will beat you!" " Then you can go beyond it and succeed! As a result of these two attitudes, there will always be only two kinds of people in life: the strong and the weak. Only the strong will have a good life.
Baby, what should we do about the problem of English temporarily falling behind? I have a good suggestion: you just need to make use of every opportunity to learn English listening, speaking, reading and writing every day from today, and make yourself the best English student in your class; In addition to English newspapers, magazines, novels, advertisements ... there is also a good place to go: the library. There is also a good teacher: Oxford is bilingual in English-Chinese dictionary, and you plan to read a few pages of the dictionary every day. Over time, you will become a fluent English master!
Baby, do you agree with my answer? If you agree, start acting! When you grow up, have a family, or be a mother, you may gradually understand and forgive your parents' original behavior, and still thank your parents for giving birth to you with gratitude. One day, you will find that you are the happiest girl in the world! Because you have a healthy body and mind, skills and self-confidence, you will have a favorite career, you will meet your future partner, you will have a happy family, and you will have a beautiful life!