Forgiveness is fierce, fierceness is broad, and politics is harmonious. The will is as strong as iron and the measure is as big as the sea. Only by respecting others can people be respected. People who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others. -(Russia) Turgenev A great man has two hearts: one is bleeding and the other is tolerant. -(Lebanese) Ji Bolun loves the people, and the people will always love them; People who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius Long Fang, a famous writer in Li Lou, quoted the definition of tolerance in the Encyclopedia Britannica in his masterpiece Tolerance: Tolerance refers to allowing others to act or judge freely; Patiently and without prejudice tolerate opinions that are inconsistent with one's own or accepted views. China Modern Chinese Dictionary explains tolerance as: magnanimous, unconcerned and not pursued. 1. Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. Be more tolerant of others, in fact, our life will have a little more space. On the road of life with friends, there will be care and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; Life with friends will be less stormy and more warm and sunny. In fact, tolerance is always sunny. 2. Tolerance means forgetting. Everyone has pain and scars. If you open them at will, you will create new ones. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuse, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget and life will be sunny and happy. 3. tolerance means not caring, even if things have passed. Everyone makes mistakes. If they cling to their past mistakes, they will form an ideological burden, distrust, resentment and reluctance, which will limit their own thinking and the development of each other. Even betrayal is not intolerable. The person who can bear betrayal is the strongest person, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong mind. With majesty, he can give people confidence and motivation, so he can prevent or reduce betrayal. 4. Tolerance is chic. "There are poplars everywhere, and every family has Chang 'an Road. "Being generous to others and tolerant of criticism is the way to success in your career and happiness in your family. Everything is haggle over every ounce, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and live a tired life. It is rare to go there once in the world, and chic is the most important thing. Tolerance is a strength, not weakness. Tolerance should retreat to advance and actively defend. The concession embodied in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in your own hands. Helplessness and necessity are not tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings. 6. Tolerance means that when others disagree with your point of view, don't force it. From a psychological point of view, any idea has its origin. Any motive has certain incentives. Only by knowing the root of the other party's thoughts and finding the basis of their own opinions can we put ourselves in the other party's shoes and put forward a plan that is more in line with the other party's psychology and accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We should respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence between them, and do a good job of sublation. 7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstanding from friends, too many arguments and "counter-attacks" are really not enough. Calm, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe this famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain growing in thorns. "If you can take a step back, the world will naturally be broad. 8. Tolerance also requires skill. Giving opportunities is not connivance, nor is it exempting the other party from responsibilities. Everyone needs to be responsible for their actions; Everyone has to bear the consequences. Otherwise, the other party will repeatedly violate the prohibition (mistake) and show weakness. 9. motto about tolerance: violet will leave its fragrance on its ankle. This is forgiveness. " -Mark Twain's way of being a gentleman is loyalty and forgiveness. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to me, and I want to do it without others. ("The Analects of Confucius") Taishan does not allow soil, so it can become big; Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can become deep. (Reese) "Tolerance moistens the earth like a drizzle in the sky. It blesses the tolerant and the tolerated. -A line from Shakespeare's famous play The Merchant of Venice ● Tolerance is the only test of civilization (asking for help) ● The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (william james) ● The spirit of generosity is the greatest of all things (Owen) ● There are many such occasions in life: what you intend to achieve with resentment and what you can achieve through forgiveness. It can be achieved through forgiveness (Sidney Smith) ● Forgive sincerely, and then forget (Britain) ● Forgiveness is human nature, and forgetting is god's nature (James Glenn) ● Tolerant people have the least patience, and tolerant people are the least tolerant (bernays) ● The noblest revenge is tolerance (Hugo) ● People who live without tolerance. But who can say that there is no need for tolerance? (Turgenev) ● God of justice, tolerance is our most perfect behavior (Wordsworth) ● Only brave people know tolerance; Cowards will never be tolerant, which is not his nature (Stern) ● Tolerance is either beneficial or harmful to people (Burke) ● Those who hurt other people's teeth but oppose revenge and advocate tolerance should never approach him-(Lu Xun) ● They want to be warm and smooth, but they don't want to be thorough. ● Let a hundred flowers blossom and a hundred schools of thought contend ● Strictness is love. It is harmful to spoil you ● Love you deeply, and blame you strictly (France) ● The family is not strict in recruiting thieves, people are not strict in taking risks ● Teaching is not strict, and teachers are not strict with you ● If you want to become a square, the rules must be strict ● Gentlemen love virtue, villains love tolerance ● Responsibility should be wide ● Responsibility should be strict ● Be strict with yourself, be lenient with others ● Be lenient with others, and be reasonable with feelings. Responsibility should be thick, but responsibility should be thin ● Responsibility should be with others, and forgiveness should be with others ● Try to forgive others, but never forgive yourself (Silas) ● Let go when it is time to let go, forgive others ● People who are not as good as you can't get sick (Xue Mingxuan) ● People should tolerate each other: everyone has weaknesses, and everyone can be chopped to pieces in his weakest aspect (Keats We must allow everyone to maintain their own personality (Schopenhauer) ● Combining leniency with severity, combining leniency with severity (Zuo Zhuan) ● Combining leniency with severity, paying equal attention to kindness and prestige ● Forgiveness with chestnuts, strictness with warmth (Huai Nanzi) ● The way to govern the country. Punish yourself for the mistakes of others. " The elegant Kant probably won't have a storm, and his mood will always be clear. We are furious when others make mistakes. It's all our own fault. Modern Dale Carnegie does not advocate tit-for-tat. He said, "There is only one simple way to really hate others, and that is to give full play to their strengths." If you hate each other, you can't eat meat and suck the marrow. As a result. I'm exhausted. Carnegie's "hatred" is another form of "tolerance". Hating others is not gnashing your teeth and gluttony your opponent, but absorbing each other's strengths and transforming them into calcium to strengthen your body. No matter how the wolf plays the role of "kind grandmother" and vows to be a vegetarian from now on, it is difficult to change its nature of eating sheep, but if it is completely killed, the sheep will easily produce plague. When two tigers fight, they are at odds, but once the hero is lonely, they don't need to be locked in the fence, and even the fierce tiger will degenerate into a sick cat. Treating your opponent as a friend is a higher level of tolerance. President Lincoln was famous for his tolerance of political opponents, which finally caused dissatisfaction among a member of parliament. The congressman said, "You shouldn't try to make friends with those people, but you should destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become me." In short, a more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend. Who made the greatest contribution after the successful closure of the Three Gorges Project? Pan, a famous water conservancy engineer, said in response to a question from a foreign reporter: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges Project have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." The existence of opponents can keep a clear head and do things more comprehensively. It can inspire your courage to accept challenges and generate the potential to show your life. This is not simple tolerance, but sharpening your will and sharpening your life edge. Although I don't agree with your point of view, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak. As many people know, this sentence contains the tolerant democratic core. There is a saying that three winters are warm, and tolerance is the warm sun on the snowy mountains in winter; Bad words hurt people in June. If you have tolerance, use it as an air conditioner to cool down in hot summer. Tolerance is a kind of beauty. Only when the deep sky tolerates the temporary ravages of lightning storms can it be clear. The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are raging for a while; The vast forest temporarily endured the law of the jungle and was lush. Rivers can only become big if they don't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, and it is a river and lake that accommodates all rivers and seas. Among friends, tolerance is the gold given to Guan Zhong. He doesn't care about Guan Zhong's selfishness, but he can also understand Guan Zhong's fear of death. He also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss. Tolerance with others is the torch of Emperor Guangwu burning books to defect to the enemy. Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang. He insulted Liu Xiu and even plotted to kill Liu Xiu's letters. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and ignored the opposition of all ministers. He put the past behind him, turned enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength, and finally became emperor. The fire burned the bad blood and forged a solid foundation for his career. You should tolerate other people's different opinions, exclude or even frame them. Because you know, exactly. The little shoes given to you may make you jump out of the wonderful "ballet" on the stage; A blow to you, like a barbell in an athlete's hand, will only increase your explosive power. Well-meaning words are a double-edged sword, and eventually they cut themselves; Answer blows with blows can only show that your "teeth" are falling off; Blood boiling, the most likely to lead to "high blood pressure." "One foot crushed the violet, but it left a fragrance on the heel, and that is forgiveness." andrew matheus said this in "The Heart of Tolerance". Tolerance is a flower fragrance. I have always wanted to be a tolerant person, but I don't know what to do. I always feel that this "tolerance" is extremely difficult to achieve. Until one day, I saw a cultural advertisement column in the carriage. Above is a two-line dialogue: "What is tolerance?" "Tolerance is the fragrance of trampled flowers." Suddenly, I can't help feeling that tolerance is so simple and beautiful! Think of that little flower swaying in the wind, trampled by horseshoes and run over by wheels, but as long as it doesn't die, it will still open its smiling face, stick its fragrance on the wheels, soak into horseshoes and blend into people's hearts. Such a broad mind, hidden in a weak flower, is neither worried nor angry, and has no intention of talking, but what have I been pursuing deliberately? Maybe many people, like me, do nothing but tolerate. But tolerance and forbearance are not at the same level. Tolerance focuses on "forbearance". Although I forgave him on the surface, as if nothing had happened, I still remembered it in my heart, resented it and just endured it. Tolerance is completely released, the wind does not take a picture, things have passed without a trace, and they no longer remember, even if they wake up occasionally, they will not pass by. The heavy responsibility of tolerance lies in "forgiveness", which requires a broad mind and a compassionate heart. Tolerance keeps your heart from suffering, and tolerance keeps your heart in vain. Tolerance is not weakness. Don't haggle over every ounce, don't delve into people, not afraid of him, but don't want to dispute with him, don't want to intensify contradictions, and don't want to lose both sides. Tolerance is to have a cool head when facing problems and avoid the worst results in the best way. Tolerance is not passive surrender, but active abandonment. When you give up those fierce words, impulsive behavior and desire for revenge, you are a tolerant person. Some people say that tolerance will become connivance for bad people. Actually, it is not. Indulgence is laissez-faire and irresponsible behavior. Tolerance is a measure of human wisdom, which is based on kindness, accompanied by persuasion and guidance of goodness, just like fragrant flowers inspiring people's souls. It suddenly occurred to me that Hugo's novel Les Miserables. The upright Jean Valjean was unjustly sentenced to imprisonment. After 19 years in prison, he became indignant and full of hatred for the world. He decided to take revenge on society after he got out of prison. After he got out of prison, he couldn't find a place to live. Your Lord Bianfu took him in and warmly treated him for dinner and accommodation. Jean Valjean, on the other hand, stole silverware from the bishop's house in the middle of the night. Caught by the police, he was sent to the bishop. Instead of sending him to prison, the bishop gave him two silver candlesticks and said to him, "You must promise me. You took this money to be an honest man. " Jean Valjean's heart, which planted hatred, was called back to his kind nature by the bishop. Until his death, he still kept the silver candlestick and abided by his inner obedience to the bishop's teachings. Tolerance is the greatest blessing in life. It was this gift that the Bishop gave Jean Valjean, which was more valuable than silver. The bishop redeemed Jean Valjean's freedom with silverware and saved his soul from dark thoughts and self-abandonment. If the bishop's tolerance hadn't saved Jean Valjean, this "miserable world" would have been even more miserable. Tolerance is not only to measure people, but also to cultivate yourself. "Caigen Tan" has a cloud: "Don't blame others for being small, don't send others private, and don't miss people's old evils. The three can be self-cultivation or far-reaching. " There is another cloud: "the quantity is wide and thick, and the device is thin." Kind and tolerant people live long because they are generous, avoid harm because they don't haggle over every ounce, and are respected because they attract people to be kind. If everyone learns to be tolerant, the world will be lush and fragrant.